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Originally Posted by something cooler
So is it good to try and slow things down by ignoring texts and phone calls? Or a bad idea?
I don't want a relationship, but I really like spending time with her.
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If you want to take things slow, ignoring texts and phone calls from her isn't the right thing to do. The majority of women are sensitive to that and they will blame themselves. If you dig this girl, the last thing you want to do is make her feel like shit.
The key is keeping a clear line of communication. Instead of avoiding her, in an attempt to slow things down, try talking to her about it. It's best to find out what you both want in the beginning so that there's no confusion should things begin to get more serious.
Honestly though, it sounds like you enjoy spending time with her and she makes you happy. There's always time for serious talks, (like what I suggested above), but just enjoy each other the rest of the time.