05-17-2013, 02:24 PM
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#1027
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Originally Posted by Lumpy
I should probably rephrase my answer. I dont believe that ALL nice guys finish last, but sadly, some do. It depends on the situation, though.
For example:
Lets say that youre an average looking guy and you really like a chick that you consider to be out of your league, (btw, I hate that phrase, but Ill use it here for descriptive purposes). Youre always nice to her and she considers you to be a good friend. Sadly, you notice that she seems to only be interested in dating egotistical douchebags that treat her like shit. So, you choose not to pursue because you feel that youre not her type and you fear that youll be rejected. Nice guy finishes last in that scenario.
What nice guy doesnt realize is that most, (but not all), women eventually get tired of not-so-nice guy and wish to find a nice guy. However, the problem with most nice guys is that they lack confidence, thus theyre not assertive enough to approach out of their league chick.
Its all about men having confidence, timing, and if the chemistry is right with the chick.
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Interesting. I used to be that guy but one thing I've learned with some of you gals is you love mind games.
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