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Originally Posted by Buck
I don't know that it's bullshit man.
That was my first vacation in a year and a half and it was ****ing ruined. She ruined it. And I had to put up with it for 3 ****ing days.
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She may be the devil incarnate and you may be perfectly justified in your anger, but giving her the silent treatment isn't the grownup way to deal with that. Talking it out with her now or telling her that you have to give some thought to what happened this weekend and it's going to take some time for you to figure it out are a couple of alternatives you have. Try to think about how you'd want to be treated if the roles were reversed and you just texted her apologizing for whatever it is that "you" did. Would you want to experience radio silence for a few days?
What was bullshit was that you didn't think it was a game. It's definitely a game. Don't play those kinds of games. Be upfront. Be honest. Be understanding. Be a non-game player and insist that she treat you with the same respect. And at the same time, allow yourself to move on if she's really not right for you. Don't just bail at the first sign of trouble though, unless it's a real showstopper.