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Originally Posted by keg in kc
I've never quite gotten the whole "trying to stay friends" part. Once a relationship is over, I want a clean break. There are too many complications otherwise.
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I ****ing agree.
And I've done it every single ****ing time in my life except for this last time where I did a 90%. I said, "no more texts." She obliged. I hid her from facebook (I usually defriend), I hid her from chat, I hid her statuses, I hid her friends that were my mutual friends. I was 100% over this girl, a girl I really liked...a girl I never fought with. We were at stressful times in our lives and it just wasn't working. Clean break.
She texted sometime a few weeks ago...she usually checks in like once a month. Whatever. I pass it off. Well we met up a few weekends ago and spent the whole night/next day together...
and of course I ****ing **** myself by being the moron that I am
and now last night was just a ****ing mess
...
so dumb
should have left it alone
I will never, ever do this again. Once I break up with/get broken up with...done. No friends. No animosity. No texts. No drunk dials. Just move on.
I hate being an idiot.