Life GF of 3 years left me yesterday.... - Page 3

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 07:55 AM

She's going for her PhD, it takes up a lot of her time & I felt a tad bit neglected. I know it's tough for her as it is but I told her how I felt. She told me in response that she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore.....

I'm still young & I've left a long relationship (4 years) before but this was different. She was more than my gf but my best friend too.....I was planning on proposing to her later this year but that's clearly out the window.

I'm getting 50/50 opinions from people on if I should just let her be & move on or fight for the girl I love / my best friend. She was all torn up hysterically crying last night when the conversation was going on.....Don't know, felt like I needed to air it out to a different crowd than my friends. What y'all think?

HMc · 01-04-2011, 08:21 AM

don't listen to people who say "everything happens for a reason" as its a tired meaningless cliche that suggests that events occur for reasons beyond your control.

That's generally bullshit, generally relationships (and start, or start again) end over behaviour that you CAN CONTROL.

FAX · 01-04-2011, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

oh yeah, I love playing hockey. If I had to choose between dating her & my hockey leagues. I'd tell her to go fly a kite.

I guess the same was for her school over me. Time to go on with my business.

Perhaps ... some day ... you won't have to make that choice, Mr. Pushead2.

There's a time for puckin' and there's a time for ****in'.

FAX

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by FAX

Perhaps ... some day ... you won't have to make that choice, Mr. Pushead2.

There's a time for puckin' and there's a time for ****in'.

FAX

she's the one who made the choice for studyin' over ****in.

Always down for puckin' & ****in'

MOhillbilly · 01-04-2011, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by HMc

chicks think about this shit differently - I wouldn't worry too much about that.

Like I (and everyone else) has said, create a perception that you're doing real well without her, and she'll want to come aboard again.

It's VERY difficult to do, but it's the way to do it.

Its not very difficult.

Reach down grab your sack and move on.

Easy. All win.

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by HMc

don't listen to people who say "everything happens for a reason" as its a tired meaningless cliche that suggests that events occur for reasons beyond your control.

That's generally bullshit, generally relationships (and start, or start again) end over behaviour that you CAN CONTROL.

People say that to me & I shrug that off, I think people say that because they have no other advice to give.

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

Its not very difficult.

Reach down grab your sack and move on.

Easy. All win.

Manly advice....I dig it

salame · 01-04-2011, 08:24 AM

so you don't consider me your friend pushead?

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by salame

so you don't consider me your friend pushead?

your avatar creeps me out but the girl sneezing catches me everytime. It's a toss up.

Frazod · 01-04-2011, 08:26 AM

"Everything happens for a reason" is right up there with "If you love something, set it free" and "violence never solves anything."

People who say these stupid things should be beaten until they stop talking.

**pr_capone** · 01-04-2011, 08:27 AM

Well if begging her to come back doesn't work, and ignoring her doesn't work... there is always rohypnol!

**TimeForWasp** · 01-04-2011, 08:28 AM

If you love someone , let them go.
If they don't come back,..............................

Hunt them down, And Kill them !!!

salame · 01-04-2011, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

your avatar creeps me out but the girl sneezing catches me everytime. It's a toss up.

I'll hug you until you feel better

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by pr_capone

Well if begging her to come back doesn't work, and ignoring her doesn't work... there is always rohypnol!

Definitely will not be begging her to come back.....

Radar Chief · 01-04-2011, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by frazod

You're probably screwed. Don't call. Don't beg. Don't grovel. If she pulls that "I still want to be friends" crap, tell her to go get a dog. The last thing you want to do is end up being an emotional tampon for an ex who's ****ing another guy and wondering why he can't be more like you.

She's already broke your heart - don't let her take your pride and dignity as well. There are worse things than being alone.

Good luck.

I hope you slide under a gas truck and taste your own ****ing blood!/ExRev

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by salame

I'll hug you until you feel better

This prevents the hugging from taking place, still a toss up.

01-04-2011, 07:55 AM
Pushead2 **** off Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: New York Casino cash: $7431882	GF of 3 years left me yesterday.... She's going for her PhD, it takes up a lot of her time & I felt a tad bit neglected. I know it's tough for her as it is but I told her how I felt. She told me in response that she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore..... I'm still young & I've left a long relationship (4 years) before but this was different. She was more than my gf but my best friend too.....I was planning on proposing to her later this year but that's clearly out the window. I'm getting 50/50 opinions from people on if I should just let her be & move on or fight for the girl I love / my best friend. She was all torn up hysterically crying last night when the conversation was going on.....Don't know, felt like I needed to air it out to a different crowd than my friends. What y'all think?
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