Maryville teen allegedly raped by football player

[Skyy God]

And wasn't prosecuted (probably) because the rapist's family was politically connected. There's no excuse for at least statutory under the facts as presented. Also. dude should probably avoid saying rape-y things on social media if he's still within the statute of limitations.

Here's a depressing story that will bring back memories of the Steubenville rape case. It begins with a 14-year-old drunk girl getting dumped on her porch by the high school football player who had just allegedly raped her, and it ends with her family being driven out of town by an unsupportive community.

A horrifying story out of Missouri: A mother was run out of a small town after her daughter blacked out at a party filled with older high school athletes and was left, with clear marks of rape, on the front lawn of her home in freezing weather.

The Kansas City Star details how the small town of Maryville turned against a newly-arrived family after 14-year-old Daisy Coleman reported that an older athlete had sex with her while another older male videotaped, after she was given an alcoholic drink at a party that left her barely able to stand. Her friend, a 13-year-old, was also made to have non-consensual sex.

After a thorough investigation by the local police however, clearly implicating 17-year-old Matthew Barnett in the sexual assault, charges were inexplicably dropped by the prosecuting attorney. Barnett, coincidentally, is the grandson of a prominent former Missouri state representative.

Star reporter Dugan Arnett writes,

Sexual assault cases can be difficult to build because of factors such as a lack of physical evidence or inconsistent statements by witnesses. But by the time his department had concluded its investigation, Sheriff Darren White felt confident the office had put together a case that would “absolutely” result in prosecutions.

“Within four hours, we had obtained a search warrant for the house and executed that,” White told The Star. “We had all of the suspects in custody and had audio/video confessions.

“I would defy the Kansas City, Missouri, Police Department to do what we did and get it wrapped up as nicely as we did in that amount of time.”

But no prosecutions ever came. The charges were dropped by the prosecuting attorney who didn't believe the evidence was strong enough. He dismissed any idea that political influence had anything to do with his decision.

In the meantime, the town had already begun to turn on the Coleman family. Threatening phone calls and online threats were directed at the family. Melinda Coleman had moved to the town with her four children after her husband, a physician, had died in a car accident. She was easily targeted by the community for being an outsider.
The parent of one of the teens at the Barnett house that night was the only one to comment briefly to The Star: “Our boys deserve an apology, and they haven’t gotten it yet.”

In a later interview, Rice [the prosecuting attorney] called it a case of “incorrigible teenagers” drinking alcohol and having sex. “They were doing what they wanted to do, and there weren’t any consequences. And it’s reprehensible. But is it criminal? No.”

Robert Sundell, who represented Barnett, echoed that sentiment: “Just because we don’t like the way teenagers act doesn’t necessarily make it a crime.”

After the charges were dropped, things just got worse for Melinda and Daisy Coleman. Daisy has struggled with depression and attempted suicide. Melinda had to move away from Maryville and back to the town she had lived in with her now-deceased husband. In April, the house in Maryville she still owned burned down under mysterious circumstances.

And Matthew Barnett, the young man accused by Coleman of raping her? He's attending the University of Central Missouri and apparently having a great time:

In a recent retweet, he expressed his views on women — and their desire for his sexual attentions — this way:

“If her name begins with A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z, she wants the D."

http://gawker.com/family-gets-driven...23656/@Tom_Ley

[stumppy]

Originally Posted by slapnutz_4

I'm not here to argue with anyone. All of these people talking shit is exactly why I wasn't going to say anything but just want people to think for one second what If this boy is innocent. You don't have to believe it just think about how this has effected him.

I have never called Daisy a name in my life and never will. I honestly feel sorry for her. Her mom has used this case for attention and money.

So anytime a 13 or 14 year old has sex drunk it's rape?

YES! Every ****ing time a 13 or 14 year old has sex while drunk IT IS RAPE!

[PunkinDrublic]

Originally Posted by stumppy

YES! Every ****ing time a 13 or 14 year old has sex while drunk IT IS RAPE!

He’s not here to argue with anyone just defend a rapist.

[PAChiefsGuy]

Originally Posted by stumppy

YES! Every ****ing time a 13 or 14 year old has sex while drunk IT IS RAPE!

Barnett pleaded guilty to a misdemeanor charge of child endangerment, brought because after the alleged attack, he dumped the intoxicated, unconscious Coleman outside her house, where she lay for three hours wearing nothing but yoga pants and a t-shirt in subfreezing temperatures. Barnett was sentenced to two years probation.

Coleman struggled openly with her mental health after that and she repeatedly attempted suicide.

Yeah I'm sure she consented to have sex while that drunk and after that be thrown out of car where she lay for three-hours unconscious..

He can't possibly be this ****ing naive.

[stumppy]

Originally Posted by PAChiefsGuy

Barnett pleaded guilty to a misdemeanor charge of child endangerment, brought because after the alleged attack, he dumped the intoxicated, unconscious Coleman outside her house, where she lay for three hours wearing nothing but yoga pants and a t-shirt in subfreezing temperatures. Barnett was sentenced to two years probation.

Coleman struggled openly with her mental health after that and she repeatedly attempted suicide.

Yeah I'm sure she consented to have sex while that drunk and after that be thrown out of car where she lay for three-hours unconscious..

You can't possibly be this ****ing naive. Come on man..

A misdemeanor and 2 yrs on paper is pure bullshit.

Just another example of the money driven legal system we have.

[The Franchise]

Originally Posted by PAChiefsGuy

Barnett pleaded guilty to a misdemeanor charge of child endangerment, brought because after the alleged attack, he dumped the intoxicated, unconscious Coleman outside her house, where she lay for three hours wearing nothing but yoga pants and a t-shirt in subfreezing temperatures. Barnett was sentenced to two years probation.

Coleman struggled openly with her mental health after that and she repeatedly attempted suicide.

Yeah I'm sure she consented to have sex while that drunk and after that be thrown out of car where she lay for three-hours unconscious..

You can't possibly be this ****ing naive. Come on man..

Did you quote the wrong person?

[PunkinDrublic]

Would the surviving family be able to sue that guys family in civil court?

[PAChiefsGuy]

Originally Posted by The Franchise

Did you quote the wrong person?

Yeah i did my bad

Originally Posted by stumppy

A misdemeanor and 2 yrs on paper is pure bullshit.

Just another example of the money driven legal system we have.

I apologize for quoting your post meant to quote a different one.

[stumppy]

Originally Posted by PAChiefsGuy

Yeah i did my bad



I apologize for quoting your post meant to quote a different one.

No problem, I figured that was what you did.

[TripleThreat]

Originally Posted by KS Smitty

No it was rape when she was sober too whether she consented or not.

Wait I’m a bit confused here. Legitametly asking, is this like a law or something?

Are you saying if you’re in highschool and having sex with your other highschool class mates, you’re committing rape?


Edit : I’m also not asking this question in reference to this story of the op at all, it’s digusting what happened her and is truly heartbreaking.

[Scorp]

Originally Posted by TripleThreat

Wait I’m a bit confused here. Legitametly asking, is this like a law or something?

You’re saying all the times me, and everyone on this board were having sex in highschool, we were raping each other?

Damn, I am a Serial Rapist then!

[PAChiefsGuy]

Originally Posted by TripleThreat

Wait I’m a bit confused here. Legitametly asking, is this like a law or something?

You’re saying all the times me, and everyone on this board were having sex in highschool, we were raping each other?

No getting drunk and having sex isn't rape unless the girl is too drunk to give consent. He is saying that consent is what makes rape, not alcohol, unless of course a girl is way too drunk to know what is going on.

[The Franchise]

Originally Posted by TripleThreat

Wait I’m a bit confused here. Legitametly asking, is this like a law or something?

Are you saying if you’re in highschool and having sex with your other highschool class mates, you’re committing rape?


Edit : I’m also not asking this question in reference to this story of the op at all, it’s digusting what happened her and is truly heartbreaking.

Depending on the ages? Statutory rape.

[dlphg9]

Originally Posted by TripleThreat

Wait I’m a bit confused here. Legitametly asking, is this like a law or something?

Are you saying if you’re in highschool and having sex with your other highschool class mates, you’re committing rape?


Edit : I’m also not asking this question in reference to this story of the op at all, it’s digusting what happened her and is truly heartbreaking.

This is what Missouri law states

Originally Posted by dlphg9

Not in the eyes of the law. In MO if a person is 14, 15, or 16 they can consent to sex with a person that is no more than 4 years their elder. At 14 years old a person can consent to sex with anyone from the age of 14 to 18.

There is some misinformation out there even on lawyers websites that states as long as someone is 14, then they can consent to sex with a person from age 14 to 20, but that is not true.

Also if the 14 year old is drunk, then they are not able to consent by law. That's why that weasel ****ing rapist said that she got really drunk after they had sex.

[KS Smitty]

Originally Posted by TripleThreat

Wait I’m a bit confused here. Legitametly asking, is this like a law or something?

Are you saying if you’re in highschool and having sex with your other highschool class mates, you’re committing rape?


Edit : I’m also not asking this question in reference to this story of the op at all, it’s digusting what happened her and is truly heartbreaking.

Speaking as a former 13 and 14 year old girl, granted it was a long time ago, the 13 or 14 year old girls that were having "consensual sex" were not doing it for pleasure they were doing it to be "popular" with the boys. They may not have been violently raped or even drunk at the time but most boys they were ****ing had little to no interest in the girls sexual satisfaction or pleasure. I'm talking 13 and 14 year old girls not high school kids.

The "age of consent" is a joke that varies from state to state.

[Bugeater]

Originally Posted by dlphg9

Not in the eyes of the law. In MO if a person is 14, 15, or 16 they can consent to sex with a person that is no more than 4 years their elder. At 14 years old a person can consent to sex with anyone from the age of 14 to 18.

That's seriously the law in MO? That doesn't make any damn sense at all.