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MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

**luv** · 03-21-2010, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by soopamanluva

What the he'll is wrongwith you?? You still feel for this bitch(because that's what she is) and you still sleep with her??? Dude don't kid yourself, you weren't banging her for revenge, revenge would be ****ing her sister...or mom...or cousin etc. You are having sex with her in hopes that she will come back to you. You ain't fooling me. What you don't realize is this chick is damaged goods, not worth to even be in your presence. If your self esteem was high enough, you'd see that. Your heart and your head aren't on the same page. Your acting on emotion like females and aren't using logic like men do. Doing that will screw you're whole world up. If you let her back in, you deserve everything you get. Raising another able bodied mans orgasm is not the thing to do. Sounds crude but maybe that's what you need to snap out of the fantasy world you're In

So, you're saying this is why my life is so screwed up?

Hammock Parties · 03-21-2010, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by bane_58

lol, I love black people

GoHuge · 03-21-2010, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Jilly

It takes a lot for me to throw my compassion out of the window, but you're just making the decision to ruin yourself over and over and over again.....seriously, stop. Have some integrity and enough self respect to stop.

When your having to figure out how to arch your back in different ways to be able to get your dick in because she has a belly full of another man's baby batter integrity and self respect went out the door a long time ago. I don't get this shit. She cheats, causes you severe financial strain, and your having sex with her while she's prego?

The only thing I'd do with her sexually is finding out if autoerotoasphyxiation has the same effect on a women as it does on a man.

If you're too much of a mental midget to break this pattern of behavior you need some serious help. If you guys have amazing sex that's great, but that's all you are to her and she's long ago checked out from the rest.

Have you tried ****ing other chicks? Haven't you ever heard the saying that nothing takes the pain away caused by your lover than the genitals of another? Trust me it helps. You'll want to get started on this sooner than later. Multiple draft picks is the key to a healthy love life. Throw numbers at the problem. I'm talking volume! Wash, rinse, repeat.........

**Bane** · 03-21-2010, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by GoChiefs

lol, I love black people

They sure can dance.

MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by GoHuge39

Have you tried ****ing other chicks? Haven't you ever heard the saying that nothing takes the pain away caused by your lover than the genitals of another? Trust me it helps. You'll want to get started on this sooner than later. Multiple draft picks is the key to a healthy love life. Throw numbers at the problem. I'm talking volume! Wash, rinse, repeat.........

Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife left, didnt help at all. None of them were as good in bed as my wife and I could barely even get off with any of them. Most of the time I didnt.

Obviously I have issues but what about her? What kind of woman is ok with ****ing two guys that both care about her and hurting them both? What about him? He know's she's ****ing me and he still wont leave her. He gets mad and yells at her about it but she does it again and again and he still stays. **** it I dont need counseling, probably just more time. Im going to get drunk and watch some b-ball.

Hootie · 03-21-2010, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

The fact that I cant get over her is my own fault. We've been seeing each other and sleeping with each other for the last 6 months. At first I was only doing it for revenge. It felt good because her bf knew it was going on and kept giving her chance after chance. I guess I just wanted him to feel a little bit of what I felt when he did it to me. Plus we have amazing sex, by far the best Ive ever had. I didnt think it was messing with me emotionally but I guess I was wrong. She has been telling me that she wants to get back together someday, but couldnt right now because she felt trapped since they were having a baby together. She says she still loves me and doesnt love him at all but Im not so sure anymore. Im starting to think she just likes ****ing two guys. There have been several times that I tried to end it, but she would always talk me into to it again and I couldnt resist.

lmao

you were ****ing your ex who was in her third trimester with another dude's baby?

that's Jerry Springer-esque right there man

soopamanluva · 03-21-2010, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by bane_58

You see this???? That needs to be you!!!! The responsibility isn't yours. The financial burden isn't yours. Be happy the ho ain't try to "Billie Jean". You need to count your blessings

Sure-Oz · 03-21-2010, 09:22 AM

I didn't read much of the thread but the only way to get over her is to find someone else that you care about more, but based off teh shit shes done to you, that wouldn't have to have been an option for me

soopamanluva · 03-21-2010, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife left, didnt help at all. None of them were as good in bed as my wife and I could barely even get off with any of them. Most of the time I didnt.

Obviously I have issues but what about her? What kind of woman is ok with ****ing two guys that both care about her and hurting them both? What about him? He know's she's ****ing me and he still wont leave her. He gets mad and yells at her about it but she does it again and again and he still stays. **** it I dont need counseling, probably just more time. Im going to get drunk and watch some b-ball.

Why the **** you care about how this bitch feels? **** her..... And him too! Who gives a damn what they do! I'm through because you don't have a lick of damn sense.

Hootie · 03-21-2010, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by bane_58

I've seen this before...

When people ask me why I make the stereotypes I often make...I often link to this video.

1adam1238 · 03-21-2010, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by GoChiefs

lol, I love black people

Please exit the walmart.

**The Franchise** · 03-21-2010, 09:26 AM

Dude....you need to talk to someone.....and that person is not on a message board. It's one thing to not let her go because of what happened to you. But it's a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT thing to not get over her because you're still ****ing her.

Go talk to a professional......a counselor....a pastor....****ing anyone who can help you sort through this shit. You're hanging out in a downward spiral....and it's not going to get better.

**Bane** · 03-21-2010, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by 1adam1238

Please exit the walmart.

Al Bundy · 03-21-2010, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Pestilence

Dude....you need to talk to someone.....and that person is not on a message board. It's one thing to not let her go because of what happened to you. But it's a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT thing to not get over her because you're still ****ing her.

Go talk to a professional......a counselor....a pastor....****ing anyone who can help you sort through this shit. You're hanging out in a downward spiral....and it's not going to get better.

Pestilence is dead on. Stay away from her... get help, be yourself. I have been through a divorce and it sucked. I was lucky... that bitch moved to California, where she became a Raiders fan......

Cntrygal · 03-21-2010, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife left, didnt help at all. None of them were as good in bed as my wife and I could barely even get off with any of them. Most of the time I didnt.

Obviously I have issues but what about her? What kind of woman is ok with ****ing two guys that both care about her and hurting them both? What about him? He know's she's ****ing me and he still wont leave her. He gets mad and yells at her about it but she does it again and again and he still stays. **** it I dont need counseling, probably just more time. Im going to get drunk and watch some b-ball.

That's where you're wrong.

03-21-2010, 08:05 AM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7544386	My ex had her baby last night... I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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03-21-2010, 09:26 AM	#72
The Franchise Most Valuable Villain Join Date: Dec 2006 Casino cash: $3195047	Dude....you need to talk to someone.....and that person is not on a message board. It's one thing to not let her go because of what happened to you. But it's a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT thing to not get over her because you're still **ing her. Go talk to a professional......a counselor....a pastor....**ing anyone who can help you sort through this shit. You're hanging out in a downward spiral....and it's not going to get better.
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