Not because of men being disgusted by it... for my health...at some point, yes.

It's a nasty habit. My ex-wife smoked, and I never have, but you wouldn't know if from the way my clothes smelled. She never even smoked in the house but it still permeated everything. Took weeks for it to go away after the divorce. And that's not even getting into what she was doing to her lungs.

Never again...

Not that my obesity is any better, health-wise. And it's apparently just as hard for me to crack as cigarettes.

Good, you'll have greater success doing it for the better reason.

I just keep making excuses... one day I'll wake up and say "NO MORE"... It's become more of a habit then an addiction... I think.

That's what it takes, a real desire to do it.

I'm in the same boat.

Its so easy to go outside and socialize (and puff) with the group of friends who all smoke.

Nobody's volunteered to help her with her oral fixation?

What's this place coming to?

Anyone get kissed?

Best first date EVARRRR!!!!

omigarrrrrrrrrrrsh let's drink red wine and cluck like hens over him

hay paint my nails

No details. Only that he came to get me since my car was stuck. Then he helped me get it out. I've got to calm down and get to bed. Wait to see if he calls.

:hump::hump::hump:

I actually quit smoking about 3 yrs ago because I was trying to get at this girl who didn't like it. After quitting I realized that everyone who smokes smells like complete ass, but you don't know it when you're a smoker yourself. I really just needed motivation, the quitting was pretty easy. Keep a bunch of those mint toothpicks around and pop one whenever you need to.

Well, I thought my date went great. I'm guessing it didn't go as well as I thought.

how come?

He apparently hasn't called.

You should have let him finish on your face, luv.








:p You know I'm just kidding. He could call still yet... mandatory waiting period and all.

That's so not funny right now.

I'm sorry. I really was just kidding. I hope he calls.

But... from a guy's perspective, you could call him and say you had a good time and would like to see him again. Ask HIM out.

:shrug:

when did you go out with him again?

I shot him an email this morning. Probably not the best idea. I told him that I miss talking to him, because I really enjoy his stories. I told him I thought we hit it off, but that I've had a weird vibe the last few days. I hope to hear back one way or the other. If he's not interested, just friggin' tell me. I guess, if I don't hear back, that's what he's saying. I'm bummed. I tried not to get my hopes up with this one, but he was just such a great guy. Probably the greatest date I've been on. Oh well.

Wedneday.

Maybe he's out of town?

Nope.

Maybe he's just a dumb ass who doesn't know a good thing when he sees it

.

Thanks.

I've just been trying to keep busy and not think about it. I mean, even if he's been going out with other girls, that's none of my business. Just a phone call would have been nice.

generally, Luv, if a guy doesn't call you, soon after the date, he's prob not head over heels for you and you deserve someone who will fall for you, not just think you're acceptable

Either you hit it off or you don't, there is no forcing the issue. Even if he was remotely interested, coming off as needy and clingy probably won't help.

Maybe he's a guy that buys into the "don't call for 3 days" thing? maybe he's busy? Maybe his wife is a hair dresser in chi's building?


That email was a mistake. Never show fear or desperation. It might have scared him after one date.

don't push any more. He'll call if he's going to. You can't make the next contact at this point.

He emailed me back with the "busy with work and house repairs". He wants to keep in touch, but I'm not holding my breath. We'll see.

He's a guy, so it could be true that he's busy with work and house repairs.

Regardless, leave the ball in his court. If you push and email and call and spill your guts, you'll run him off faster than gochiefs walking through a jr high dance naked.

I told him that, if he wants to take a break next weekend, that there's a movie coming out I want to see and invited him. If he wants to, he will. If not, eh.

I wouldn't say that's exactly true but it is likely too but...some guys got other stuff going on. I didn't call my current gf back, hell i was on a date with another girl then, but i was thinking about her. She actually texted me a few days later and i called her back. He is either not that interested or busy. If he doesn't call past a week and half i'd say move on.

Just cause you had 1 date doesn't mean you have to make him your everything. You say you're independent well do your normal thing and don't contact him, i mean its too late but for future, let the guy call you or what almost a week if need be and ask how its going. If he wants to go out with you he'll do the inviting...or give you some sort of hint.

If somebody really hits it off with you, there's no 3-day waiting period. They're calling the next day. Or later that night. Doesn't mean something can't come out of it, but I'd probably start looking for other options.

That is what I think - unless he is dead, or seriously injured, he'd be calling back in 3 days if he was interested.

He did text message me when he got home. I just think he's friendly though. Maybe not confrontational? Either way, I agree. I do believe that he's busy, but, if he wanted to see me again, it wouldn't be that difficult to make time one evening.

We're not all disgusted by it. I like it. That whole oral fixation thing.

Till you smell their breath

In his old age Skip has lost his sense of smell.

True, i hate chicks that smoked, blah

Nah, he just likes kissing her ass.

You guys are a bunch of girly men. Pussies.

If a guy doesn't ask you out again within 24hrs he's not that interested in you. A confident girl with spine & brains wont wait around for a guy who follows the "4 day rule". Don't be a doormat. A girl deserves a guy who's interested.

exactly my point

I agree with this.

If he's playing some bullshit 48/72/96 hour game, though, it also means he's immature.

Adults don't play games.

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The 4 day rule is mainly because of the games girls play not guys. Your damned if you do damned if you dont it seems. Those games are crap that both genders play and I never really understood it. Though after 20 you would think those games would stop.

Yeeaaaah...about that....

You seem to know me better than I know myself. I give.


Anyway, I did talk to him, and we're friends. He let me down easy. Nice guy. I'm just not for him.

I bet you will be once you're smokin' hot.

Sorry to hear that Luv. You will find someone just give it time and don't try to rush it.

No big deal.....keep moving on in your life. You'll find a guy who's really into you. It happens when you're not looking for it. It happened to me...and now I'm engaged.
























HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! kidding

Tell us the story of how you ran assbackwards into love.

Definitely not rushing it. He contacted me first originally, or I'd have never talked to him. I don't plan on contacting anyone. I'm just going to focus on losing weight, being okay with myself, and going through the daily grind. Those are all the things within my control. I'm bummed, sure. Super cool guy. Won't be the last nice guy I meet, I'm sure.

That is a great attitude to have because if you don't like yourself another person probably won't like you either.

Just curious do you have any guys that you are interested that you work with?

It's easy......I wasn't really looking and my fiance ended up finding me. We went out on our first date (I wasn't expecting anything) and we really hit it off. Started hanging out more and more.....started crashing at her place....you know how the story ends.

How did she find you?

Ehh....she actually found me on MySpace. Ghetto...I know.

Come on man...details!!!

I'm not an attention whore.....so no.

YOU SUCK!

Just tell us what her initial e-mail was.

According to the commercials with Drew Barrymore, she's just using you as a bootie call then.

Nothing wrong with that.

Yeah except it turned into more.

myspace is for bootie calls?

Damn maybe I should start using that :)

Awwww.

I love Internet love.
Course, I love real life love.
And forbidden love.
And naughty subway love.


I think I'm just a hippie.

I don't even ****ing know how to make a booty call.

I can attract chicks online. I have a few on my facebook. But if there are booty calls to be made, I want to know how.

I so want to see that.

Well if someone wouldn't have ratted you out you would have had a booty call. :)

I guess you would have to find someone really close to where you live and hookup.

Naughty subway love? I think I missed out on that one.

Benjy Bronk sez Craigslist is for booty calls.

Well duh.

Ask. Its real simple PM me if you'd like more details not in the forum n all...

http://arianeb.com/dategame.htm#

How far can you get?

I got her into the hot tub and started making out, grabbed her tits. Tried to go for the gold and got shut down.

That sure didn't sound gay. No, not at all.

Clayton has made it to Connecticut.

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So I uploaded some new photos...and now fat bitches are coming after me like I'm wearing a cake suit. LeeAnn told me not to give fat bitches attention, but like a reerun I was nice and now I find myself chatting with FOUR of these jabbas all at once. I feel like Miss Hannigan in "Annie,"....only instead of "little girls, little girls," it's "FATTY GIRLS, FATTY GIRLS...Everywhere I turn I can see them!"

Send 'em a link to this post, that'll take care of your problem.

Fatlock:whackit::hump:

I have sympathy for you which is unusual. I would suggest to stop contacting them through the beloved internet. That is all.