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phisherman 02-16-2010 10:40 AM

it's your inner ghetto-osity coming out phil.

InChiefsHeaven 02-16-2010 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 6536058)
I can't order some fuggin chicken at company dinners :cuss:. I don't eat red meat and pork but I don't want to feed into the stereotypes of all we eat is chicken, greens and other soul foods.

Yes you can, you just give a shit about what people think of you. Order the chicken and enjoy it. What's the big deal?

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I have to tip more to change the perception of black people don't tip.
I used to deliver pizzas for Godfathers, and I can tell you honestly that about 95% of my black customers did not tip. The ones who did were very good tippers. Maybe there is something to that...

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Like the guy in the video, I have to try my best to bring out whiteness in my voice when talking to be taken seriously.
Instead of "whiteness," maybe you could think of it as "professional"...I don't talk at work the same way I talk around my buddies...

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Like the video subtle differences but they're there.
Subtle, but not earth shattering, and certainly nothing that is holding you back. Now, I'm certain that racism exists (on all sides, by the way) but I'm also certain that most people are good and do not carry racism to a level of hatred or deep discrimination. But lets face it, we all have a certain comfort level and we all have our pre-conceived notions about each other.

My question is, what do you want us to do about it?

RJ 02-16-2010 10:40 AM

The over/under for the first "How come we don't have a white history month" is currently at post #150. Keep in mind that the line can move.

wutamess 02-16-2010 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6536091)
Just order the chicken. Nobody actually cares. Do not order the collard greens though. I will make a stupid joke if you order some collard greens.

I have a similar complaint. I find my voice dropping some ethnic slang when I hang out with a few black guys. What is up with that? I certainly don't do it intentionally but I catch myself breaking into that mode. I can't figure that out for the life of me.

It's because you subliminally seek acceptance. Which is what we have to do to "blend in" for acceptance. BTW: I've noticed your black voice.

wutamess 02-16-2010 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Donger (Post 6536096)
I clicked on the link, but it wants me to sign up for something. No thanks.

Besides, you just wrote about me: "You of all people wont understand."

So, why should I bother? That seems to be your default answer. No, I'll never know what it's like to be black. Just as you'll never know or understand what it's like to be white.

Cancel the popup and hit play again and it'll play.
Thanks for trying.

Donger 02-16-2010 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 6536095)
Well being myself I like baggy jeans... Hip hop... flashy shirts, etc.

I'd think you should dress appropriately for the situation.

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 6536095)
I don't like having to bring out my white voice as I'd rather be myself. But if I want to get ahead, I have to "play the game".

WTF is your "white voice"?

wutamess 02-16-2010 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Donger (Post 6536096)
Just as you'll never know or understand what it's like to be white.

I have a better idea about what it's like than you have about what it's like being black. Remember, (unless I'm a CEO or something) we have to simulate whites in order to get ahead. You don't have to do that.

Phobia 02-16-2010 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 6536102)
It's because you subliminally seek acceptance. Which is what we have to do to "blend in" for acceptance. BTW: I've noticed your black voice.

Heh. I feel like a moron when it happens but it just flops out. The more black guys I'm around the more I take it on. I remember when I played a game of softball with one of your teams a few years back down in Knobtown - I was the only white guy.... Heh, I must have really broken out some slang that night. I also didn't tip and I ate some watermelon too.

Donger 02-16-2010 10:45 AM

Man, that black host really talks white! British white even.

wutamess 02-16-2010 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by InChiefsHell (Post 6536099)
My question is, what do you want us to do about it?

I'm not looking for handouts... Just for you to watch the video and understand our point of view and realize that we're not full of excuses.

We do (not me) tend to play the race card at wrong times and situations but sometimes it's warranted.

wutamess 02-16-2010 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6536110)
Heh. I feel like a moron when it happens but it just flops out. The more black guys I'm around the more I take it on. I remember when I played a game of softball with one of your teams a few years back down in Knobtown - I was the only white guy.... Heh, I must have really broken out some slang that night. I also didn't tip and I ate some watermelon too.

They were more concerned with your tight ass shorts than your slang.
They were thinking, "who's the wigga in the tight shorts? They don't go together".

Donger 02-16-2010 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 6536108)
I have a better idea about what it's like than you have about what it's like being black. Remember, (unless I'm a CEO or something) we have to simulate whites in order to get ahead. You don't have to do that.

No, you don't have any idea what it's like to be white.

If by "simulate whites" you mean being professional, intelligent and driven, I guess. Aren't there any black people that are like that and aren't simulating whites? Obama maybe?

wutamess 02-16-2010 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Donger (Post 6536123)
If by "simulate whites" you mean being professional, intelligent and driven, I guess. Aren't there any black people that are like that and aren't simulating whites? Obama maybe?

Donger watch the vid and then argue your point then I'll respond to any question(s)/point(s) you may have.

MikeMaslowski 02-16-2010 10:51 AM

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=217036

Wutamess, not sure if you saw this thread, but what is your take on it? I have to deal with racial shit all the time in the Army, and somehow, it's never taken seriously if it's black to white... i.e. using the word cracker, joking about white stereotypes, etc. If it was white to black...the white persons career would be in jeopardy. Maybe their job will be replaced by somebody that got hired from the AA list.

P.S. The movie is buffering, I will get back to you.

InChiefsHeaven 02-16-2010 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 6536117)
I'm not looking for handouts... Just for you to watch the video and understand our point of view and realize that we're not full of excuses.

We do (not me) tend to play the race card at wrong times and situations but sometimes it's warranted.

Don't know if you saw my earlier post about the convenient store and the barber shop incidents. I know this is not about ME per se, but I wonder if you would find those experiences I had satisfactory in helping me understand in some small way what it is like from your point of view?


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