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JOhn 07-07-2009 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by dirk digler (Post 5884640)
Yep. The best way to describe it is make yourself cold and business like. I was able to do that by forcing myself to hate her. After that it was all gravy.
does take awhile, but now I see her and think " thank god I'm not with her":shake:

dirk digler 07-07-2009 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted by KC Dan (Post 5884626)
I've been in your shoes and can tell you that what others have said is exactly true - Live on your terms not hers. If she doesn't like it, sorry but you don't have to answer to her anymore - seperation is a bitch and has consequences. I had to deal with the same thing and anytime that we had to meet for whatever reason, I just put myself in a state of mind that I am the boss, and if she didn't like my way tough #$%^. Underneath my exterior, I was sometimes not really in that mode but I portrayed it until it became second nature.

She obviously was done with you when she left. Now, it's your turn - TAKE IT, you'll feel much better in the long run.
:clap: Exactly.

burt 07-07-2009 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Simply Red (Post 5884635)
good, stay solid, and work on your diet, etc... you soon be knocking boots again.
I am actually keeping 2 at arms length right now. They will have to wait...even tho the next ex didn't. They wants some burt...they can wait for some burt!

JOhn 07-07-2009 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by burt (Post 5884656)
I am actually keeping 2 at arms length right now. They will have to wait...even tho the next ex didn't. They wants some burt...they can wait for some burt!
Then give'm some Burt....nothing like some strange to make you forget the ex. :evil:

MTG#10 07-07-2009 11:09 AM
I think I will get over this much more quickly once I get my own place and dont have to see her shit laying around everywhere.

Garcia Bronco 07-07-2009 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by RNR (Post 5884630)
Shit all this time I thought it was our thumbs :doh!:
LOL

Garcia Bronco 07-07-2009 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 5884658)
I think I will get over this much more quickly once I get my own place and dont have to see her shit laying around everywhere.
Put that shit in boxes and move it to storage in her name and send her the key

burt 07-07-2009 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 5884625)
Have my kids Friday but Im free on Saturday.
Awesome....I plan to be cheap on Saturday!

KC Dan 07-07-2009 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 5884658)
I think I will get over this much more quickly once I get my own place and dont have to see her shit laying around everywhere.
Someone already gave you that solution. Box the crap up, put it in the garage or outside and tell her to come and get it or it's heading to Goodwill. Do not give her an option.

Demonpenz 07-07-2009 11:10 AM
you had to take off your bad idea jeans

burt 07-07-2009 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted by JOhn (Post 5884646)
does take awhile, but now I see her and think " thank god I'm not with her":shake:
A lousy lay sure did help get to that point!

Baby Lee 07-07-2009 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Simply Red (Post 5884527)
In all seriousness, it's time to mentally check out, Burt. Iowanian had it right on page one, seriously, get over it/her. She's no good, man. The quicker you get over her, the quicker you'll realize she was no good for you and all the BS you beat yourself up over will soon clear up and you'll realize she was not only partially to blame, but, most likely; MOSTLY to blame. Get a hobby, i've been running four miles a day and I LOVE IT! I'm gettin trim, and well, getting trim. My PM box is always open, i went through this BS too, you know? / run-on sentence
You forgot to pimp the baby blue pointy-pocket shirts.

JOhn 07-07-2009 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted by burt (Post 5884671)
A lousy lay sure did help get to that point!
Funny thing, the longer I'm away from her, the more I realize what a Bitch she was. You really do over look a lot of things when you're with someone. I mean my ex is nice looking, hot even, but does absolutely nothing for me when I see her now.

Just remember to focus on those flaws, and it will make it easier.

burt 07-07-2009 11:13 AM
If I make it down to Springtown and take MTG out for a party night....I just hope he doesn't look like his avatar! Neither one of us will get any.......

dirk digler 07-07-2009 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 5884658)
I think I will get over this much more quickly once I get my own place and dont have to see her shit laying around everywhere.
Guaranteed. Plus it is now your place with your rules. Don't bend them for her.


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