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Originally Posted by jaa1025
Yes, I feel like a 16 yo in this situation. I guess part of the reason I ended it was to make her realize that things had to change. I couldn't take her wanting to date other guys. She told me that if she doesn't date other guys and just dates me, then that's a relationship and she wasn't ready for that...with anyone. (still hung up on her ex of a year and a half I think). I don't know if I could have changed her opinion just by talking because she was dead set on this in her mind.
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Dude, though some here might disagree, sounds to me like you made the right choice in ending it. Maybe you did it for the wrong reason, but if you are looking for any kind of relationship, faithfulness is kinda important in my out-dated opinion, and if she is wanting to date around, then there isn't much hope for a relationship to grow anyway. No point in feeling like you've been kicked in the nads every weekend when she decides to go out all night with another guy only to come home to you through the week.
Though it doesn't seem possible right now to you, there are women out there that will top her.