This one had the same number of reps as the other one:
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Originally Posted by listopencil
I'd talk to the coach first. Make it a one-on-one conversation so both of you can be honest and polite about it. Be firm with your complaints and explain exactly what it is that you have a problem with, like ,"I really wanted to point out that you handle my child in a rougher manner than I do physically. She's not used to that and is having problems with it because it is something we stress to her at home-that people need to use words to express themselves rather than relying on physical gestures."
Once you express yourself completely, if the coach doesn't respond, than you need to take action. Clearly communicate to him that he is not to manhandle your child and that you will physically stop him if he keeps doing it. Go to the league and ask for an immediate transfer and explain to them in detail why you need the transfer.
I'd say keep in mind that you need to be as "professional" or "political" as possible, but under no circumstances should you allow anyone to treat your child in a way that is offensive to you or her. It will drive you crazy and will diminish you in her eyes, hurting your relationship with your child.
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