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Old 12-20-2010, 02:34 PM  
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How do you deal with this?
One of my oldest friends came down for the weekend who's been having a bad run of luck with divorce and money and the whole shitty economy in general. I've had $300 dollars in cash in the same spot forever, it's just cash on hand money that I keep in the house and it's gone.

I was roommates in college with this guy and known him since I was 10 years old. He already owns my $1300 and I think he just stole off me.

Can't even describe how I feel right now. I trusted this guy, he would have been the best man in my wedding if I got married next week. I feel like my Mom just called me ugly, I'm freaking heartbroken. How would you approach this? How do you even bring this up?

Jesus, I hope I'm wrong but I really don't know how I can be unless the money grew legs and walked away.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:36 PM   #2
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i would sit and wait to see what/how his reaction is. if he calls/connects in the same way as before.


and be double sure its gone & he was the only one who had access to it.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:38 PM   #3
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That's tough. I would probably call him and say, "Dude, you really needed it that bad? Keep it, and don't bother calling me again. Or put it under my door tonight and I'll pretend it never happened."
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:38 PM   #4
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Wow, that's devastating. I'm not sure what I would do. I've had my kids take money from me before, and it's pretty simple to threaten all their lives... turn your back, and the money will mysteriously reappear. Maybe try that?
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:39 PM   #5
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Why would you keep cash stashed in random places? You're just asking for trouble.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:41 PM   #6
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What a tough situation. Mo is right...make darned sure it's not there/somewhere else. But then I would just approach it directly. Don't play games, don't "test" him, anything like that.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:41 PM   #7
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Re-invite him over; stash some more cash in the same spot; but rig an exploding dye-pack.


Seriously though; good luck. That sucks man.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:42 PM   #8
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If you are certain the money was in the spot before your friend visited and are 100% certain he was the only person with access to it, then I'd talk to him and let him know he should have asked.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:42 PM   #9
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Why would you keep cash stashed in random places? You're just asking for trouble.
It wasn't random thats the problem.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:43 PM   #10
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Had this happen a couple times, by the same person the last time it was about $550 i went to his house beat the shit out of him as soon as he opened the door and that was last time I had money missing.

Later on down the road the guy admitted to doing it, and said it was for drugs and asked for forgiveness and I said hey, "money is always coming and going, but once you lose my trust that will never come back"
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:43 PM   #11
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Tell him all he needed to do was ask. That you thought you guys were better friends than that.

That sucks, man.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:45 PM   #12
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i would sit and wait to see what/how his reaction is. if he calls/connects in the same way as before.


and be double sure its gone & he was the only one who had access to it.
I did make sure it's gone. I tore apart the whole drawer where it was and unless someone broke in while we were out and left all my guns and every other valuable I have but took the money there's no other logical explanation.

If this was anyone else there would be kneecapping in the works but I can't with this guy. This is a shitty feeling.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:46 PM   #13
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best be sure he indeed is the responsible party, that's all I can say. That sucks brah.

Call me soon.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:56 PM   #14
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If you can confirm he did it, then he's not the friend you thought you had. Then, might as well confront him about it because your friendship is likely over unless you are extremely forgiving and willing to move forward with him on that level.
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Old 12-20-2010, 02:57 PM   #15
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best be sure he indeed is the responsible party, that's all I can say. That sucks brah.

Call me soon.
Trust me man, I'm trying to come up with alternatives of what happened but just can't find any. I'm going to sleep on it before doing anything.

For the sake of relevance to the board I feel like you and Bwana just kicked my dog to death before leaving the house. It's just that shitty of a feeling.

I have to get back into work, what a shitty ****ing Monday.
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