Fiance kicked me to the curb

Brando · 04-02-2005, 04:55 PM

Last Monday night she told me that she was no longer in love and wanted to end it.
What truly sucks is that everything was fine, then she went away last Friday night. Turns out she spent the night on the phone with an ex that used to cheat on his wife with her before she met me.
He e-mailed to tell her that they are seperated and then I got blindsided.
Fire away fellas. I'm totally ****ed in the head right now and could use some laughs.

Fairplay · 04-02-2005, 04:56 PM

You deserve what you get with that bitch.

Frazod · 04-02-2005, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Brando

Last Monday night she told me that she was no longer in love and wanted to end it.
What truly sucks is that everything was fine, then she went away last Friday night. Turns out she spent the night on the phone with an ex that used to cheat on his wife with her before she met me.
He e-mailed to tell her that they are seperated and then I got blindsided.
Fire away fellas. I'm totally ****ed in the head right now and could use some laughs.

I know it sucks right now, but THANK GOD YOU DIDN'T MARRY THE BITCH. At least she won't be leaving with half your shit.

Ultra Peanut · 04-02-2005, 04:57 PM

This may sound a bit harsh, but I think you're actually pretty lucky.

4th and Long · 04-02-2005, 04:58 PM

Welcome to my world bro. Mine left me the week of Christmas after 6 years and thousands of dollars I'll never see again.

Go get some beer and relax. Aint a damn thing you can do about the situation except pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get on with your life.

As a ton of people have told me, be glad it happened before you were married and had a few kids.

Brando · 04-02-2005, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by frazod

I know it sucks right now, but THANK GOD YOU DIDN'T MARRY THE BITCH. At least she won't be leaving with half your shit.

..she's keeping the big screen HDTV though. I paid for hald the ****in' thing and she has put her foot down on that.
I've been really tempted to call this guys wife and explain that they've been communicating via e-mail from her work account. That those e-mails can be used in court against him. She gets the kids, more money out of him, and my bitch loses her job. Something inside is holding me back though.

Ultra Peanut · 04-02-2005, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Brando

..she's keeping the big screen HDTV though. I paid for hald the ****in' thing and she has put her foot down on that.
I've been really tempted to call this guys wife and explain that they've been communicating via e-mail from her work account. That those e-mails can be used in court against him. She gets the kids, more money out of him, and my bitch loses her job. Something inside is holding me back though.

DO IT TO IT, LARS!

She took the ****in' HDTV! By extension, HE took the ****in' HDTV!

keg in kc · 04-02-2005, 05:01 PM

I'll provide some laughs later, I have to exercise right now.

A few pointers, though, before I go, important stuff:

1) It's not you. It's her. Say it to yourself until you believe it. Because it's true.
2) Do not, under ANY circumstances, let her back into your life in a romantic sense. EVER. She's done. Period.
3) You'll be fine.

Lots of folks here have some experience with this. A lot of us have been there.

Frazod · 04-02-2005, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Brando

..she's keeping the big screen HDTV though. I paid for hald the ****in' thing and she has put her foot down on that.
I've been really tempted to call this guys wife and explain that they've been communicating via e-mail from her work account. That those e-mails can be used in court against him. She gets the kids, more money out of him, and my bitch loses her job. Something inside is holding me back though.

It may be difficult, but the best thing for you to do is move on. This guy is doing you a favor.

You can always get another TV. (Personally, I'd pour a can of pop into the back of it when she's not looking, but that's just me.)

Brando · 04-02-2005, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by 4th and Long

Welcome to my world bro. Mine left me the week of Christmas after 6 years and thousands of dollars I'll never see again.

Go get some beer and relax. Aint a damn thing you can do about the situation except pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get on with your life.

As a ton of people have told me, be glad it happened before you were married and had a few kids.

Totally blows. It has gotten a little easier the last few days. I'm starting to pack my shit up, and I've finally realized that I don't have to be nice to her. It's been making it easier. I know it will get better, and I'm trying to remember how much fun it was chasing trim. Figure I've got a hell of a pick up line now and there should be absolutely no fear in being shot down ever again LOL.

4th and Long · 04-02-2005, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Brando

I've been really tempted to call this guys wife and explain that they've been communicating via e-mail from her work account.

That might not be a bad idea.

Fairplay · 04-02-2005, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc

A few pointers, though, before I go, important stuff:

1) Get Drunk.

2) Get Drunk.

3) Get Drunk.

Lots of folks here have some experience with this.

Brando · 04-02-2005, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by frazod

It may be difficult, but the best thing for you to do is move on. This guy is doing you a favor.

You can always get another TV. (Personally, I'd pour a can of pop into the back of it when she's not looking, but that's just me.)

I'm thinking about doing something to fuck up the guns in it so that the picture is never right again LOL.

**Donger** · 04-02-2005, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by frazod

(Personally, I'd pour a can of pop into the back of it when she's not looking, but that's just me.)

Heh. I actually did that once, although I didn't use soda.

Sure-Oz · 04-02-2005, 05:04 PM

**** the bitch over. Yeah and be glad it happend now rather than during your marriage.

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keg in kc oxymoron Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: OP/KC/Whatever Casino cash: $9556299	I'll provide some laughs later, I have to exercise right now. A few pointers, though, before I go, important stuff: 1) It's not you. It's her. Say it to yourself until you believe it. Because it's true. 2) Do not, under ANY circumstances, let her back into your life in a romantic sense. EVER. She's done. Period. 3) You'll be fine. Lots of folks here have some experience with this. A lot of us have been there.
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