Uh, WTF Time Magazine

[MagicHef]

Originally Posted by frazod

Again, what part of CIVILIZED SOCIETY don't you get? We all get hungry, we all get thirsty, we all have to piss and shit. THERE ARE TIMES AND PLACES TO DO THESE THINGS. It's not like a baby's going to starve to death if mom doesn't haul out her tit and start feeding it the middle of a crowded room RIGHT THIS MINUTE. We are human beings - we have the ability to control our bodily urges. We can wait a bit to eat, we can go thirsty for a bit. It's one of the things that separates us from animals.

And I like a nice tit as much as the next guy, but again, that's not the point.

So a baby's need to eat is less important than a grown man's need to not see a boob? It seems like the more mature adult could maybe put aside their feelings to accomodate a baby.

[Mr. Plow]

Originally Posted by MagicHef

So a baby's need to eat is less important than a grown man's need to not see a boob? It seems like the more mature adult could maybe put aside their feelings to accomodate a baby.

I think we need to distinguish what we are all talking about.

Babies, say less than 18 months, I have no issue with a mother breast feeding in front of me - nor doing it in public. Doesn't bother me.

Toddlers, kids that can walk & talk & ask for breast, that's a bit extreme to me to do that in public. And it's not the exposed breast itself that makes it an uncomfortable situation, it's the 3-4 year old still breast feeding.

[phisherman]

Originally Posted by Mr. Plow

I think we need to distinguish what we are all talking about.

Babies, say less than 18 months, I have no issue with a mother breast feeding in front of me - nor doing it in public. Doesn't bother me.

Toddlers, kids that can walk & talk & ask for breast, that's a bit extreme to me to do that in public. And it's not the exposed breast itself that makes it an uncomfortable situation, it's the 3-4 year old still breast feeding.

That's a personal opinion. I won't say whether I agree or disagree with you, because that's not important.

Who are you to decide that a 3-4 year old is too old to breastfeed? Why should your comfort level with the situation have any bearing on the decisions made by a mother about feeding their child? Seems like it's up to the mom to make those decisions, not anyone else.

[BigMeatballDave]

Originally Posted by phisherman

That's a personal opinion. I won't say whether I agree or disagree with you, because that's not important.

Who are you to decide that a 3-4 year old is too old to breastfeed? Why should your comfort level with the situation have any bearing on the decisions made by a mother about feeding their child? Seems like it's up to the mom to make those decisions, not anyone else.

Hell, I'd feel uncomfortable if I saw a 4 yr old on a bottle.

[Mr. Plow]

Originally Posted by Dave

Hell, I'd feel uncomfortable if I saw a 4 yr old on a bottle.

Had another friend that just in the last 3 months took her 4 year old off of the bottle.

[Mr. Plow]

Originally Posted by phisherman

That's a personal opinion. I won't say whether I agree or disagree with you, because that's not important.

Who are you to decide that a 3-4 year old is too old to breastfeed? Why should your comfort level with the situation have any bearing on the decisions made by a mother about feeding their child? Seems like it's up to the mom to make those decisions, not anyone else.

I agree. It is fully up to the mother when is the appropriate time to stop breast feeding. But, I also think taking into account the place you are at & those around you is important. Then again, I've never been a "**** everyone else, I'm doing it because I want to do it" type of a person.

If women want their 3+ year old breast feeding in public, fine. Just don't expect anyone around you to not have a WTF look on their face or excuse themselves from the room.

[MagicHef]

Originally Posted by Mr. Plow

I agree. It is fully up to the mother when is the appropriate time to stop breast feeding. But, I also think taking into account the place you are at & those around you is important. Then again, I've never been a "**** everyone else, I'm doing it because I want to do it" type of a person.

If women want their 3+ year old breast feeding in public, fine. Just don't expect anyone around you to not have a WTF look on their face or excuse themselves from the room.

If it makes me uncomfortable to see someone eat a granola bar in public, is that my problem, or theirs?

[Mr. Plow]

Originally Posted by MagicHef

If it makes me uncomfortable to see someone eat a granola bar in public, is that my problem, or theirs?

That would fall in line with this....

Originally Posted by Fire Me Boy!

Love the ridiculous comparisons of breastfeeding to pooping on the floor and masturbating in public.

It's a stupid ****ing comparison.

[BigMeatballDave]

Originally Posted by MagicHef

If it makes me uncomfortable to see someone eat a granola bar in public, is that my problem, or theirs?

LOL Yeah, that's the same thing.

[MagicHef]

Originally Posted by Dave

LOL Yeah, that's the same thing.

Um, yes. It's how babies eat. It's a vastly more appropriate comparison than pooping in the hall or masturbating on a bus, and those have both been used. My point isn't that it's the same, anyway, it's that using other people's opinions of what is normal to determine how to meet your or your family's needs is incredibly stupid.

[alanm]

Originally Posted by phisherman

That's a personal opinion. I won't say whether I agree or disagree with you, because that's not important.

Who are you to decide that a 3-4 year old is too old to breastfeed? Why should your comfort level with the situation have any bearing on the decisions made by a mother about feeding their child? Seems like it's up to the mom to make those decisions, not anyone else.

Maybe some of it has to do with where you live and how you were raised. Out here in Ranch and farm country you just don't see it. By that I mean women breast feed their kids but you don't see women breast feed their kids when their eating solid foods. I think kids here are raised a little more rugged.

[BigMeatballDave]

Originally Posted by Mr. Plow

I think we need to distinguish what we are all talking about.

Babies, say less than 18 months, I have no issue with a mother breast feeding in front of me - nor doing it in public. Doesn't bother me.

Toddlers, kids that can walk & talk & ask for breast, that's a bit extreme to me to do that in public. And it's not the exposed breast itself that makes it an uncomfortable situation, it's the 3-4 year old still breast feeding.

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[Easy 6]

Originally Posted by Mr. Plow

I think we need to distinguish what we are all talking about.

Babies, say less than 18 months, I have no issue with a mother breast feeding in front of me - nor doing it in public. Doesn't bother me.

Toddlers, kids that can walk & talk & ask for breast, that's a bit extreme to me to do that in public. And it's not the exposed breast itself that makes it an uncomfortable situation, it's the 3-4 year old still breast feeding.

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[alanm]

Originally Posted by Mr. Plow

I think we need to distinguish what we are all talking about.

Babies, say less than 18 months, I have no issue with a mother breast feeding in front of me - nor doing it in public. Doesn't bother me.

Toddlers, kids that can walk & talk & ask for breast, that's a bit extreme to me to do that in public. And it's not the exposed breast itself that makes it an uncomfortable situation, it's the 3-4 year old still breast feeding.

This.