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Old 05-26-2008, 05:17 PM  
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OT-Broken Heart?!

EDIT: Holy Shit I was a pussy!

Anyways, this bitch texted me 4 years later last night. "oops, that was to the wrong JXXXXX...anyways how are you". She's married now for 5 months but wants to get together to hook up. Says that the sex was great and missed it. Apparently she's a swinger and her husband is cool with it. Part of me wants to do it because the sex was great but I have moral issues.

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How the F*** do you fix this stupid thing? Hope for lightning to strike you or a tornado to take you away??

I figured becoming a man slut and sleeping with every random girl that I could would help, but I'd probably end up regretting that somehow.

How the F*** do you fix this stupid thing? Hope for lightning to strike you or a tornado to take you away??

I figured becoming a man slut and sleeping with every random girl that I could would help, but I'd probably end up regretting that somehow.

Summery of the happenings.

Jane Doe and I dated for a little over 3 months. She's beautiful, sweet and we both really liked (loved) each other. She has one hang up though....she's confused about what she wants. She "wants a relationship, but isn't ready...and won't be for a long time". She "love's" me, but that didn't change her wanting to date other people. She was in a long relationship, year and a half and was engaged that ended in January. She was afraid I would be the rebound guy.

About 2 months into it...she told me that she loved me. Now, she was drinking, but alcohol doesn't change feelings in my opinion...it might make you say things that you normally won't when you are sober. Things were going VERY well until then. Once that was said, it freaked her out. She kept maintaining though that she didn't want a relationship throughout this. She hadn't dated anyone else since the first few weeks of us dating, but again down hill...she went out on a few dates. Specifically, it later came out that she had started hanging out with her next door neighbor and kissed him. In fact, her roommate had been out of town the last week we were dating and she had asked me to stay with her because she doesn't like to be alone...I worked...she slept on the neighbors "couch" instead.

So...I wanted to talk to her about the direction we were headed. She started pulling away, I started to give her space. I wasn't there when she called me and didn't text her back right away...this happened for a week. She stopped calling me baby and a lot of little 'pet names' that she had been calling me. Sex, which used to happen at least once a day...didn't happen the last week.

Tuesday, the 20th, I went over to her house to talk. I told her that I didn't like the direction that we were going. She told me that I had started acting weird. I explained that I noticed that she had started to pull away as I was giving her space and I didn't like that. I asked her if she had been dating anyone else and she said no...not really. I asked her about her neighbor, she said no, but they had been hanging out and they had kissed. I told her that I wanted more and I knew she couldn't do it and I told her that I couldn't do this anymore....and left.

Unfortunately...as some here have pointed out...I left my balls there. I cried for the first time in a very long time...every time a song came on that we listened together to...tv shows that we seen...everything reminded me of her. I left a freaking softball game because of how bad I played because I was being a pillowbiter. So, I called/texted/emailed her trying to work things out...I regretted that decision ever since I left. She got upset and was a bitch on the phone. I was an ass to her back.

Last Sunday, I went to her house to get my stuff. We talked for a few minutes and I thought things would be alright. We planned on going out for dinner later in the week. So, thinking things were better and since I didn't get a chance to talk to her about things, I emailed her. I knew she was busy with her mom later that day, which is why I chose that route. She never responded. I texted her the next morning when I got off work like I normally did wishing her a good day etc. Nothing. I called Tuesday...didn't answer. WTF??!! Things were alright...right? So...I emailed her at work. She called, bitched me out. Basically saying not to bring her personal life to work etc etc. The email wasn't bad at all...not sure what this was about. I responded very badly and told her basically to kick rocks. She told me that basically she lied to me the whole time about her feelings for me and led me on. While I know it's not true...it was mean to say it. Ouch.

After letting that settle in for a few days, I didn't want it to end like this. We had shared so much over the last 3+ months that I didn't want to leave it with us basically hating each other. So, I went to her house to drop off the rest of her stuff (used that as an excuse). We ended up talking for 3 1/2 hours. It went REALLY well. I gave her a massage...talked and watched her dog that once loved me...stare me down and growl at me. She gave me a huge long hug which she wouldn't let go when I tried to pull away early. I looked at her and kissed her forehead. Then I said goodbye. She said she needed more than 2 days to cool off from our last conversation...and would call me when she figures a few things out.

Who knows how it will turn out...I won't go back to how it was...but I do want her in my life.

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Old 05-26-2008, 09:08 PM   #106
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Got to get ready for work...sit in front of a computer all night, so I'll continue to look at peoples advice and keep this post updated until its over or we are together again.
Ok,

Here's what you do.

Punch her in the face.
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:09 PM   #107
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Ok,

Here's what you do.

Punch her in the face.
With your dick.
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:11 PM   #108
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With your dick.
She has his balls, so his dick is useless.
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:11 PM   #109
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Ok,

Here's what you do.

Punch her in the face.
If you want to be milkman in 10 years.
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:17 PM   #110
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You're right.
My bad.

Here's waht you do.

Make love to her car.
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:51 PM   #111
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Nothing wrong with a limp noodle smack. They can really sting a girl.
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:54 PM   #112
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Old 05-26-2008, 09:57 PM   #113
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No, the sex was great...amazing...trust me, we had ZERO issues this.
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Old 05-26-2008, 10:04 PM   #114
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No, the sex was great...amazing...trust me, we had ZERO issues this.

Apparently YOU had zero issues with it.

If when the bedroom door closes and your name suddenly becomes 'OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD', her back is arched, her toes are curled and she is physically unable to walk out of that room fear of commitment is no longer an issue for them.
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Old 05-26-2008, 10:17 PM   #115
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I didn't feel well all weekend. One of my friends shot himself and killed himself. So I have been listening to blackbird and yesterday by the beatles in my apartment. You don't want feel shit like the grass or watch tv anymore? I don't understand it
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I didn't feel well all weekend. One of my friends shot himself and killed himself. So I have been listening to blackbird and yesterday by the beatles in my apartment. You don't want feel shit like the grass or watch tv anymore? I don't understand it
For God's sake, stay away from the Niel Young.
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Old 05-26-2008, 11:46 PM   #118
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No, the sex was great...amazing...trust me, we had ZERO issues this.
I don't believe this story but let me make sure I've got the facts straight:

1. Hot chick. 5'9. Pierced Nipples. Great legs.
2. Great sex
3. Insecure but digs you.

Then, you dump her? And less than a week later, you're whining on a football forum that she won't return your calls or texts?

YOU dumped her. If she was having issues about becoming closer to you last week, you should have just backed the **** off. There was no reason to end it and break up with her because it sounds like it was happening anyway. Why pour salt in the wound?

FWIW, She's probably been out partying her ass off since YOU dumped her. She may have already started bed hopping, if she's as clingy and insecure as you describe.

IMO, you probably did the right thing. First instincts are always best in these situations.

And she sounds like she's no where near ready for a real relationship.

Move on.
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Him too.
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