Life Signs of attraction - Page 15

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:03 AM

Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428

Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you
By Matt Christensen

You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one.

Clue #1: She’s all decked out
What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman.

Clue #2: She licks her lips
What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.”

Clue #3: She tosses her hair
What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.”

Clue #4: Her feet face you
What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.”

Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t.

Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer.

So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them.

I'll start.

1. We keep adjusting our pants.

2. We take off our pants.

3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up.

4. We try to lick your lips.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

where?

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/attac...chmentid=40870

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

Not since I moved.

Where did you move to?

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

Where did you move to?

From Dallas to Houston.

**Bwana** · 04-27-2005, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

Man, but you need to get out, even if the opposite sex isnt your goal... take some friends out and have a good time...

He is right GC, you are not going to get youself any stray talking to us on a football site. On the other hand I must admit, there was some quality advise giving out to you on the house, you should take it.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Bwana

He is right GC, you are not going to get youself any stray talking to us on a football site. .

I'm not really interested in getting any right now. I just thought it would be interesting to see what people thought of my little chat.

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

From Dallas to Houston.

Roadtrip bro...

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

where?

Where did you post your pics BG?

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

I'm not really interested in getting any right now. I just thought it would be interesting to see what people thought of my little chat.

Usually the time you find the best girls is when you aren't looking...

**CosmicPal** · 04-27-2005, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by jcroft

Usually the time you find the best girls is when you aren't looking...

That goes against the eye-contact rule.

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

Where did you post your pics BG?

over on the sick or funny thread I started in the Lounge.

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jcroft

Usually the time you find the best girls is when you aren't looking...

The wierd thing back in High School and in College was that if you were commited (GF), tons of girls would be interested, (grass is greener on the other side type scenario) but once you were single again... it was harder than ever to pick up a date...

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

over on the sick or funny thread I started in the Lounge.

Was that the bungee pick of the fat man... are there other pics?

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by CosmicPal

That goes against the eye-contact rule.

yea the best kind the ones that grab you by the hair and drag you to their "cave" and ties you up.....oh wait, I'm getting carried away and I have 3 more hours of work

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

Was that the bungee pick of the fat man... are there other pics?

yea I posted them later either on the last page or the one before it.

4th and Long · 04-27-2005, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

Was that the bungee pick of the fat man... are there other pics?

They are NOT pictures of her. Wake up and smell the coffee.

04-27-2005, 11:03 AM
Rain Man Seize life. Be an ermine. Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: My house Casino cash: $-452449 VARSITY	Signs of attraction Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you. http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428 Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you By Matt Christensen You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one. Clue #1: She’s all decked out What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman. Clue #2: She licks her lips What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.” Clue #3: She tosses her hair What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.” Clue #4: Her feet face you What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.” Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t. Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer. So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them. I'll start. 1. We keep adjusting our pants. 2. We take off our pants. 3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up. 4. We try to lick your lips.
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