Am I being a prude or have the rules of dating changed DRASTICALLY?

[memyselfI]

Originally Posted by kstater

Well, all men are pigs, so all men would do this. Is that the answer you're looking for?


Or, he's a predator.
Or, he's scum.
Or, maybe, just MAYBE he might love your friend, and want to provide a good life for her.

So it's normal and most men would move in with a married woman and her kid after three months and I have no reason to worry?

[kstater]

Originally Posted by memyselfI

So it's normal and most men would move in with a married woman and her kid after three months and I have no reason to worry?

It's possible that that after two years of "separation" the two living together might believe the marriage is over?

[memyselfI]

Originally Posted by kstater

It's possible that that after two years of "separation" the two living together might believe the marriage is over?

Quite possible because it is. But not in the eyes of the law and certainly not in the mind of the child.

[MIAdragon]

Originally Posted by memyselfI

Quite possible because it is. But not in the eyes of the law and certainly not in the mind of the child.

Ahh so if Mom got that piece of paper the child would be ok with it?

[memyselfI]

Originally Posted by MIAdragon

Ahh so if Mom got that piece of paper the child would be ok with it?

Doubtful. But she wouldn't have her Mother shacking up with some guy while she's still married to her father and everyone knows it.