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Old 12-30-2008, 09:02 PM   #1
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To be fair, I've said what I think she is in this situation and that she is not using wise judgment. I wonder what type of guy makes a move like this since I am not a guy and don't know what the thinking is behind a move like this.
His thinking is "cool a chick I dig wants to have sex with me enough for her to move in and have sex all the time." If he's thought about HER kid it's to think "well the kid is a teenager and if her mother is ok with this why would I say no." It isn't HIS responsibility to make HER a decent parent.

And I REALLY don't uderstand why the hell she doesn't end the so called marriage. Seriously WTF. She's what most of us guys call a psycho.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:06 PM   #2
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His thinking is "cool a chick I dig wants to have sex with me enough for her to move in and have sex all the time." If he's thought about HER kid it's to think "well the kid is a teenager and if her mother is ok with this why would I say no." It isn't HIS responsibility to make HER a decent parent.

And I REALLY don't uderstand why the hell she doesn't end the so called marriage. Seriously WTF. She's what most of us guys call a psycho.
This.

And the relationship with the new dude will end badly.

And this isn't something you will be able to fix.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:08 PM   #3
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And I REALLY don't uderstand why the hell she doesn't end the so called marriage. Seriously WTF. She's what most of us guys call a psycho.
Consider the company she keeps.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:08 PM   #4
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His thinking is "cool a chick I dig wants to have sex with me enough for her to move in and have sex all the time." If he's thought about HER kid it's to think "well the kid is a teenager and if her mother is ok with this why would I say no." It isn't HIS responsibility to make HER a decent parent.

And I REALLY don't uderstand why the hell she doesn't end the so called marriage. Seriously WTF. She's what most of us guys call a psycho.
Sigh, this is what I suspected. Oh well, I was feeling guilty for going off on her but now I don't.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:12 PM   #5
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Sigh, this is what I suspected. Oh well, I was feeling guilty for going off on her but now I don't.
If all you are going off is the info you posted then you SHOULD feel bad. This is all speculation, who knows hell this new guy could be the best thing for her daughter, maybe her first husband beat them both and now this guy treats them like princess. Man we are quick to stone people.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:16 PM   #6
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If all you are going off is the info you posted then you SHOULD feel bad. This is all speculation, who knows hell this new guy could be the best thing for her daughter, maybe her first husband beat them both and now this guy treats them like princess. Man we are quick to stone people.
There is more to the story but these are some of the least salacious details. I figured if you thought this was bad then the rest of the stuff would really send you off the deep end. I just needed to get some opinions on this aspect because I felt it was seedy enough.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:18 PM   #7
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If all you are going off is the info you posted then you SHOULD feel bad. This is all speculation, who knows hell this new guy could be the best thing for her daughter, maybe her first husband beat them both and now this guy treats them like princess. Man we are quick to stone people.
This guy could be fantastic for her daughter...but he isn't. The type of guy who would be great for her daughter is not the type of guy who would move them into his house under these circumstances. At his absolute best, he is an enabler. Enablers aren't bad people, but they certainly aren't positive influences regardless of their intentions.

A guy who truly had the ability to be a wonderful influence on this daughter's life would tell the woman to do right by her daughter before he would even think about getting this serious about the relationship. The woman needs to divorce her husband and focus primarily on raising her daughter. That isn't to say that she should not be able to enjoy a fulfilling relationship with a man in the meantime, but she shouldn't be moving herself and her daughter in with some guy. This is doubly true if it's a guy to whom she is not married. This is triply true while she is not even divorced from her daughter's father.
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Old 12-30-2008, 09:22 PM   #8
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This guy could be fantastic for her daughter...but he isn't. The type of guy who would be great for her daughter is not the type of guy who would move them into his house under these circumstances. At his absolute best, he is an enabler. Enablers aren't bad people, but they certainly aren't positive influences regardless of their intentions.

A guy who truly had the ability to be a wonderful influence on this daughter's life would tell the woman to do right by her daughter before he would even think about getting this serious about the relationship. The woman needs to divorce her husband and focus primarily on raising her daughter. That isn't to say that she should not be able to enjoy a fulfilling relationship with a man in the meantime, but she shouldn't be moving herself and her daughter in with some guy. This is doubly true if it's a guy to whom she is not married. This is triply true while she is not even divorced from her daughter's father.
OMG, this is it. This is what I am trying to convey. Are you single? This is the type of guy I want my friend to meet.
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OMG, this is it. This is what I am trying to convey. Are you single? This is the type of guy I want my friend to meet.
Wait a second. If she's still married, I wouldn't want to be responsible for hooking her up with anyone. That's probably just me though.
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Wait a second. If she's still married, I wouldn't want to be responsible for hooking her up with anyone. That's probably just me though.
I forgot the smilie.

Agreed. I think she should get divorced first just so her daughter doesn't have to live with the realization that her still married mom is shagging some dude that is not her dad.
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OMG, this is it. This is what I am trying to convey. Are you single? This is the type of guy I want my friend to meet.
Not single. I'm a little young for her, too. Besides, you wouldn't want her to date me. This might be the only time you and I ever see eye to eye.
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His thinking is "cool a chick I dig wants to have sex with me enough for her to move in and have sex all the time." If he's thought about HER kid it's to think "well the kid is a teenager and if her mother is ok with this why would I say no." It isn't HIS responsibility to make HER a decent parent.

And I REALLY don't understand why the hell she doesn't end the so called marriage. Seriously WTF. She's what most of us guys call a psycho.
Yeah, my first thought is this Chick is hedging her bets. Still married and moving in with him, a little worrisome if it were me.
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