There is a snitch on ChiefsPlanet - Page 13

**dirk digler** · 01-26-2009, 12:57 PM

I normally don't start threads to bring any attention to myself or get involved in some of the drama around here but something happened last week that compelled me to bring this to the attention of the members of this board.

It started over a week ago on this thread, http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showt...64919&page=141, and Claythan posted some information on a woman that was interested in him and wanted to meet. You can read what he said a couple of pages prior.

Anyway apparently what happened is someone from Chiefsplanet actively sought out this woman and pointed her to that thread and narcing out Clay. She even went as far as creating an account and she emailed Clay cussing him out etc..

Now I understand how it works around here and how we all bash each other and have fun making fun at Claythan. But IMHO this crosses that line of getting involved in people's personal lives and contacting people outside of this board to get people in trouble. IMHO this is no different than calling someone's house or work trying to get them in trouble etc...

Anyway I promised Claythan I wouldn't say anything for a week just in case that woman tried to contact him again which as far as I know she hasn't.

I would hope that the person who did this would publically admit to it and publically apologize for their actions because it was a chicken shit thing to do.

I know some of the reactions on here will be he deserved it yada, yada, yada but just think how you would feel if someone on this board contacted someone that you know personally and ratted you out. I have always felt this board is one big dysfunctional family and it is ok to make fun of each other because we are a dysfunctional family but to go outside the family and narc one of us out is unacceptable IMVHO.

Maybe I am wrong but I felt this needed to be brought to everyone's attention and I wanted to get it off my chest.

Jilly · 01-26-2009, 02:15 PM

ummm...I'm curious...is it THAT easy to find information about someone? Like what about people on here? I've often wondered how easy it would be to link anyone on here back to their RL?

**Anyong Bluth** · 01-26-2009, 02:17 PM

That’s really f* up, and completely out of line by someone on here. The person in question should step up and apologize. I hope if they aren’t man enough to come fwd, that every measure is taken to find out who it is and they be BANNED for life. (IP block or whatever it is these days to ensure they’re gone for good. Only way I’d even entertain letting them stay, after a LONG temp ban, which if they are found on during that time would mean lifetime banning, is if they came fwd and Claythan was okay with their apology. I don’t run this board, but if I did, their ass would be gone- it really undermines people’s safety to openly share, and hurts CP’s open discussion.. You can dog someone on here and all, and I enjoy getting to know posters thru their frank and open disc of their lives. This sort of shit is WAY crossing the line!! I don’t post nearly as much as others, but I’ve been here for quite some time and read this board NONSTOP! I don’t think I’ve ever had an issue with anyone here, and enjoy a lot of people’s takes on various subjects- including Claythan’s. He catches a lot of shit, and no one said you had to put on the kid gloves with people around here, but this is so wrong on so many levels. Esp. when a great many of us have divulged info re: our personal lives that if it made it back to some of those we were discussing would not be a happy conversation! The fact that someone took the time and effort to do all this just tops any shots people take at him, saying he’s a loser and to get a life. Ya know what he’s not doing? F* with your personal life in some sort of pathetic internet message board stalker-like revenge obsessed manner..
I’m sorry you had to deal with this, and the source of the problem came from here of all places. Someone just hit a new personal low….

*posted via Mobile Device

**luv** · 01-26-2009, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by dirk digler

Luv made a joke about what if the girls actually showed up on the thread. But she is too nice to do something like that.

I wouldn't, but also the fact that the thread originally about some some guy I met off of match.com on there, I would fear retaliation. I may mention when I'm nervous about an upcoming date, but no way do I mention names or how I met them anymore. Hell it's been so long ago, I can't remember if I actually posted information about that guy, or just pictures.

Brock · 01-26-2009, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DaFace

Have you ever been a bar with friends and talked about the hot girl across the room? If so, would you have been upset if the guy sitting in the next booth had recorded your conversation and played it back to her right after you had started a conversation with her?

I guess it depends on whether or not you're known in the bar for showing your ass on a semi-weekly basis.

58-4ever · 01-26-2009, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Cocina_Basement

That’s really f* up, and completely out of line by someone on here. The person in question should step up and apologize. I hope if they aren’t man enough to come fwd, that every measure is taken to find out who it is and they be BANNED for life. (IP block or whatever it is these days to ensure they’re gone for good. Only way I’d even entertain letting them stay, after a LONG temp ban, which if they are found on during that time would mean lifetime banning, is if they came fwd and Claythan was okay with their apology. I don’t run this board, but if I did, their ass would be gone- it really undermines people’s safety to openly share, and hurts CP’s open discussion.. You can dog someone on here and all, and I enjoy getting to know posters thru their frank and open disc of their lives. This sort of shit is WAY crossing the line!! I don’t post nearly as much as others, but I’ve been here for quite some time and read this board NONSTOP! I don’t think I’ve ever had an issue with anyone here, and enjoy a lot of people’s takes on various subjects- including Claythan’s. He catches a lot of shit, and no one said you had to put on the kid gloves with people around here, but this is so wrong on so many levels. Esp. when a great many of us have divulged info re: our personal lives that if it made it back to some of those we were discussing would not be a happy conversation! The fact that someone took the time and effort to do all this just tops any shots people take at him, saying he’s a loser and to get a life. Ya know what he’s not doing? F* with your personal life in some sort of pathetic internet message board stalker-like revenge obsessed manner..
I’m sorry you had to deal with this, and the source of the problem came from here of all places. Someone just hit a new personal low….

*posted via Mobile Device

you must be sitting in traffic.

**007** · 01-26-2009, 02:19 PM

Damnit, quit changing the title. There was nothing wrong with narc for crying out loud.

lets just name it the "Let's see how many times we can change the name of this thread" thread.

**luv** · 01-26-2009, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Jilly

ummm...I'm curious...is it THAT easy to find information about someone? Like what about people on here? I've often wondered how easy it would be to link anyone on here back to their RL?

Not too difficult. You know someone's first and last name? Maybe they use their email address handle on different sites. I guess in Clay's case, the person could have known her age, figured she was from Houston like Clay is, and known which site to look on, went to the site, put in the criteria, looked for the picture, and wham.

Redrum_69 · 01-26-2009, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

I wouldn't, but also the fact that the thread originally about some some guy I met off of match.com on there, I would fear retaliation. I may mention when I'm nervous about an upcoming date, but no way do I mention names or how I met them anymore. Hell it's been so long ago, I can't remember if I actually posted information about that guy, or just pictures.

i bet thats the last time that guy takes dating advice from a blind man in the clearance section at Wal-Mart

Jilly · 01-26-2009, 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by luv

Not too difficult. You know someone's first and last name? Maybe they use their email address handle on different sites. I guess in Clay's case, the person could have known her age, figured she was from Houston like Clay is, and known which site to look on, went to the site, put in the criteria, looked for the picture, and wham.

maybe I'm just lazy, but that seems like a lot of work

**the Talking Can** · 01-26-2009, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by eazyb81

Clayton did this, or the person who ratted him out did? If it's Clayton, then again, I don't see why it was wrong for someone to narc/tattle/whatever on him.

Think before you act.

he's the most desperately, pathetically, attention seeking human, of any age or gender, i've ever encountered.....that said, it just seems a bit cruel as this guy is looking at a lifetime of virginity...

eazyb81 · 01-26-2009, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by 58-4ever

you must be sitting in traffic.

and on coke/meth.

Goapics1 · 01-26-2009, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Cocina_Basement

That’s really f* up, and completely out of line by someone on here. The person in question should step up and apologize. I hope if they aren’t man enough to come fwd, that every measure is taken to find out who it is and they be BANNED for life. (IP block or whatever it is these days to ensure they’re gone for good. Only way I’d even entertain letting them stay, after a LONG temp ban, which if they are found on during that time would mean lifetime banning, is if they came fwd and Claythan was okay with their apology. I don’t run this board, but if I did, their ass would be gone- it really undermines people’s safety to openly share, and hurts CP’s open discussion.. You can dog someone on here and all, and I enjoy getting to know posters thru their frank and open disc of their lives. This sort of shit is WAY crossing the line!! I don’t post nearly as much as others, but I’ve been here for quite some time and read this board NONSTOP! I don’t think I’ve ever had an issue with anyone here, and enjoy a lot of people’s takes on various subjects- including Claythan’s. He catches a lot of shit, and no one said you had to put on the kid gloves with people around here, but this is so wrong on so many levels. Esp. when a great many of us have divulged info re: our personal lives that if it made it back to some of those we were discussing would not be a happy conversation! The fact that someone took the time and effort to do all this just tops any shots people take at him, saying he’s a loser and to get a life. Ya know what he’s not doing? F* with your personal life in some sort of pathetic internet message board stalker-like revenge obsessed manner..
I’m sorry you had to deal with this, and the source of the problem came from here of all places. Someone just hit a new personal low….

*posted via Mobile Device

Right.

**luv** · 01-26-2009, 02:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jilly

maybe I'm just lazy, but that seems like a lot of work

I would think so, too. Actually, the guy the I have a date thread is about was the one who told me about the different ways to find out information. Kinda creeped me out.

BigVE · 01-26-2009, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

Not too difficult. You know someone's first and last name? Maybe they use their email address handle on different sites. I guess in Clay's case, the person could have known her age, figured she was from Houston like Clay is, and known which site to look on, went to the site, put in the criteria, looked for the picture, and wham.

Note to self: Clay is in Houston.

lol

Redrum_69 · 01-26-2009, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by the Talking Can

he's the most desperately, pathetically, attention seeking human, of any age or gender, i've ever encountered.....that said, it just seems a bit cruel as this guy is looking at a lifetime of virginity...

he has his extensive collection of signed fleshlights....

01-26-2009, 12:57 PM
dirk digler Please squeeze Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Clinton, MO Casino cash: $214644	There is a snitch on ChiefsPlanet I normally don't start threads to bring any attention to myself or get involved in some of the drama around here but something happened last week that compelled me to bring this to the attention of the members of this board. It started over a week ago on this thread, http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showt...64919&page=141, and Claythan posted some information on a woman that was interested in him and wanted to meet. You can read what he said a couple of pages prior. Anyway apparently what happened is someone from Chiefsplanet actively sought out this woman and pointed her to that thread and narcing out Clay. She even went as far as creating an account and she emailed Clay cussing him out etc.. Now I understand how it works around here and how we all bash each other and have fun making fun at Claythan. But IMHO this crosses that line of getting involved in people's personal lives and contacting people outside of this board to get people in trouble. IMHO this is no different than calling someone's house or work trying to get them in trouble etc... Anyway I promised Claythan I wouldn't say anything for a week just in case that woman tried to contact him again which as far as I know she hasn't. I would hope that the person who did this would publically admit to it and publically apologize for their actions because it was a chicken shit thing to do. I know some of the reactions on here will be he deserved it yada, yada, yada but just think how you would feel if someone on this board contacted someone that you know personally and ratted you out. I have always felt this board is one big dysfunctional family and it is ok to make fun of each other because we are a dysfunctional family but to go outside the family and narc one of us out is unacceptable IMVHO. Maybe I am wrong but I felt this needed to be brought to everyone's attention and I wanted to get it off my chest.
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01-26-2009, 02:15 PM	#181
Jilly MVP Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Lee's Summit Casino cash: $9984925	ummm...I'm curious...is it THAT easy to find information about someone? Like what about people on here? I've often wondered how easy it would be to link anyone on here back to their RL? __________________ "In most of our human relationships, we spend much of our time reassuring one another that our costumes of identity are on straight." — Ram Dass
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01-26-2009, 02:17 PM	#182
Anyong Bluth Deus ambulans inter homines Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Chicago Casino cash: $9439340	That’s really f* up, and completely out of line by someone on here. The person in question should step up and apologize. I hope if they aren’t man enough to come fwd, that every measure is taken to find out who it is and they be BANNED for life. (IP block or whatever it is these days to ensure they’re gone for good. Only way I’d even entertain letting them stay, after a LONG temp ban, which if they are found on during that time would mean lifetime banning, is if they came fwd and Claythan was okay with their apology. I don’t run this board, but if I did, their ass would be gone- it really undermines people’s safety to openly share, and hurts CP’s open discussion.. You can dog someone on here and all, and I enjoy getting to know posters thru their frank and open disc of their lives. This sort of shit is WAY crossing the line!! I don’t post nearly as much as others, but I’ve been here for quite some time and read this board NONSTOP! I don’t think I’ve ever had an issue with anyone here, and enjoy a lot of people’s takes on various subjects- including Claythan’s. He catches a lot of shit, and no one said you had to put on the kid gloves with people around here, but this is so wrong on so many levels. Esp. when a great many of us have divulged info re: our personal lives that if it made it back to some of those we were discussing would not be a happy conversation! The fact that someone took the time and effort to do all this just tops any shots people take at him, saying he’s a loser and to get a life. Ya know what he’s not doing? F* with your personal life in some sort of pathetic internet message board stalker-like revenge obsessed manner.. I’m sorry you had to deal with this, and the source of the problem came from here of all places. Someone just hit a new personal low…. posted via Mobile Device __________________ Suck it, beautiful*
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01-26-2009, 02:19 PM	#186
007 Shaken. Not stirred. Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: London Casino cash: $12220126 VARSITY	Damnit, quit changing the title. There was nothing wrong with narc for crying out loud. lets just name it the "Let's see how many times we can change the name of this thread" thread. __________________ My dear girl, there are some things that just aren’t done. Such as, drinking Dom Perignon ’53 above the temperature of 38 degrees Fahrenheit. That’s just as bad as listening to the Beatles without earmuffs.
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