Life When did you lose interest?

MaxFects · 01-27-2009, 03:31 PM

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

JOhn · 01-27-2009, 03:36 PM

Now that I'm single I tend to lose interest as soon as we're done, or she start talking

**Gonzo** · 01-27-2009, 03:38 PM

Eh...It happens on occasion when you've been with the same person for a long time. Iv'e been with my wife for almost 15 yrs now. She's still smoking hot so that helps and the fact that she's a freak in the sack.....

One thing I might suggest is trying to hit a line drive up the 2 hole. That's exciting when she's not expecting it.

Try introducing things like toys, lingerie, posting nude pics on C.P. etc. That'll always help.

**Gonzo** · 01-27-2009, 03:38 PM

ARE YOU FRICKEN SERIOUS????

BAN HIM!!!!

**doomy3** · 01-27-2009, 03:38 PM

wow, wasn't ready for that picture

**doomy3** · 01-27-2009, 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gonzo

ARE YOU FRICKEN SERIOUS????

BAN HIM!!!!

Don't quote it!!

**Gonzo** · 01-27-2009, 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by doomy3

Don't quote it!!

SORRY!

**Gonzo** · 01-27-2009, 03:40 PM

Jesus H. Christ n00b..WTF!?

**Bugeater** · 01-27-2009, 03:40 PM

Must be Marlboro Chief again.

Big Chief Homer · 01-27-2009, 03:41 PM

Thanks for the NSFW memo!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your and Idiot

Brock · 01-27-2009, 03:41 PM

Time to move on.

**Gonzo** · 01-27-2009, 03:41 PM

Delete that shit

Pioli Zombie · 01-27-2009, 03:42 PM

2 years. yup, thats about right.

actually, thats pretty normal. After the "honeymoon" phase its not all about the sex anymore, then its about commitment, friendship, the simple things, the good stuff.

then kids come, fights start, you masterbate a lot, finally it all ends in tatters and you lose everything, now she betrays you, your "friends" turn on you, the people at your church tell you, this is wrong, you must stay together, and you scream at them "Its not me!! Shes the one that wants the divorce!!!! but it doesnt matter, they blame you anyway so they ignore you and when they start ignoring your kids thats the last straw, im leavin this place, and then the economy goes bad and you get the pink slip, now youve lost your marriage, youve lost your home, you lost your job, you lost your money, your kids are all confused and your hopes for them have been dashed and you even lost your place of worship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

.......oh wait........sorry, dude...........

what was the question?????

Katipan · 01-27-2009, 03:43 PM

I cheated on my ex-husband, but that was long after we stopped communicating or fornicating. So I always took the stance that it wasn't cheating. When he caught me somewhere I wasn't supposed to be, he took the opposite stance.

I've only lost that loving feeling once. And that was because he was a complete... well... fiasco.

Any other relationship ended because of other issues.

When you lose it. You lose it. Run.

JOhn · 01-27-2009, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pioli Zombie

2 years. yup, thats about right.

actually, thats pretty normal. After the "honeymoon" phase its not all about the sex anymore, then its about commitment, friendship, the simple things, the good stuff.

then kids come, fights start, you masterbate a lot, finally it all ends in tatters and you lose everything, now she betrays you, your "friends" turn on you, the people at your church tell you, this is wrong, you must stay together, and you scream at them "Its not me!! Shes the one that wants the divorce!!!! but it doesnt matter, they blame you anyway so they ignore you and when they start ignoring your kids thats the last straw, im leavin this place, and then the economy goes bad and you get the pink slip, now youve lost your marriage, youve lost your home, you lost your job, you lost your money, your kids are all confused and your hopes for them have been dashed and you even lost your place of worship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

.......oh wait........sorry, dude...........

what was the question?????

Damn I had almost put it behind me. Time to start seeing a counsler again

01-27-2009, 03:31 PM
MaxFects Starter Join Date: Oct 2007 Casino cash: $10004900	When did you lose interest? I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women. I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?
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Pioli Zombie Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: olathe,kansas Casino cash: $10004900	2 years. yup, thats about right. actually, thats pretty normal. After the "honeymoon" phase its not all about the sex anymore, then its about commitment, friendship, the simple things, the good stuff. then kids come, fights start, you masterbate a lot, finally it all ends in tatters and you lose everything, now she betrays you, your "friends" turn on you, the people at your church tell you, this is wrong, you must stay together, and you scream at them "Its not me!! Shes the one that wants the divorce!!!! but it doesnt matter, they blame you anyway so they ignore you and when they start ignoring your kids thats the last straw, im leavin this place, and then the economy goes bad and you get the pink slip, now youve lost your marriage, youve lost your home, you lost your job, you lost your money, your kids are all confused and your hopes for them have been dashed and you even lost your place of worship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH .......oh wait........sorry, dude........... what was the question?????
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01-27-2009, 03:43 PM	#14
Katipan MER Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Colorado Casino cash: $-759649	I cheated on my ex-husband, but that was long after we stopped communicating or fornicating. So I always took the stance that it wasn't cheating. When he caught me somewhere I wasn't supposed to be, he took the opposite stance. I've only lost that loving feeling once. And that was because he was a complete... well... fiasco. Any other relationship ended because of other issues. When you lose it. You lose it. Run.
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