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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Springpatch
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But my fiance is closer to the girl. Your move. |
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THREEPEAT!!!
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: NWMO
Casino cash: $9948214
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You are buddies with the guy? Then talk to him. If he refuses to admit he is ****ing up then it falls on you to let the wife know. Might it ruin a friendship? Yeah. But really... a guy who ****s around on his wife is no one *I* would want to be friends with anyhow. How would you feel if his OL wound up with syphilis or even HIV because of this? Shit... the guilt would eat me alive. |
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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Jouissance
Casino cash: $10011570
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You're not "really" friends with the other girl, if the dynamics of this "couple relationship" are like 99% of the ones I've ever known. The four of you get along and so you kick it. You're friends with the guy and your chick is friends with the other chick. The crossover connection is tenuous at best. The end result: start looking for new friends. |
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You think you can get by this?
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Springfield, MO
Casino cash: $-1190000
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So, what does our fiance say? Has she put herself in the other girl's shoes? If she's closer to the girl than you are, maybe she should be the one to tell her. I know I'd take it better coming from another female. I'd recommend telling her together, but she'll feel ganged up on. The decision is yours. If you decide she needs to be told though, I'd definitely try to talk your fiance into telling her instead of you.
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