Personal advice sought, v. II.

[Coogs]

If you have to confront him about it, do it suttely. Have a guys day out. Golfing or something. Something where there are good looking gals and beer around. A setting that will allow some good old "man talk" like "check that gal out. Damn... she's fine. I'd like to jump her... how about you?" Let it lead into some other gals from you two guys past. And when you get to the particular gal in question, say "Oh man... how about ______? I would love to jump her."

You will probably know from his response weather to pursue the matter, or move on to another gal. And have another gal in mind in case you need to advance the conversation quickly.

And who knows, maybe even a week or two later, he may confide in you about the situation. But be patient... and let him bring the situation to the forefront after you have led him there. Play stupid if he goes there... whenever that may be.

And if he never goes there... follow the other peoples advise and do not confront him/or her with the news.

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Coogs

If you have to confront him about it, do it suttely. Have a guys day out. Golfing or something. Something where there are good looking gals and beer around. A setting that will allow some good old "man talk" like "check that gal out. Damn... she's fine. I'd like to jump her... how about you?" Let it lead into some other gals from you two guys past. And when you get to the particular gal in question, say "Oh man... how about ______? I would love to jump her."

You will probably know from his response weather to pursue the matter, or move on to another gal. And have another gal in mind in case you need to advance the conversation quickly.

And who knows, maybe even a week or two later, he may confide in you about the situation. But be patient... and let him bring the situation to the forefront after you have led him there. Play stupid if he goes there... whenever that may be.

And if he never goes there... follow the other peoples advise and do not confront him/or her with the news.

Why can't he ask just straight out? "dude, why the hell are you ****ing another chick?"

[Coogs]

Originally Posted by Jilly

Why can't he ask just straight out? "dude, why the hell are you ****ing another chick?"

Or you could do this!

Personally I would stay out of it.

[FAX]

Originally Posted by Jilly

Why can't he ask just straight out? "dude, why the hell are you ****ing another chick?"

That would be my approach, Ms. Jilly. Although the question is somewhat rhetorical, at least the basic idea is consistent with how I would confront him.

As I said earlier, however, I wouldn't do it, though. I'd let the bastard hang himself because he'll be caught out sooner or later and the only thing that Mr. Direckshun would accomplish is walking headlong into a sh*tstorm and those are bad especially when it's cold because freezing sh*t falling hundreds of miles from the sky can sting like a mother if it catches you in the right spot.

One idea I had was to write an unsigned letter to the girl detailing the bastard's infidelities. That keeps Mr. Direckshun out of the hot seat and solves the problem. Kind of like an anonymous donation to a good cause.

FAX

[DeezNutz]

Originally Posted by Coogs

If you have to confront him about it, do it suttely. Have a guys day out. Golfing or something. Something where there are good looking gals and beer around. A setting that will allow some good old "man talk" like "check that gal out. Damn... she's fine. I'd like to jump her... how about you?" Let it lead into some other gals from you two guys past. And when you get to the particular gal in question, say "Oh man... how about ______? I would love to jump her."

Why do you want to rob all these women? That just doesn't seem right...