Life P.O.S. Brother in Law - Page 2

angelo · 06-29-2009, 10:00 AM

If he could have formulated a sentence. My brother in law should have written a book on how to screw up your children.

He was a dead beat, If he could hold a job long enough to earn a paycheck he would blow it on booze and drugs. His money was his and My sister was left to take care of the two kids on her meager salary. If she ever mentioned divorce he would go nuts and say he was going to kill himself.

My sister finally left him 3 years ago. He still managed to get visitation with the kids.

Invariably my sister would have to go get the kids because he would get drunk and start yelling at the kids.

Same thing happen last week except for a twist. The Mxther Fxcker tells my niece (who idolizes him as this tragic figure) and my nephew (who does everything to get some form of approval) That they are dead to him.

Once again he threatens to kill himself and starts waving a gun around.
Luckily his family steps in and takes the kids home. Then they go back to help the rest of the family deal with him.

He had thought the gun was unloaded and put it to his head.
What he did not realize was that in his drunken stupor he grabbed the wrong gun.

There was no click, just a small explosion and now there are two kids blaming themselves for this stupid asses death.

I am so pissed

Thanks for letting me rant

Ang

**DaFace** · 06-29-2009, 10:21 AM

That's horrible. So sorry to hear about that.

Boyceofsummer · 06-29-2009, 10:25 AM

guns, drugs & alcohol a bad name. Not to mention the the world is against me attitude.

Mile High Mania · 06-29-2009, 10:28 AM

Incredibly tragic and I can't imagine what these two children are dealing with... I hope the family considers counseling now, for the kids.

Frazod · 06-29-2009, 10:28 AM

As bad as the situation is, the silver lining is he won't be around to **** things up any further. Good riddance.

Mile High Mania · 06-29-2009, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by frazod

As bad as the situation is, the silver lining is he won't be around to **** things up any further. Good riddance.

While this is true... his last action is about as bad as he could do for these kids.

**morphius** · 06-29-2009, 10:31 AM

I have a bother-in-law that is almost a big as tool as this guy, without the threatening to kill himself piece. Of course he has a felony charge, so he can't own a gun at least. Its almost one of those things that this might end up being the best thing for the kids in the long run.

Frazod · 06-29-2009, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Mile High Mania

While this is true... his last action is about as bad as he could do for these kids.

I understand that, but God only knows what else he might have done had he lived.

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 06-29-2009, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by frazod

I understand that, but God only knows what else he might have done had he lived.

I'm not happy the kids have to deal with it, but the world is probably a better place than it was.

angelo · 06-29-2009, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by frazod

As bad as the situation is, the silver lining is he won't be around to **** things up any further. Good riddance.

I have thought the same thing my self.
At least he can do no more damage.

The only thing that upsets me is that my niece and nephew have to deal with the pain.

Ang

sparkky · 06-29-2009, 10:44 AM

sorry to hear the sad story.
wishing the best for the family and kids.

Frazod · 06-29-2009, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by angelo

I have thought the same thing my self.
At least he can do no more damage.

The only thing that upsets me is that my niece and nephew have to deal with the pain.

Ang

Well, all you can do is be there for them as much as you can. Good luck to all of you.

kepp · 06-29-2009, 11:15 AM

Wow...just horrible. The kids didn't SEE it happen, did they?

tooge · 06-29-2009, 11:18 AM

how old are the kids?

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 06-29-2009, 11:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by angelo

I have thought the same thing my self.
At least he can do no more damage.

The only thing that upsets me is that my niece and nephew have to deal with the pain.

Ang

Be strong Ang. They're going to need everyone that will be there for them.

CoMoChief · 06-29-2009, 11:20 AM

Its a damn good thing he didn't pull that trigger and kill those kids.

Now its just important to let the kids know that he had major problems and that the killing wasn't his fault.

06-29-2009, 10:00 AM
angelo Starter Join Date: Oct 2007 Casino cash: $9094965	P.O.S. Brother in Law If he could have formulated a sentence. My brother in law should have written a book on how to screw up your children. He was a dead beat, If he could hold a job long enough to earn a paycheck he would blow it on booze and drugs. His money was his and My sister was left to take care of the two kids on her meager salary. If she ever mentioned divorce he would go nuts and say he was going to kill himself. My sister finally left him 3 years ago. He still managed to get visitation with the kids. Invariably my sister would have to go get the kids because he would get drunk and start yelling at the kids. Same thing happen last week except for a twist. The Mxther Fxcker tells my niece (who idolizes him as this tragic figure) and my nephew (who does everything to get some form of approval) That they are dead to him. Once again he threatens to kill himself and starts waving a gun around. Luckily his family steps in and takes the kids home. Then they go back to help the rest of the family deal with him. He had thought the gun was unloaded and put it to his head. What he did not realize was that in his drunken stupor he grabbed the wrong gun. There was no click, just a small explosion and now there are two kids blaming themselves for this stupid asses death. I am so pissed Thanks for letting me rant Ang
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06-29-2009, 10:21 AM	#16
DaFace Kind of a mod Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Donkey Land Casino cash: $-1833101	That's horrible. So sorry to hear about that.
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06-29-2009, 10:28 AM	#18
Mile High Mania #triggering Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Tejas Casino cash: $947229	Incredibly tragic and I can't imagine what these two children are dealing with... I hope the family considers counseling now, for the kids. __________________
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06-29-2009, 10:28 AM	#19
Frazod Did you hear what I said? Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $-736615	As bad as the situation is, the silver lining is he won't be around to **** things up any further. Good riddance.
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06-29-2009, 10:31 AM	#21
morphius World's finest morphius Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $5765027	I have a bother-in-law that is almost a big as tool as this guy, without the threatening to kill himself piece. Of course he has a felony charge, so he can't own a gun at least. Its almost one of those things that this might end up being the best thing for the kids in the long run.
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06-29-2009, 10:44 AM	#25
sparkky Veteran Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Arkansas Casino cash: $10004900	sorry to hear the sad story. wishing the best for the family and kids.
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06-29-2009, 11:15 AM	#27
kepp MVP Join Date: Aug 2005 Casino cash: $3479212	Wow...just horrible. The kids didn't SEE it happen, did they?
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06-29-2009, 11:18 AM	#28
tooge MVP Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Liberty, MO Casino cash: $674112	how old are the kids?
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06-29-2009, 11:20 AM	#30
CoMoChief Mahomes Dynasty Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Parts Unknown Casino cash: $7672254	Its a damn good thing he didn't pull that trigger and kill those kids. Now its just important to let the kids know that he had major problems and that the killing wasn't his fault.
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