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MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

GoHuge · 03-21-2010, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife left, didnt help at all. None of them were as good in bed as my wife and I could barely even get off with any of them. Most of the time I didnt.

Obviously I have issues but what about her? What kind of woman is ok with ****ing two guys that both care about her and hurting them both? What about him? He know's she's ****ing me and he still wont leave her. He gets mad and yells at her about it but she does it again and again and he still stays. **** it I dont need counseling, probably just more time. Im going to get drunk and watch some b-ball.

In this thread I haven't heard you say a single positive statement about this bitch other than she's good at sex. She has no morals, self respect, anything that resembles dignity, but you want her back? Your a lost cause. Sorry!

Sure-Oz · 03-21-2010, 09:31 AM

You need to not see or talk to her....and probably need to talk to someone. Stop ****ing around with her too. She is ****ed up....and i think part of you is too

Hammock Parties · 03-21-2010, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by bane_58

What this really needs is a remix with this song:

**luv** · 03-21-2010, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife left, didnt help at all. None of them were as good in bed as my wife and I could barely even get off with any of them. Most of the time I didnt.

Obviously I have issues but what about her? What kind of woman is ok with ****ing two guys that both care about her and hurting them both? What about him? He know's she's ****ing me and he still wont leave her. He gets mad and yells at her about it but she does it again and again and he still stays. **** it I dont need counseling, probably just more time. Im going to get drunk and watch some b-ball.

Classic. Instead of focusing on your actions, which you should be able to control, you are justifying your bad decisions by comparing them to others.

Enjoy your games, both basketball and otherwise.

Priest31kc · 03-21-2010, 09:33 AM

All I have to say is your ex is freakin whore.

How can you still be ****ing her? I wouldnt be able to look my gf in the eyes if she ****ed some other guy, had his baby & left me and threw our family away. But your actually getting intimate w/ her? How can you forgive her for that, thats like the ultimate betrayal.

threebag · 03-21-2010, 09:42 AM

Run Forest Run.

**FRCDFED** · 03-21-2010, 09:43 AM

By continuously going back to her you are only perpetuating the healing process. Each time you two were together again started the clock all over again. Healing from such a situation takes time AND separation. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out why this happened because you know there is no acceptable reason for her to have strayed irregardless of what is said. The free time that you have should be more focused on healthy thoughts of making positive changes in your life. Let her and your children see that you are a strong person and can move forward.

You ex will definately see the changes you make and become jealous thus increasing the chance she will try to hold on. Misery loves company! She ****ed up! It's pretty obvious that she already realizes this by her trying to continue having sex with you while with the other guy. She will probably try to make it seem like it was your fault by making comments "if I would have known you were this strong then I would've never strayed" or "if I would have seen this side of you then things would've been different." Don't fall for them!

Take the time to make positive changes in your life (that includes taking her out of it with the exception of interraction regarding the children). Anything you do with the kids should be on an individual basis and not together. If down the road you two decide to make an effort to get counseling and reconcile then you will be a better/stronger person and won't take her bullshit.

Healing takes time......but you cant keep going back to the well for a drink!

Good luck!

RJ · 03-21-2010, 09:44 AM

MTG, after reading just your first couple of posts, it is apparent that you have moved into Jerry Springer territory. You might be ok with that but your kids won't be. I don't recall their ages, but if they're not old enough to be embarrassed yet, they soon will be. This is the kind of stuff you look back on with regret later in life. Sounds like right now your dick and your heart are running the show and your brain is conspicuously absent. Good luck to you.

LaChapelle · 03-21-2010, 09:48 AM

memo to self
stay out of MTG#10 threads
they will only make you want to post bad things

**mlyonsd** · 03-21-2010, 09:50 AM

MTG, rarely on a message board does everyone agree. In this case the board is solidly locked on the idea you need to get away from her.

You should consider the overwhelming advice in this thread when moving forward.

MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by mlyonsd

MTG, rarely on a message board does everyone agree. In this case the board is solidly locked on the idea you need to get away from her.

You should consider the overwhelming advice in this thread when moving forward.

Oh believe me I know. I didn't need everyone here to tell me that I needed to get away from her, that's obvious. Ive known that for a long time. The problem is actually doing it. I have to see her and talk to her several times a week because of the kids and it makes it hard.

Hammock Parties · 03-21-2010, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

Oh believe me I know. I didn't need everyone here to tell me that I needed to get away from her, that's obvious. Ive known that for a long time. The problem is actually doing it. I have to see her and talk to her several times a week because of the kids and it makes it hard.

Jerk off before each meeting.

Cntrygal · 03-21-2010, 10:11 AM

Don't use the kids as an excuse for your lack of self-control.

**Buehler445** · 03-21-2010, 10:13 AM

Wow. MTG. Come on man.

You have to do better for yourself. There is no option. You're just ****ing your life up. Normally I wouldn't care about that but you are going to **** your kids' lives up to and that is unacceptable. You think that the kids don't know, they may not know EXACTLY what you are doing, but they know. If they don't it won't take long. Kids are smarter than you think. Get the **** away from this bitch and do everything in your legal power to give the kids a good life. Seriously. Quit ****ing up the kids' lives.

I told you in the other thread that in order to move on, you have to be comfortable with yourself. You're not. ****ing your wife doesn't help. Sack up, get away from her and start your own life.

It bears repeating, QUIT ****ING UP YOUR KIDS' LIVES.

Hog's Gone Fishin · 03-21-2010, 10:14 AM

Send me this ho's address. If she likes semen so much, I'll fix her right up.

03-21-2010, 08:05 AM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7014386	My ex had her baby last night... I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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03-21-2010, 09:43 AM	#82
FRCDFED Line'em up Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: somewhere out there Casino cash: $9016297	By continuously going back to her you are only perpetuating the healing process. Each time you two were together again started the clock all over again. Healing from such a situation takes time AND separation. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out why this happened because you know there is no acceptable reason for her to have strayed irregardless of what is said. The free time that you have should be more focused on healthy thoughts of making positive changes in your life. Let her and your children see that you are a strong person and can move forward. You ex will definately see the changes you make and become jealous thus increasing the chance she will try to hold on. Misery loves company! She ****ed up! It's pretty obvious that she already realizes this by her trying to continue having sex with you while with the other guy. She will probably try to make it seem like it was your fault by making comments "if I would have known you were this strong then I would've never strayed" or "if I would have seen this side of you then things would've been different." Don't fall for them! Take the time to make positive changes in your life (that includes taking her out of it with the exception of interraction regarding the children). Anything you do with the kids should be on an individual basis and not together. If down the road you two decide to make an effort to get counseling and reconcile then you will be a better/stronger person and won't take her bullshit. Healing takes time......but you cant keep going back to the well for a drink! Good luck!
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03-21-2010, 09:44 AM	#83
RJ Supporter Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: In a shotgun shack Casino cash: $9895202	MTG, after reading just your first couple of posts, it is apparent that you have moved into Jerry Springer territory. You might be ok with that but your kids won't be. I don't recall their ages, but if they're not old enough to be embarrassed yet, they soon will be. This is the kind of stuff you look back on with regret later in life. Sounds like right now your dick and your heart are running the show and your brain is conspicuously absent. Good luck to you.
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03-21-2010, 09:48 AM	#84
LaChapelle Banned Join Date: Mar 2009 Casino cash: $10004900	memo to self stay out of MTG#10 threads they will only make you want to post bad things
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03-21-2010, 09:50 AM	#85
mlyonsd Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Spink, SD Casino cash: $-2106238	MTG, rarely on a message board does everyone agree. In this case the board is solidly locked on the idea you need to get away from her. You should consider the overwhelming advice in this thread when moving forward.
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03-21-2010, 10:11 AM	#88
Cntrygal Brrrrr..... Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: USA!!! :) Casino cash: $9954930	Don't use the kids as an excuse for your lack of self-control.
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03-21-2010, 10:13 AM	#89
Buehler445 Supporter Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Scott City KS Casino cash: $-1475266	Wow. MTG. Come on man. You have to do better for yourself. There is no option. You're just **ing your life up. Normally I wouldn't care about that but you are going to your kids' lives up to and that is unacceptable. You think that the kids don't know, they may not know EXACTLY what you are doing, but they know. If they don't it won't take long. Kids are smarter than you think. Get the away from this bitch and do everything in your legal power to give the kids a good life. Seriously. Quit ing up the kids' lives. I told you in the other thread that in order to move on, you have to be comfortable with yourself. You're not. ing your wife doesn't help. Sack up, get away from her and start your own life. It bears repeating, QUIT **ING UP YOUR KIDS' LIVES.
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03-21-2010, 10:14 AM	#90
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