My ex had her baby last night...

[btlook1]

Originally Posted by Phobia

I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.

Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart. She's having her cake and eating it too. She's found two men who will put up with her antics.

You can't fix your relationship, she can't fix it, counseling won't fix it. I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.

But it's really, really screwed up in its current state. It's unhealthy for everybody and somebody is going to end up in a coffin if this kind of mental anguish continues.

I don't think I have ever seen Phobia give bad advice. Get some help dude. Counseling would be a good start. IF you can't afford it maybe a good counselor would take a payment plan? At least try.

Slaint whoever you are....maybe you should keep your hate threads to yourself....your being a major douche by leaving those comments!