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Old 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM  
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My ex had her baby last night...
I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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Old 03-21-2010, 01:55 PM   #196
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Old 03-21-2010, 01:56 PM   #197
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I've seen similar situations work out but not without a strong faith based support group and a commitment to God first. It's not absolutely impossible.

But I do agree that there's no way anybody can get past any of these issues on their own. Any hope would need to be accompanied with spiritual intervention.
What are the odds? Less than 1%? My ex-wife and I tried to get back together after we were divorced because she cheated. It lasted 3 months so I do speak from a little experience. And really the only reason why I tried to work it out was because of my daughter but that was a mistake.

But I don't disagree it could happen just like I could win powerball.
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Old 03-21-2010, 01:58 PM   #198
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omg, this thread is awesome... damn, I needed a laugh. The pity post to open things up, followed by the "oh yeah by the way" post about sleeping with the ex for several months that turns the OP on its head, then the "I even stopped sleeping with my wife when I was with this one girl" ....


Divorce would suck, especially with kids involved, but damn dude....
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Old 03-21-2010, 02:03 PM   #199
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I was driving by a church the other day and they had this sign out front where they can change the big, plastic letters depending on what's going on and stuff. They were advertising a "Divorce Clinic" support group kind of thing that meets every Tuesday.

Given all that's gone on, and taking Mr. MTG#10 at his word on all this, and realizing that he can't just pack up and move to Phoenix or the Florida Keys or somewhere (although, I don't really see why not), if I were him, I'd find one of these groups and latch on for dear life. Heck, I'd become the leader/organizer. It can't hurt and he might find a nice girl there who's suffering from her own problems. They can console each other and start a new life together with a little cottage and a white picket fence and Mint Juleps on the front porch in the evenings.

That's what I'd do.

EDIT: After shooting the wife, her boyfriend, her boss, her family, and all her friends, of course.

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Old 03-21-2010, 02:06 PM   #200
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Old 03-21-2010, 02:07 PM   #201
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What are the odds? Less than 1%? My ex-wife and I tried to get back together after we were divorced because she cheated. It lasted 3 months so I do speak from a little experience. And really the only reason why I tried to work it out was because of my daughter but that was a mistake.

But I don't disagree it could happen just like I could win powerball.
On your own and with expensive counseling - yeah, probably <1%.

But I've seen it work out multiple times in a spiritual environment. Guessing about 33% which isn't amazing but a lot better than without God.

I'm gonna bail on the conversation because I hate it when it seems like Christians cram God down everybody's throat. I don't want to be that guy. But if somebody has questions or wants some guidance I'll respond to a PM on the matter.
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Old 03-21-2010, 02:11 PM   #202
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On your own and with expensive counseling - yeah, probably <1%.

But I've seen it work out multiple times in a spiritual environment. Guessing about 33% which isn't amazing but a lot better than without God.

I'm gonna bail on the conversation because I hate it when it seems like Christians cram God down everybody's throat. I don't want to be that guy. But if somebody has questions or wants some guidance I'll respond to a PM on the matter.
I've seen it work, too, Mr. Phobia. And, regardless of Mr. GoChiefs' nasty comments, I applaud your efforts in this regard.

The thing is that both parties have to "want" it to work ... deep down, that is. Based on the ebb and flow of this deal, I'm unconvinced that's the situation here.

It just sounds like a lot of "sex first and damn the consequences". I like the basic idea, but not when there are children involved. Anyway, it doesn't sound like there's a spiritual component to all this.

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Old 03-21-2010, 02:15 PM   #203
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And, regardless of Mr. GoChiefs' nasty comments, I applaud your efforts in this regard.
**** you, FAX.

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Old 03-21-2010, 02:22 PM   #204
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**** you, FAX.

Delusions don't help.


I know that you harbor resentment and anger from being raised in an overly religious family. And you can be the poster boy for hate as a result. I don't really care.

But spirituality is not a delusion. Far from it. Eventually, you might even come to realize that. Meanwhile, It's not anyone else's fault that your parents screwed with your head.

Oh ... and pissing on someone else's belief system doesn't change your past, either.

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Old 03-21-2010, 02:25 PM   #205
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But spirituality is not a delusion. Far from it.
It's pretty ****in' deluded to think a deity is going to fix your marriage.
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Old 03-21-2010, 02:31 PM   #206
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It's pretty ****in' deluded to think god is going to fix your marriage.
Well, in this case, you may well be right. As I said, after wading through this abortion of a thread, it looks like the most important thing to these people is sex. And unprotected sex, at that. The children take a back seat to sex. Relationships take a back seat to sex. Hell, even sanity is taking a back seat to sex.

As one who has always believed in the glorious power of bedding women, I'm not morally opposed to the concept ... except, as I mentioned, until it starts negatively affecting other people ... like the children. Then, it starts looking a little selfish.

However, I must tell you that I have seen with my own eyes how marriages can be both saved and reconstructed when both parties put God first in their lives. Don't ask me how it works ... I can only guess and it would take too long to explain. But I've seen it work. Hell, it's not even all that unusual.

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Old 03-21-2010, 02:32 PM   #207
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Time for you to MAN UP and STOP playing the pity game! Do something! You have 2 choices.
#1) If you both want to get back together than get counseling for you 2 and the children (you are ALL going to need it)
#2) If not end this game you an her are playing
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Old 03-21-2010, 02:36 PM   #209
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However, I must tell you that I have seen with my own eyes how marriages can be both saved and reconstructed when both parties put God first in their lives. Don't ask me how it works ... I can only guess and it would take too long to explain. But I've seen it work. Hell, it's not even all that unusual.

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I have. She says she still loves me, doesnt love him, and is only staying with him because she feels "trapped". She said after the baby was born and things settle down she would be able to think more clearly and make a decision. I just want my family back, that's all Ive ever wanted. If there is one more member so be it, I would lover her and treat her like my own. This isnt entirely her fault, I wasnt the greatest husband in the world either. Thats why I havent been able to totally let go and move on, because she is still saying there's still a chance for us. If she said she was done and we would never get back together I would be able to move on.
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