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MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

Jilly · 03-21-2010, 02:53 PM

Please don't get the idea from phobia's posts that God can magically fix things. This is way beyond support group counseling and spiritual direction. Damaging, self inflicting behavior like this should be met by more than what any pastor or spiritual leader can provide. There are sliding scale agencies that can offer you the real help you need.

**Bane** · 03-21-2010, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Jilly

Please don't get the idea from phobia's posts that God can magically fix things. This is way beyond support group counseling and spiritual direction. Damaging, self inflicting behavior like this should be met by more than what any pastor or spiritual leader can provide. There are sliding scale agencies that can offer you the real help you need.

IMO GOD doesn't get involved in matters of the heart like this.Thats what I would call "blind faith".It's like those goofballs that think they can walk out into traffic and GOD will protect them.

Chiefs4TheWin · 03-21-2010, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by KCUnited

Nothing like a huge belly filled with some other dudes kid to get me in the mood.

**DaFace** · 03-21-2010, 03:30 PM

That's all I have to say about this thread.

**bevischief** · 03-21-2010, 03:35 PM

Don't do it. That is all.

sedated · 03-21-2010, 03:41 PM

lol. I really admire this chick. She found 2 guys she can completely control no matter what she does.

**Gadzooks** · 03-21-2010, 03:47 PM

Smoke a big fatty and watch this video on a loop, (you should be able to figure things out pretty easily). Oh yeah, and ignore any referrrences to Yoko.

**RNR** · 03-21-2010, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by FAX

I know that you harbor resentment and anger from being raised in an overly religious family. And you can be the poster boy for hate as a result. I don't really care.

But spirituality is not a delusion. Far from it. Eventually, you might even come to realize that. Meanwhile, It's not anyone else's fault that your parents screwed with your head.

Oh ... and pissing on someone else's belief system doesn't change your past, either.

FAX

He has issues that go deeper than being raised in a cult. He is as wrong as two boys f&cking~

Katipan · 03-21-2010, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bane_58

IMO GOD doesn't get involved in matters of the heart like this.Thats what I would call "blind faith".

im sure phobia believes that if you follow gods path you will do right and if you do right all will be right. unfortunately for that rather simplistic view you would have had to already make the decision to be an honest and respectful person. not the case here in the slightest. god is not a hallpass.
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L.A. Chieffan · 03-21-2010, 04:06 PM

this isnt real is it?

**KcMizzou** · 03-21-2010, 04:11 PM

How is babby formed?

**dirk digler** · 03-21-2010, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Jilly

Please don't get the idea from phobia's posts that God can magically fix things. This is way beyond support group counseling and spiritual direction. Damaging, self inflicting behavior like this should be met by more than what any pastor or spiritual leader can provide. There are sliding scale agencies that can offer you the real help you need.

I don't think that is what Phil was saying. He is saying along with all the other support options like counseling you need spiritual counseling as well.

**KcMizzou** · 03-21-2010, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

lol. I really admire this chick. She found 2 guys she can completely control no matter what she does.

voodoo punanny

Hammock Parties · 03-21-2010, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by KcMizzou

voodoo punanny

This is what I was going to recommend.

Hell, if god's magic pixie dust can fix your marriage, might as well try making a voodoo doll of the other guy and stabbing the shit out of it.

sedated · 03-21-2010, 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by dirk digler

I don't think that is what Phil was saying. He is saying along with all the other support options like counseling you need spiritual counseling as well.

I think Phil was saying that friends, family, and community will help, and these situations are far more difficult without guidance and a helping hand.

god, allah, zeus etc, it doesn't matter who or if you worship one or mutliple invisible men.

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