Life My ex had her baby last night... - Page 21

MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

salame · 03-22-2010, 02:17 AM

mtg you made me sad
thanks a lot

Mecca · 03-22-2010, 02:37 AM

MTG has really taken a beating in this thread.

Fritz88 · 03-22-2010, 06:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FAX

Is there a religion where the girls all wear scanty clothes and mix margaritas and make sure the cd player is loaded with good music?

Just wondering.

FAX

There you go Mr. Fax,

Not exactly what you want, But I guess close enough

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Children_of_God_%28cult%29

Fritz88 · 03-22-2010, 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

MTG has really taken a beating in this thread.

I really feel for the guy and wish him all the best. But to post such a problem in CP means you are going to get some help and a lot of shit for it. Which makes this place quite special

MTG needs to Get this woman out of his life.

donkhater · 03-22-2010, 06:37 AM

I've nitpicked the thread. I don't have time to read all of it.

This woman is no friend of yours, MTG. You are going to be in perpetual heartache until you realize this. No friend treats a friend the way this woman has treated you.

Now, can you forgive her? Yes. Does this mean sleep with her? No. Recognize that she has probably made the same promise she made to you to the father of this new child and she is cheating on him. What should that tell you about her ability to change? Here's a clue---SHE HASN'T.

For your kid's sake, for your own self-esteem which is in the shitter right now (and rightfully so given your decisions) you have to distance yourself from this woman. She has to EARN your trust back if you are so adamant about keeping her in your life. Sleeping with this woman only clouds things. Put your dick in your pants and grow up.

KC Jones · 03-22-2010, 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Fritz88

I really feel for the guy and wish him all the best. But to post such a problem in CP means you are going to get some help and a lot of shit for it.

To be fair, he mostly got support for all of this crap in the beginning. Of course there are only so many times you can watch someone ram their head into a wall and then cry about how much that hurts until you realize they are just a damn fool. The support didn't seem to help, maybe the ridicule will?

Extra Point · 03-22-2010, 06:49 AM

I read the first page and this one. MTG, you need to move away, take up a new livelihood, and drive on. This bitch has you wrapped up, and f'ed up. Your kids will have no respect for you if you don't. Seriously. You have to tell your ex, in front of your kids, that she hurt you, that you were wrong for thinking that you could work it out, and that this baby's new father and she will have to take care of the three children.

If you feel you have done your best to work it out, and it hasn't because of her, and your weakness of her, then, you need to get out of Dodge. Otherwise, without counseling, you'll become a bad article in several newspapers.

Move on!

KCUnited · 03-22-2010, 07:08 AM

Now that the initial outcry has died down, let's get to the meat and potatoes of this. Was there one particular trimester that you preferred over another and why?

MOhillbilly · 03-22-2010, 07:24 AM

Once again FTR I do not do "hits".

As for the thread starter post 166 sums up my feelings.

patteeu · 03-22-2010, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by KC Jones

To be fair, he mostly got support for all of this crap in the beginning. Of course there are only so many times you can watch someone ram their head into a wall and then cry about how much that hurts until you realize they are just a damn fool. The support didn't seem to help, maybe the ridicule will?

Yes

Pushead2 · 03-22-2010, 07:55 AM

JD10367 · 03-22-2010, 08:18 AM

You and the dude should turn gay and both of you dump her.

**Bane** · 03-22-2010, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by JD10367

You and the dude should turn gay and both of you dump her.

Well he said his fukkn her was partially do to the revenge factor,so it sounds to me like he's thinking of the other guy while he's banging her anyway.
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patteeu · 03-22-2010, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by JD10367

You and the dude should turn gay and both of you dump her.

That would be the king of all ChiefsPlanet threads!

**Bane** · 03-22-2010, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

That would be the king of all ChiefsPlanet threads!

It would be epic!We could call it the "you know how I knew you were gay "thread!
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03-21-2010, 08:05 AM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7014386	My ex had her baby last night... I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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03-22-2010, 02:17 AM	#301
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03-22-2010, 06:37 AM	#305
donkhater Brilliant!! Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Indiana, USA Casino cash: $10014051	I've nitpicked the thread. I don't have time to read all of it. This woman is no friend of yours, MTG. You are going to be in perpetual heartache until you realize this. No friend treats a friend the way this woman has treated you. Now, can you forgive her? Yes. Does this mean sleep with her? No. Recognize that she has probably made the same promise she made to you to the father of this new child and she is cheating on him. What should that tell you about her ability to change? Here's a clue---SHE HASN'T. For your kid's sake, for your own self-esteem which is in the shitter right now (and rightfully so given your decisions) you have to distance yourself from this woman. She has to EARN your trust back if you are so adamant about keeping her in your life. Sleeping with this woman only clouds things. Put your dick in your pants and grow up. __________________ The welfare of humanity is always the alibi of tyrants
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03-22-2010, 06:49 AM	#307
Extra Point MVP Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Prairie Village, KS Casino cash: $10004900	I read the first page and this one. MTG, you need to move away, take up a new livelihood, and drive on. This bitch has you wrapped up, and f'ed up. Your kids will have no respect for you if you don't. Seriously. You have to tell your ex, in front of your kids, that she hurt you, that you were wrong for thinking that you could work it out, and that this baby's new father and she will have to take care of the three children. If you feel you have done your best to work it out, and it hasn't because of her, and your weakness of her, then, you need to get out of Dodge. Otherwise, without counseling, you'll become a bad article in several newspapers. Move on! __________________ "Sometimes I sits and thinks, and sometimes I just sits." --Satchel Paige
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03-22-2010, 07:08 AM	#308
KCUnited Cheat Death Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Land of Drincoln Casino cash: $-1561756	Now that the initial outcry has died down, let's get to the meat and potatoes of this. Was there one particular trimester that you preferred over another and why?
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03-22-2010, 07:24 AM	#309
MOhillbilly Mama Tried Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Missouri Casino cash: $9949903	Once again FTR I do not do "hits". As for the thread starter post 166 sums up my feelings. __________________ True Son of Liberty
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