My ex had her baby last night...

[MTG#10]

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

[luv]

Originally Posted by DeezNutz

In the spirit of this thread, I'd also like to tell you that your wife is awesome.

But you probably shouldn't read this.

[TEX]

Dude - This one's pretty simple. Get mad and STAY MAD & forget her and get on with your life.

[MOhillbilly]

MTg just keeps stealin time from the devil. Makes me think there is some sort of substance use/abuse involved.
whatever.

[Fairplay]

Sad thread.....just a sad thread.

[Mr. Plow]

Originally Posted by DeezNutz

In the spirit of this thread, I'd also like to tell you that your wife is awesome.

But you probably shouldn't read this.

A very few times on CP, something is said to me that I have no reply to. This is one of those times. Good job sir.

[Otter]

I could understand coming here for advice on something like this back in 2002 or 2003 when it was a small fairly tight nit community but you now have every stroke stick with an internet connection reading what you say, commenting on it and Google archiving it until the end of times.

You can get a good look at a butcher's ass by sticking your head up there. But, wouldn't you rather to take his word for it?

--- I was watching Tommy Boy this morning but that quote seems somehow appropriate

['Hamas' Jenkins]

Originally Posted by Otter

You can get a good look at a butcher's ass by sticking your head up there. But, wouldn't you rather to take his word for it?

--- I was watching Tommy Boy this morning but that quote seems somehow appropriate

There's an additional awesomeness to that quote in this instance...

[MOhillbilly]

Originally Posted by Otter

I could understand coming here for advice on something like this back in 2002 or 2003 when it was a small fairly tight nit community but you now have every stroke stick with an internet connection reading what you say, commenting on it and Google archiving it until the end of times.

You can get a good look at a butcher's ass by sticking your head up there. But, wouldn't you rather to take his word for it?

--- I was watching Tommy Boy this morning but that quote seems somehow appropriate

i quoted tommyboy in this thread aswell. giggle.

[tooge]

Whats the old saying?

If you love something, let it go. If it gets knocked up by some loser, keep loving it, at least until the third trimester.

You sir have become a douche.

[DaFace]

Originally Posted by Otter

I could understand coming here for advice on something like this back in 2002 or 2003 when it was a small fairly tight nit community but you now have every stroke stick with an internet connection reading what you say, commenting on it and Google archiving it until the end of times.

You can get a good look at a butcher's ass by sticking your head up there. But, wouldn't you rather to take his word for it?

--- I was watching Tommy Boy this morning but that quote seems somehow appropriate

To be fair, these threads included a lot of good advice back when things went down about a year ago. I think that everyone's sympathy is waning now that the advice is not being taken and things continue to spiral downward.

[threebag]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o22eIJDtKho&sns=em

[Goldmember]

Originally Posted by luv

So, you're saying this is why my life is so screwed up?

And if women used logic (and testosterone) like men, the whole world would be even more screwed up

[memyselfI]

Originally Posted by MTG#10

The fact that I cant get over her is my own fault. We've been seeing each other and sleeping with each other for the last 6 months. At first I was only doing it for revenge. It felt good because her bf knew it was going on and kept giving her chance after chance. I guess I just wanted him to feel a little bit of what I felt when he did it to me. Plus we have amazing sex, by far the best Ive ever had. I didnt think it was messing with me emotionally but I guess I was wrong. She has been telling me that she wants to get back together someday, but couldnt right now because she felt trapped since they were having a baby together. She says she still loves me and doesnt love him at all but Im not so sure anymore. Im starting to think she just likes ****ing two guys. There have been several times that I tried to end it, but she would always talk me into to it again and I couldnt resist.

Were you a virgin or rather inexperienced emotionally and sexually when you met her?

[Inspector]

Several of my friends agree that your ex-wife is indeed great in bed.

The local soccer team felt the same way. And the guys at fire station #28. Sounds like a keeper for sure.

Good luck man!

[Pants]

Originally Posted by memyselfI

Were you a virgin or rather inexperienced emotionally and sexually when you met her?

Obviously. The level of attachment is irreversible at this point, IMO. Dude needs some serious counseling to even start thinking about being able to function normally.