If your son came to you and told you he was a she - Page 10

BIG_DADDY · 02-06-2007, 03:07 PM

And wanted you to help him with a sex change what would be your answer and how do anticipate this would effect your relationship with him?

BIG_DADDY · 02-07-2007, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Metrolike

1.He won't be an actual female, I never said that. However, if that's what will make him happy, I will go with that. You need to look past the whole physical side because that's not what the issue is. You should be concerned with your child's mental state and not what body parts are going to get chopped off. I guess you're OK with your child living a miserable life feeling incomplete and somehow wrong at the cost of you living without embarressement. That's where we differ.

2.Congratulations and I wish you guys all the best!

3.Not sure what you're talking about.

1. You said you would just love your daughter. My point was that he wouldn't be your daughter he would be your your son who maimed his body and has put his health and very life at serious risk by injecting massive loads of estrogen into his body over a long period of time. How do you condone that? Are you going to pay for it? This isn't about love of embarrasment. It's probably very hard not to love your own child in spite of what they do. I think what happens you all living in Kansas don't see how this element lives. What happens is they move to places like SF where they are more accepted. They hang together but they live a lie trying pick up on straight males. Many of them prostitute themselves to support their drug and hormone habit. They live off of the system as their health problems they brought upon themselves knowingly materialize. You think your helping your childs mental state and keeping him from living a miserable existence but in truth your condoning his own madness and insuring his miserable existence because it's the PC thing to do. It's what you have been sold by the media.

2. Thank You

3. My bad then. The BB was up in arms about about steroid use condoning outlawing them and locking people up. I thought you were in that crowd. They are all mysteriously quite right now. The power of the media is amazing isn't it? Like I said the PC planet. Monkey throwing poop is probably quit accurate these days.

Brock · 02-07-2007, 12:13 PM

WWBDD?

ChiefsOne · 02-07-2007, 12:19 PM

I'd punch him and say grow some balls you little bastard. End of story!

BIG_DADDY · 02-07-2007, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Brock

WWBDD?

BD would tell his son that he needed to accept himself for what he is and make the best of it. Then BD would take hiw son to SF and show him how this element lives and explain the health consiquences of his actions should he keep tripping on this. BD then would explain that he has no intention of ever giving his money to anyone who's intentions were so self destructive. BD would then never allow him to play that victim card that so many in this area like to play. Lastly BD would let him know that I was made my decisions based upon the fact that I do love him because if I didn't it would be easier to give him the money and let him go to SF and wash my hands of the whole situation. I would help with counseling however.

To me this is the nightmare of nightmare scenarios. God help any poor parents that have to go through this.

dj56dt58 · 02-07-2007, 01:50 PM

in one word...Adoption

greg63 · 02-07-2007, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsOne

I'd punch him and say grow some balls you little bastard. End of story!

Logical · 02-07-2007, 06:37 PM

I don't think question can be answered unless it has happened to you. Too speculative.

Nightwish · 02-07-2007, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

And wanted you to help him with a sex change what would be your answer and how do anticipate this would effect your relationship with him?

It wouldn't affect my relationship with him, as I'm pretty liberal anyway when it comes to such things. But I wouldn't help him pay for it. If you make a lifestyle choice, then it is 100% your responsibility, nobody else's.

Nightwish · 02-07-2007, 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by StcChief

It wouldn't happen. Raise 'em right.

How many times have those been famous last words?

PinkFloyd · 02-07-2007, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by seclark

i'd tell him/her to get the hell out of in front of the tv and go talk to his mother.
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I'll second that motion...

Honestly --- I'd tell him/her/it we will discuss this when I'm done laughing my frecking arse off...

Nightwish · 02-07-2007, 06:52 PM

I'd show him BD's avatar and say, "Are you sure this doesn't get a reaction?"

**Bwana** · 02-07-2007, 07:36 PM

PC kind of guy I am, I would take him elk hunting, feed him lots of beer, not some low test swill skunk Gaylord crap like Coors or Lucky, something tasty such as Alaskan Ale. Next, I would tell him to smack his pecker and the twins against a pine tree until he got his shit together.

Does that work?

greg63 · 02-07-2007, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Bwana

PC kind of guy I am, I would take him elk hunting, feed him lots of beer, not some low test swill skunk Gaylord crap like Coors or Lucky, something tasty such as Alaskan Ale. Next, I would tell him to smack his pecker and the twins against a pine tree until he got his shit together.

Does that work?

StcChief · 02-11-2007, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Bwana

PC kind of guy I am, I would take him elk hunting, feed him lots of beer, not some low test swill skunk Gaylord crap like Coors or Lucky, something tasty such as Alaskan Ale. Next, I would tell him to smack his pecker and the twins against a pine tree until he got his shit together.

Does that work?

That would work..... get the attempted "pussification" out of his system

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Bwana It's Five O'Clock Somewhere Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Billings, Montana Casino cash: $2139173647	PC kind of guy I am, I would take him elk hunting, feed him lots of beer, not some low test swill skunk Gaylord crap like Coors or Lucky, something tasty such as Alaskan Ale. Next, I would tell him to smack his pecker and the twins against a pine tree until he got his shit together. Does that work? __________________ Adventure is dangerous....but monotony can kill you.
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