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Old 08-10-2015, 05:05 PM  
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Cash bar or foot the bill? Wedding poll

So we're attending a wedding in STL in a few weeks, and instead of footing the bill themselves, it's a cash bar.

What are your thoughts on this?

I kinda think if youre having a big fancy all weekend kinda wedding, pay for the bar tab, but I get it I guess, miney wise.

So, what say you?

Update: read announcement, open bar, all is well

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Old 08-10-2015, 07:27 PM   #151
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:28 PM   #152
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:28 PM   #153
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Went back to Iowa for a buddy's wedding this summer. He's 40 something, Mr. Gotbucks, squeezes that quarter til the eagle screams. Bastard went cash bar. We groomsman camped at the bar after dinner and facilitated.

I feel like if it's a financial burden to go open bar then cash bar is fine. Otherwise the hospitable thing is to open that bad boy up...
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:31 PM   #154
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If you have the money and you cheap out with cash bar, that's bad. If you're young, picking up some of the wedding tab, and can't afford it ... Or don't have a wealthy family ... Then the guests who can't afford to buy their own drinks can have water
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:33 PM   #155
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Weddings are a bit of a mystery to me. Where I come from, weddings are held and the reception afterwards has fruit punch and some of those soft pillow-shaped mints. No one ever had meals, much less served alcohol.

Frankly, I like it that way. Weddings make me uncomfortable. Too much emotion lying around and being spoken and stuff. I don't need that. My goal is just to get in and get out.
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:38 PM   #156
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Weddings are a bit of a mystery to me. Where I come from, weddings are held and the reception afterwards has fruit punch and some of those soft pillow-shaped mints. No one ever had meals, much less served alcohol.

Frankly, I like it that way. Weddings make me uncomfortable. Too much emotion lying around and being spoken and stuff. I don't need that. My goal is just to get in and get out.
Sounds nice but I'm guessing the post reception one night stand tradition may be negatively impacted...
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:42 PM   #157
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:58 PM   #159
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To reiterate, I don't have a problem with a cash bar if you're wanting to save some money.

But going black tie downtown stl for 3 days seems a bit cheapish to me
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Traditional weddings are a thing that should become extinct. Putting that big wedding budget towards a down payment for a house or rainy day fund would help a young married couple a lot more.
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Weddings are a bit of a mystery to me. Where I come from, weddings are held and the reception afterwards has fruit punch and some of those soft pillow-shaped mints. No one ever had meals, much less served alcohol.

Frankly, I like it that way. Weddings make me uncomfortable. Too much emotion lying around and being spoken and stuff. I don't need that. My goal is just to get in and get out.
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If you're hampered on the budget, just elope to Vegas.

Traditional weddings are a thing that should become extinct. Putting that big wedding budget towards a down payment for a house or rainy day fund would help a young married couple a lot more.
With you on that one... I know you only ever have one hopefully, but it should be a can't miss occasion for people you really care about regardless.
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Just skip the wedding altogether if you don't want to look bad. Buy all that you need on your own to start a home. It must balance out anyhow.
I'm betting most men would favor doing just that. Women...not so much.
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If you're hampered on the budget, just elope to Vegas.

Traditional weddings are a thing that should become extinct. Putting that big wedding budget towards a down payment for a house or rainy day fund would help a young married couple a lot more.
Except there are still a lot of girls who dream of that big day. And a lot of daddies too...
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While we're on the subject, is it necessary to buy a gift for someone's second wedding if you already bought them one for their first marriage, which lasted less than a year?
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