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If her problem is being clingy, then pushing for a date is just more of the same. Honestly, I think the best cure to clinginess is dating several people, that way you 1) don't obsess over a single person, and 2) can properly assess each person without some desire to not be alone getting in the way.
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If you're 2.5 weeks into this deal, I think you're moving to fast. You're already looking forward by using the terms "we're a week away from a month" instead of "we've been dating 2 weeks". It may be small words and a matter of days, but they're early tells... and scary to guys who have been through everything you can imagine. The last thing I would want to hear from a girl at two weeks in is "weekend plans?" and "oh hey, I'm free Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday this week". I'd much rather hear, "I'm going to watch the ball game Friday, stop by if you'd like" and none of the code words for I'm secretly making happily ever after plans for all of the next 6 months. I'd suggest slowing down and decreasing the pressure. |
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10-08-2014, 01:28 PM | #229 |
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There's a fine line between appearing clingy and not caring. I like to know where I stand, if I keep getting "I'm busy" without "how about another night instead", then I give up. I want some sign she is interested. I'd love for a woman to take even the littlest bit of initiative and not play this weirdo crap.
This all actually seemed easier when I was in my 20s, I'd ask a girl out, she would say yes, I'd ask again, she'd say yes, and we'd keep going until one of us broke up with the other one. Now I've got so many people in my ear about "act like this" and "act like that", and the women seem all over the place with what they want. |
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10-08-2014, 04:29 PM | #230 |
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Diaper I have found the ones that act like that really aren't into you. If she is interested she will make time. It's still that simple, but can be tougher to find the older u get.
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Luv the dude will reach out if he's still interested. No need to press further. Also no need to worry at this point.
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Oh, I know. That's why I give up after asking twice. But then they keep sending random texts, wanting to get into a conversation.
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He hasn't. I'm just going to start coming to terms that I'm probably history. I'm taking a break from the "hunt" for a while. Going to focus some more on some fitness goals.
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Texting continued today, and we are set for drinks on Sunday. Maybe being busy wasn't BS after all, or I managed to play my cards right.
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The other guy probably blew her off
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