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Old 12-24-2012, 01:04 AM   #1
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If you confront her, just realize the relationship might never be the same. She will pull the trust card on you for checking her texts. If you can outweigh the pros over the cons between you two, I would just move on from it.
Yep, that's my issue. In this case, my argument would be that a response from her mom came when I was in the room alone with her phone (which is true), but of course I was the one who picked up the phone and made the choice to read the rest.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:10 AM   #2
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Confront her in private. It needs to be done.

What she's said about your family>Her knowing that you read her texts
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Old 12-24-2012, 11:07 AM   #3
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If you confront her, just realize the relationship might never be the same. She will pull the trust card on you for checking her texts. If you can outweigh the pros over the cons between you two, I would just move on from it.
The relationship is already not going to be the same.

once seen things can't be unseen

he's just seen that his woman can be a fake bitch.


Now i would suggest that a large percentage of all women are like this but they can't ever let you see or it just changes things.

I'm not sure that the relationship isn't already over
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Old 12-24-2012, 11:10 AM   #4
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The relationship is already not going to be the same.

once seen things can't be unseen

he's just seen that his woman can be a fake bitch.


Now i would suggest that a large percentage of all women are like this but they can't even let you see or it just changes things.

I'm not sure that the relationship isn't already over
I'm sure if you were around in-laws you didn't like you would barge in saying, "I ****ing hate you lazy, annoying, terrible cooking, white trash red necks!".... because you aren't "fake."
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Old 12-24-2012, 11:16 AM   #5
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I'm sure if you were around in-laws you didn't like you would barge in saying, "I ****ing hate you lazy, annoying, terrible cooking, white trash red necks!".... because you aren't "fake."
You'd be surprised the number of family gatherings that end up with a fist-fight or 3...alcohol-feuled family gatherings are just like watching the latest WWE episode. You can guess who, after downing a couple of Jack Daniels laden drinks, will start the free-for-all with a "kind" word about another family member.

Some of them are no more than word-fights, other are classics that are destined to end up on YouTube.
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Old 12-24-2012, 11:18 AM   #6
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I'm sure if you were around in-laws you didn't like you would barge in saying, "I ****ing hate you lazy, annoying, terrible cooking, white trash red necks!".... because you aren't "fake."
there must not be alcohol at your family gatherings.
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Old 12-24-2012, 11:19 AM   #7
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I'm sure if you were around in-laws you didn't like you would barge in saying, "I ****ing hate you lazy, annoying, terrible cooking, white trash red necks!".... because you aren't "fake."
of course not, but the key is that she is talking shit about them to her family.

that's the line

People meet someone they don't particularly like all the time and are polite and civil ... pretending to get along.

but in this instance, they are engaged and she should have enough respect/restraint to not talk shit and trash the loved ones of the man is going to marry.

maybe the all do it

but she got caught and he is going to remember those texts EACH TIME they are around his family.

maybe it can work ... depends on his ability to overlook it.


Many people wouldn't be able overlook it and resent would develop.

not fair but it's life
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:15 PM   #8
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If you confront her, just realize the relationship might never be the same. She will pull the trust card on you for checking her texts. If you can outweigh the pros over the cons between you two, I would just move on from it.
Well to be honest a smart friend told me once that as soon as one of the two in the couple snoops on texts or emails the relationship is over.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:03 AM   #9
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Sounds like you both have some issues that need addressing.

However, it's certainly easier to address them with a fiance who'll just go away than a wife who'll go away with half your shit.
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Old 12-24-2012, 06:27 AM   #10
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Sounds like you both have some issues that need addressing.

However, it's certainly easier to address them with a fiance who'll just go away than a wife who'll go away with half your shit.
Oh, hell yes! Do this now. Don't ****ing wait until you're married. Will she be pissed? Of course. And when she throws that shit in your face, make sure you let her know that you'll be happy to address her concerns right after she addresses yours. I would also drop her off at her parents house, and go over to yours on your own. What I wouldn't do is tell your family about it if you still plan on marrying her.

No, I wouldn't just eat that. I love my family, and they are awesome to my wife. Always have been. If I'd heard some shit like that before we got married, I'm not sure we'd be married now. You're not in the wrong, dude.
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Old 12-24-2012, 09:48 AM   #11
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Oh, hell yes! Do this now. Don't ****ing wait until you're married. Will she be pissed? Of course. And when she throws that shit in your face, make sure you let her know that you'll be happy to address her concerns right after she addresses yours. I would also drop her off at her parents house, and go over to yours on your own. What I wouldn't do is tell your family about it if you still plan on marrying her.

No, I wouldn't just eat that. I love my family, and they are awesome to my wife. Always have been. If I'd heard some shit like that before we got married, I'm not sure we'd be married now. You're not in the wrong, dude.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:45 PM   #12
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:04 AM   #13
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My wife never liked my family, she always talks crap on them to everybody. but hey, so do I. the thing with her is though, she never acted to them like she like them. she always just showed up in kind of ignore them, obvious fake smiles and all that.

if your fiance is really putting on a front like that, that's the ultimate disrespect, attacker prepare to fight. relationships suck.
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Old 12-24-2012, 08:35 AM   #14
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I wouldnt stand for it for one second, it would all have to be laid out on the table no matter what.

If she wants to try and make her privacy a bigger issue than the hateful drubbing she gave your family, well, i'd be thinking twice about where its all going.
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Old 12-24-2012, 03:56 PM   #15
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Why were you reading her txt messages, are you both in high school?
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