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View Poll Results: Once a cheater, always a cheater? | |||
Yes. If they'll do it once, they're bound to do it again. | 64 | 47.41% | |
No. People can change. | 25 | 18.52% | |
It depends on the circumstances. | 38 | 28.15% | |
Dane is a douche. | 8 | 5.93% | |
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12-06-2012, 02:29 PM | #16 | |
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You never truly know what will happen though, that's why I posed the question. I mean, if a woman ever cheated on me in a relationship- it's ****ing over. The thought of my woman with anyone other than me makes my stomach churn and I know for a fact I could never look at her the same way. It may hurt to end the relationship at the time, but my feelings and pride mean more to me than a few months of heartbreak. But what if you were aware that a woman had cheated on someone else (as in not you) in the past. Say, 1 time several years ago. Would you think twice about getting involved with her? I'm not sure what your situation is though. Care to share? Last edited by ThaVirus; 12-06-2012 at 03:15 PM.. |
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12-06-2012, 02:31 PM | #17 | |
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12-06-2012, 02:34 PM | #18 |
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I think people make mistakes and can learn from them.
I also know I'll never sleep with a married woman that isn't my wife. If Brideowanian ever cheated on me, that would be the end of it. No trust, no relationship. That said...I know a lot of people who are able to repair those things. Just don't think I could. I also know that were I single, I'd never partner up with someone who was in a relationship when I found them. Are they going to leave me for the first guy with a bigger bank account? It's also a good way to get your ass beaten or killed. I don't need that kind of shit in my life. |
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12-06-2012, 02:36 PM | #19 |
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It would be interesting to see the results if this were an anonymous poll.
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12-06-2012, 02:44 PM | #20 | |
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12-06-2012, 02:46 PM | #21 |
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Perhaps that's a positive that she came right out and said something.. It hints that the might feel remorse for stepping out on someone and doesn't want to repeat her "mistakes".
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12-06-2012, 02:49 PM | #22 |
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I think alot goes into this. If you are in a terrible marriage, and you are just biding time to get the **** out for financial or legal reasons, and you cheat? I think you can change. If you cheat just because you can't turn down strange, then you will cheat regardless of if you are happily married or not. I think cheating can be like a drug addiction. Some people can have a few beers and go home, others just keep going until they are ****ed up.
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12-06-2012, 02:50 PM | #23 |
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12-06-2012, 02:53 PM | #24 | |
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I do think that some people are just dogs. Despite "settling down" in a relationship with an official title, they really have no desire to be monogamous. On the other hand, I don't think everyone that cheats is 100% like that. Maybe they're missing an emotional connection and trying to find it anyway they can. Maybe they're missing that physical side of the relationship that some people don't like to admit is as important as it is. Maybe they're just pissed off like Durtyrute was.. I understand you can't really generalize human emotion like this. I was just trying to get your own opinions from your personal experiences. |
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12-06-2012, 02:54 PM | #25 | |
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12-06-2012, 03:01 PM | #26 | |
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With all of that being said, people can and do change. That "once a cheater, always a cheater" bullshit is well, bullshit. |
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12-06-2012, 05:01 PM | #27 |
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I think most relationships are ****ed up to begin with. You either learn to communicate about your needs and work through those or you cheat or you forever resent the fact that you are at the point you are at.
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12-06-2012, 05:54 PM | #28 |
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Also, is the person who the person cheated with a bad person? Even if they knew the cheater was in a relationship but they weren't?
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12-06-2012, 05:57 PM | #29 |
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12-06-2012, 06:01 PM | #30 |
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