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12-24-2012, 02:17 PM | #331 |
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12-24-2012, 02:21 PM | #332 |
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Lots of good stuff in this thread, thanks all. Now, to address a few points:
First of all, I'm not worried about the "what else is she lying about?" thing because, hell, I've read her text messages, so I know exactly what is going on with her. Secondly, I think it's interesting the split on people who think it's OK and those who think it's creepy for me to read her texts. I fully admit I have insecurities/trust issues based on past relationships. I don't think that means I am incapable of being in a relationship. If I "snoop" around and read her phone and find something bad, then **** it, I'm glad I did it. It's better to find out that way then find out 10 years into marriage that I'm handcuffed to a total bitch. In a little bit of defense for myself, I'm totally open with my shit. Sometimes I'll get a text or I'll be texting someone and she'll pick up my phone to see who it's from or ask who I'm texting and I'll show her. She also goes on my phone to play games. I don't have a passcode on my phone or anything so she's totally open to snoop through there if she wants. Has she? I don't know, but she won't find anything questionable if she does. |
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12-24-2012, 02:21 PM | #333 |
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Not necessarily. You have no way of knowing that.
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12-24-2012, 02:22 PM | #334 | |
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Coupled with a paranoid dude who can't let go of the past. I haven't read through the entire thread so maybe it's been mentioned before but do we know how long they've been together? Has it been a short time? How many people are going to come out and say, "I really hate your family" after the first few visits? |
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12-24-2012, 02:22 PM | #335 |
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It probably doesn't help I have changed my handle a couple of times....got tired of the occasional irreverent "dog" references when I was "mmaddog"
Then I changed it to Dsnyfn (short for Disney Fan) but then I got all kinds of wonderful comments about what that probably stood for....the best being "Dumb Sh** NY Fan" So i had them change it to my old HS nickname....my favorite Coach and mentor gave it to me. |
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12-24-2012, 02:26 PM | #337 |
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If she really is a bitch and shes just nice on the exterior that will come out soon when your married. Id never admit snooping though...but I would consider what life will be like w this woman ten yrs from now....
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Anyway she found out about you looking at her phone? She might of just said these things to call you out on it. |
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12-24-2012, 02:31 PM | #340 |
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12-24-2012, 02:52 PM | #342 |
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just dump this bitch....find yourself a nice alcoholic chick in the smoking section at next seasons home opener
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12-24-2012, 03:03 PM | #343 |
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12-24-2012, 03:09 PM | #344 |
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Not reading the thread, but I ****ing hate my wife's family but my wife knows that.
Soooooooooo....I can't tell you what to do. |
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12-24-2012, 03:33 PM | #345 |
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I guess I was lucky. my fiance and her daughters were honest about not liking my father. It's something I've heard from all my friends and girlfriends since Jr. High. So I'm used to it.
Some personalities clash and sometimes those personalities are meaningful and close to you. Yeah, it sucks, but no one can make everyone happy. confront her? Yes. You aren't married. Honesty and communication are VERY important to a relationship...even if you don't agree or understand. give her props for hanging in their and doing things (spending time with your family) that she doesn't like, but explain to her that they are your family, you love them, and will forever be tied to them. Hopefully both of you can be understanding and come to an mutual agreement of something that will satisfy you both. |
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