Things never cease to amaze me...

[badgirl]

Night before last the boy who mows my yard came up to get paid and he kinda rubbed my fingers as he took the money. Well I thought kinda strange, but maybe I was reading to much into it, until less than 5 min later I got a text that said

"Don't you get lonely sitting there all alone"

I said no my boyfriend came up almost every evening.

He then asked if I would like to see him naked...this boy is 18 years old!!!

I told him he was younger than my children and I had absolutely no interest in him naked or otherwise. I also told him to lose my number and I would be getting someone else to mow for me.

He said he was sorry and if he could still mow for me and for me to please not be mad at him.

I of course refused to let him mow and asked him to never contact me again via text, phone or in person. He lives right down below me. I now do lock my doors at all times and close every blind in the house at night. He kinda gave me the spooks. How weird can things get in this world?

[Ebolapox]

I could actually explain the whole dynamic via the theory of sexual selection (a subset/theory of natural selection), but it would bore everybody to tears. I could go into the 'red queen theory' as well as e.o. wilson's groundbreaking ideas on why the sexes 'do what they do' in various species... but it'd be a waste of time... it's already been done in much more concise language:

Originally Posted by laz

men like looking at women's boobs

[KCrockaholic]

I have a feeling that when Luv watches porn, she watches it for the Woman, not the man. And there is nothing wrong with that.

[RedNFeisty]

Originally Posted by H5N1

I'm sure visually means something to women... but there are reasons that skuzzy/sleazy dudes who don't look great get into women's pants... charm, confidence and a silver tongue will get you a LONG way in this world.

How right you are, sir! But, leave out the skuzzy/sleazy dude part.

[Ebolapox]

Originally Posted by RedNFeisty

How right you are, sir! But, leave out the skuzzy/sleazy dude part.

you say that, but every woman likely has at LEAST one skuzzy/sleazy dude (that they didn't know was skuzzy/sleazy before admitting them into the pants party)

[Mr. Laz]

Originally Posted by H5N1

I'm sure visually means something to women... but there are reasons that skuzzy/sleazy dudes who don't look great get into women's pants... charm, confidence and a silver tongue will get you a LONG way in this world.

i understand that ... looks aren't the end all, be all.

often times the hottest women are also the biggest bitches so there is always more to "attraction" than looks ... especially when it comes to a real relationship.

but to have the fundamental knowledge ... the basic concept that "females are more attractive than men but i like men" is just bizarre to me.

sounds like the only thing keeping women from all being lesbian is societal taboo.

[luv]

Originally Posted by kcrockaholic4life

I have a feeling that when Luv watches porn, she watches it for the Woman, not the man. And there is nothing wrong with that.

I do, actually. There are certain things I look for, but won't go into that.

[Mr. Laz]

Originally Posted by Bump

fyp

my stupid fingers never listen to my brain ... they just type what they want.

[RedNFeisty]

Badgirl, I think you may have over reacted just a touch. It had to of taken that little 18 yr a lot of nerve to text a cougar such as yourself, then you go and smack him down like that? You could have of least let him down gently while keeping his mowing job. At least his first text wasn't asking if you would be willing to blow him.

[Mr. Laz]

Originally Posted by luv

I do, actually. There are certain things I look for, but won't go into that.

you already have if i remember correctly.


in the past, you talked about how you imagine yourself in the place of the woman or something.

[Ebolapox]

Originally Posted by Laz

i understand that ... looks aren't the end all, be all.

often times the hottest women are also the biggest bitches so there is always more to "attraction" than looks ... especially when it comes to a real relationship.

but to have the fundamental knowledge ... the basic concept that "females are more attractive than men but i like men" is just bizarre to me.

sounds like the only thing keeping women from all being lesbian is societal taboo.

that and a lot of complex behavioral ideas that lay in the realm of sociobiology.

studies DO show that women tend to lean more on the bisexual side than men, fwiw (kinsey scale, if memory serves).

[luv]

Originally Posted by Laz

i understand that ... looks aren't the end all, be all.

often times the hottest women are also the biggest bitches so there is always more to "attraction" than looks ... especially when it comes to a real relationship.

but to have the fundamental knowledge ... the basic concept that "females are more attractive than men but i like men" is just bizarre to me.

sounds like the only thing keeping women from all being lesbian is societal taboo.

Maybe attractive is the wrong word. There's more to appreciate in the beauty of a woman's body. Men just look kind awkward. They have the equipment I like though.

[RedNFeisty]

Originally Posted by H5N1

you say that, but every woman likely has at LEAST one skuzzy/sleazy dude (that they didn't know was skuzzy/sleazy before admitting them into the pants party)

Now your skuzzy/sleazy definition may be different then mine. When I think skuzzy/sleazy, I think no teeth, doesn't bath, and so forth.

[Mr. Laz]

Originally Posted by luv

Maybe attractive is the wrong word. There's more to appreciate in the beauty of a woman's body. Men just look kind awkward. They have the equipment I like though.

men are so much simpler

[jAZ]

Originally Posted by badgirl

Night before last the boy who mows my yard came up to get paid and he kinda rubbed my fingers as he took the money. Well I thought kinda strange, but maybe I was reading to much into it, until less than 5 min later I got a text that said

"Don't you get lonely sitting there all alone"

I said no my boyfriend came up almost every evening.

He then asked if I would like to see him naked...this boy is 18 years old!!!

I told him he was younger than my children and I had absolutely no interest in him naked or otherwise. I also told him to lose my number and I would be getting someone else to mow for me.

He said he was sorry and if he could still mow for me and for me to please not be mad at him.

I of course refused to let him mow and asked him to never contact me again via text, phone or in person. He lives right down below me. I now do lock my doors at all times and close every blind in the house at night. He kinda gave me the spooks. How weird can things get in this world?

Nicely done. I particularly liked the "18" and "lose my number" bits. Sounds totally authentic. I'd say that's a pretty strong cover.

[Ebolapox]

Originally Posted by RedNFeisty

Now your skuzzy/sleazy definition may be different then mine. When I think skuzzy/sleazy, I think no teeth, doesn't bath, and so forth.

nope. there are varying definitions for sleazy/skuzzy though. it can be physical, but to me, it's likely more mental... some use the term 'creep,' and it would apply here