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11-19-2012, 02:52 PM | #91 |
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You can't let this jackass keep you from your Mom, if you do he wins.
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11-19-2012, 02:54 PM | #92 |
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I haven't read a single response, but I say you go to be with your family. You take this time to show you love and support them, but make it very known that you will not stand by and let some man abuse your mother. Make your presence known and let him know without words that you will always be by her side and do what it takes to protect her even if she doesn't have the sense to do it herself.
Remember love is blind and most people don't want to be alone. They need someone to love them, even if it is false love.
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11-19-2012, 03:01 PM | #94 | |
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I don't know what "political definition" means, but I'm using a regular English definition and common sense. I don't know anything about tooge's mother or what she considers "verbal abuse". If the guy once got pissed and called her an idiot because she let the neighbor kids use his Joe DiMaggio signed ball for their pickup ball game that's one thing. If he repeatedly threatened to dismember her and rape her dog if she didn't get his dinner ready on time, that's another. The only thing I know for sure is that neither you nor I know what it means in this case. I think it's probably best if you stop responding to me in any event. Thank you.
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11-19-2012, 03:01 PM | #95 |
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This. And again, I would start having things at your house instead of your moms. Then the ball is in her court to come over or not, and you don't look like the bad guy if you don't get together. She isn't going to want to be denied seeing her kids and grandkids for to long IMO before she tosses the dude out.
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11-19-2012, 03:17 PM | #97 |
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11-19-2012, 03:18 PM | #98 |
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Getting a pretty good laugh from some of you Oedipal ****ers.
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My recommendation is not to bury him on your own property.
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11-19-2012, 03:22 PM | #100 |
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11-19-2012, 03:23 PM | #101 |
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Don't further isolate your Mom. Domestic violence victims are often isolated and that enables the abuse to continue. She trusted you and now you are using information she gave you in confidence against her.
Show up and back up your words. You can even corner the jackass in private and tell him that there is no way in hell you will allow him to come between you and your mother. You only need to be adult and civil to the jackass. Not warm fuzzy. Your kids won't be in danger and your Mother deserves to see her grandkids. Just make it clear to her that it's too late to make alternate arrangements for this holiday but for Christmas and next year if her situation is the same then you will be making different plans.
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The boyfriend's LAST wife left him for abuse. The boyfriends' kids BOTH think that she should not be with him. The mother was talking about a restraining order.
Spin all you want, they obviously weren't just politely arguing. Quote:
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And in my experience once an abuser always an abuser.
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Edit: What possible reason could I have for wanting to "spin" this one way or the other? That doesn't make any sense at all.
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