Life Should I confront my fiance over text messages I found? - Page 8

threebag · 12-24-2012, 07:12 AM

Treat her like every other bitch has treated you. This is your chance to drive the field and score. Don't **** it up, Cassel.

Lex Luthor · 12-24-2012, 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ClevelandBronco

She needs to run as far from you as she can get, as fast as she can get there. You're never going to be worth the maintenance no matter how much dick or wallet you think you're slinging.

Hell, yes. Confront her. Give her a fighting chance to save herself before it's too late.

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Originally Posted by Saccopoo

Yeah, you should definitely confront her.

Because she was talking to her family in a private setting that you invaded/violated. (I'm sure that you have spoken to your family members about her family members and it's been all wine and roses...)

That will make her really happy. Knowing that she is going to have to look over her shoulder for the rest of her life as she now knows that she can't trust you to give her her space in life for the little "blow off steam" moments.

If she was texting people about sucking some guys dick or taking it in the ass on some internet organized gangbang then you might have a case.

However, you've basically ****ed yourself for the rest of your now short lived relationship because you are a snoopy **** who won't get the shit out of your head that she bagged on your family a little bit in private to her family like everyone does.

Good luck with this, but you are basically ****ed.

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Originally Posted by FAX

Wait until after Christmas then break it off. Immediately thereafter, find a psychiatrist because snooping into your fiance's private communications is not healthy. Neither is it normal. If you don't completely and entirely trust the person with whom you are planning to spend the rest of your freaking entire life, you are with the wrong person and your "trust issues" need some work, man.

FAX

These guys nailed it. You should tell her immediately so she'll know exactly what kind of jackass she is engaged to. She needs to know.

PhillyChiefFan · 12-24-2012, 07:15 AM

Tough call considering she'll probably go right to the "I can't believe you went through my texts!" defensive thing cause she's embarassed and busted...

That said....hell yea confront her, that's bullshit.

threebag · 12-24-2012, 07:17 AM

YOU CAN'T BEAT THE BITCH AT HER OWN GAME IF YOU DON'T TAKE THE FIELD.

Now get out there and win one for...

**DaKCMan AP** · 12-24-2012, 07:21 AM

Bang her - then confront her.

If she's not insane she won't put up with your invasion of privacy, but it's a conversation you need to have nonetheless.

**DaKCMan AP** · 12-24-2012, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Omaha

I didn't read the whole thread. Did anyone suggest PIIHB yet?

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Bang her - then confront her.

If she's not insane she won't put up with your invasion of privacy, but it's a conversation you need to have nonetheless.

Close.

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 12-24-2012, 07:24 AM

Yeah, he shouldn't have read her text messages. I love how this site completely gleams over her sins because his are somehow worse.

**DaKCMan AP** · 12-24-2012, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

Yeah, he shouldn't have read her text messages. I love how this site completely gleams over her sins because his are somehow worse.

Dissing his mom's cooking and calling his family boring couch potatoes is a sin?

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 12-24-2012, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Dissing his mom's cooking and calling his family boring couch potatoes is a sin?

I don't think he shared the "vicious" things she said about his family, probably because it was somewhat embarrassing. But I'll trust the OP that vicious, means vicious. And even still, yeah, talking shit about a family that has been nothing but sweet, and lovable to you is definitely a sin in my books.

**DaKCMan AP** · 12-24-2012, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

I don't think he shared the "vicious" things she said about his family, probably because it was somewhat embarrassing. But I'll trust the OP that vicious, means vicious. And even still, yeah, talking shit about a family that has been nothing but sweet, and lovable to you is definitely a sin in my books.

Is lying also a sin?

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 12-24-2012, 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Is lying also a sin?

Come on, man. Sin? Don't take that quote out of context. And of course lying is a sin. This needs to be discussed, because they both ****ed up. Both of them. Doesn't she lie every time she puts on a happy little front while thinking what a ****ed up family they are? This goes both ways, bro.

FAX · 12-24-2012, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

I don't think he shared the "vicious" things she said about his family, probably because it was somewhat embarrassing. But I'll trust the OP that vicious, means vicious. And even still, yeah, talking shit about a family that has been nothing but sweet, and lovable to you is definitely a sin in my books.

Not to be mean or anything ... just overly rational ... but how do we know that his family isn't a freaking pack of ogres? They could eat out of troughs and fart at the dinner table. She's nice to their faces out of fear that they will kill her and make soup from her bones and the only people with whom she can confide are her own family? How do we know that isn't the case?

FAX

**cabletech94** · 12-24-2012, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by FAX

Not to be mean or anything ... just overly rational ... but how do we know that his family isn't a freaking pack of ogres? They could eat out of troughs and fart at the dinner table. She's nice to their faces out of fear that they will kill her and make soup from her bones and the only people with whom she can confide are her own family? How do we know that isn't the case?

FAX

they might have big tittahs?

**Easy 6** · 12-24-2012, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

Yeah, he shouldn't have read her text messages. I love how this site completely gleams over her sins because his are somehow worse.

Lotta high horses prancing around.

R8RFAN · 12-24-2012, 07:29 AM

If you have so little trust in your woman to read her texts I think you are the one with the problem... Maybe she talks about your family because they are like you.

Kinda Obsessive man, you sound like a jealous guy with issues. She should dump you the minute you tell her you read her texts.

Don't know you so don't take it personal.

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