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Micjones · 01-09-2012, 11:29 AM

I had a discussion last night with my girlfriend about a relationship dilemma one of her closest friends is faced with. These kinds of conversations often serve as firestarters. If a man is too candid he can often represent an opinion that will be superimposed onto his own relationship.

So the two of us were talking about the process of a man "settling down".

I told her about a song I'd been listening to that gives the male perspective of this process. A skit preceded the song. In that skit a man lays out his account of how men always wrestle with the urge to sleep with other women. It was an "inside" conversation. The language was brash, but it was something most men could identify and stand in agreement with. Needless to say, she was repulsed by the idea that men are often desirous of other women. So now I'm in an odd position of having to answer to her about my own desires. I think women have these heart-warming ideas that a man who has committed himself to her no longer has an eye for other women. I think that's patently false.

Gents when you settled down to a monogamous relationship...
Was that a by-product of having sewn your oats or are you simply managing the urge to sleep with other women?

In taking to older male friends I've been told time and time again that the desire to be with other women never goes away...you just manage it for fidelity's sake.

True or false?

01-09-2012, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Nzoner

I'm sure she enjoys using the shock collar more than she'll ever let on.

Sometimes a shock collar would help me. I do some stupid stuff. I'm pretty sure we all do.

Micjones · 01-09-2012, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

Doesn’t matter. Talking in hypotheticals is still going to be reflected onto you. She was (subconsciously) waiting for you to say one thing, and focused solely on that once it was out of the bag.

Basically.

patteeu · 01-09-2012, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by rageeumr

The primal, instinctive urge never goes away. It might even get worse. But, in my case at least, it's repressed by my love for my wife, the desire to give the kids a stable family and the hesitance to lose half (or more) of my shit.

I agree with this.

BIG_DADDY · 01-09-2012, 04:45 PM

Attraction isn't a choice, how you deal with it is. Anyone that thinks just because you love somebody that goes away is fooling themself or has control issues. That reality fits on both sides of the isle.

scho63 · 01-09-2012, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Omega

Find a girl who likes threesomes. PROBLEM SOLVED.

Just your luck she says....."Yeah, I love threesomes! I'll invite my friend Mike over, he always joins me and my boyfriend's with all my threesomes."

**Iowanian** · 01-09-2012, 05:28 PM

You can take the dog out of the hunt, but you can't take the hunt out of the dog.

I'm faithful to brideowanian and will remain that way.

I've said in my world, I don't really want to sleep with other women, but I kind of miss finding out if I could sometimes. I wish there were a free pass to have discussions with attractive women, work your cool Fonzie moves, and at some point, pull out a score sheet like a golf card and have the woman sign off on what you'd get if you went home.

1. Slap
2. Oral sex
3. typical sex
4. filthy, cursing, sweating, donkey punch sex
5. anal
6. Denied, failure to launch her cooter curiosity.

Psyko Tek · 01-09-2012, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Micjones

To some degree this is dead on.
I thought I could have a grown up conversation with my lady and be candid about what men go through.
Now I realize that one other part of making a relationship work is lying to keep the peace.

today you are a man

**Iowanian** · 01-09-2012, 05:33 PM

She'd have time to think about other cocks more often if she weren't so busy planning the remodel of you.

Psyko Tek · 01-09-2012, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Pants

Queue Chris Rock's "Fresh Pussy" routine.

there's nothing like that new pussy smell

Jive Ass · 01-09-2012, 05:35 PM

When I'm in a relationship and things have gone well, especially given that the commitment I'm making to that person is something I cherish and take very seriously, I honestly don't have an eye for other women. I can look at and recognize that someone is good-looking, but I never find them sexually attractive. I guess being with the right person helps, and when I have been, the desire wasn't there.

Though, I can always tell when things aren't going quite right, because then I do surely have some other attractions. I would never act on them, but they are a tell-tale sign for me that something is awry in my current arrangement. My two cents.

Psyko Tek · 01-09-2012, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Micjones

I had a discussion last night with my girlfriend about a relationship dilemma one of her closest friends is faced with. These kinds of conversations often serve as firestarters. If a man is too candid he can often represent an opinion that will be superimposed onto his own relationship.

So the two of us were talking about the process of a man "settling down".

I told her about a song I'd been listening to that gives the male perspective of this process. A skit preceded the song. In that skit a man lays out his account of how men always wrestle with the urge to sleep with other women. It was an "inside" conversation. The language was brash, but it was something most men could identify and stand in agreement with. Needless to say, she was repulsed by the idea that men are often desirous of other women. So now I'm in an odd position of having to answer to her about my own desires. I think women have these heart-warming ideas that a man who has committed himself to her no longer has an eye for other women. I think that's patently false.

Gents when you settled down to a monogamous relationship...
Was that a by-product of having sewn your oats or are you simply managing the urge to sleep with other women?

In taking to older male friends I've been told time and time again that the desire to be with other women never goes away...you just manage it for fidelity's sake.

True or false?

did you ask if she was bi?

Micjones · 01-09-2012, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Psyko Tek

today you are a man

I just hate having to do that.

KChiefs1 · 01-09-2012, 07:23 PM

Does it make a difference if you have kids or not????

01-09-2012, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by KChiefs1

Does it make a difference if you have kids or not????

Most men are still men whether they have kids or not.

**hometeam** · 01-09-2012, 08:13 PM

I wanna **** basically every decent looking, non fat woman that I cross.

DO I TRY?

Nah.

Girls do the same thing, if they say they dont, they are 100% downright lying.

01-09-2012, 11:29 AM
Micjones Whose house? Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: KCMO Casino cash: $10005180	Other women. I had a discussion last night with my girlfriend about a relationship dilemma one of her closest friends is faced with. These kinds of conversations often serve as firestarters. If a man is too candid he can often represent an opinion that will be superimposed onto his own relationship. So the two of us were talking about the process of a man "settling down". I told her about a song I'd been listening to that gives the male perspective of this process. A skit preceded the song. In that skit a man lays out his account of how men always wrestle with the urge to sleep with other women. It was an "inside" conversation. The language was brash, but it was something most men could identify and stand in agreement with. Needless to say, she was repulsed by the idea that men are often desirous of other women. So now I'm in an odd position of having to answer to her about my own desires. I think women have these heart-warming ideas that a man who has committed himself to her no longer has an eye for other women. I think that's patently false. Gents when you settled down to a monogamous relationship... Was that a by-product of having sewn your oats or are you simply managing the urge to sleep with other women? In taking to older male friends I've been told time and time again that the desire to be with other women never goes away...you just manage it for fidelity's sake. True or false?
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01-09-2012, 04:45 PM	#109
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01-09-2012, 05:28 PM	#111
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $1788454	You can take the dog out of the hunt, but you can't take the hunt out of the dog. I'm faithful to brideowanian and will remain that way. I've said in my world, I don't really want to sleep with other women, but I kind of miss finding out if I could sometimes. I wish there were a free pass to have discussions with attractive women, work your cool Fonzie moves, and at some point, pull out a score sheet like a golf card and have the woman sign off on what you'd get if you went home. 1. Slap 2. Oral sex 3. typical sex 4. filthy, cursing, sweating, donkey punch sex 5. anal 6. Denied, failure to launch her cooter curiosity.
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01-09-2012, 05:35 PM	#115
Jive Ass Livin' in the Pacer Join Date: Nov 2010 Casino cash: $5546499	When I'm in a relationship and things have gone well, especially given that the commitment I'm making to that person is something I cherish and take very seriously, I honestly don't have an eye for other women. I can look at and recognize that someone is good-looking, but I never find them sexually attractive. I guess being with the right person helps, and when I have been, the desire wasn't there. Though, I can always tell when things aren't going quite right, because then I do surely have some other attractions. I would never act on them, but they are a tell-tale sign for me that something is awry in my current arrangement. My two cents.
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01-09-2012, 08:13 PM	#120
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