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03-27-2006, 12:15 PM | #16 | |
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03-27-2006, 12:16 PM | #17 |
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The parents of every offensive player on the Chiefs has wondered the same thing the last 5 years. Do I keep letting my child be disappointed by the defense, or do I call his agent and demand a trade?
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Unless he's unhappy about how he's playing, or he is disturbed because he is clearly hurting the team....let them have fun, and just play. If it's an issue at all, maybe a rec team would be better for such a kid....but only if he's no longer enjoying the team he's been on....IMO.
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I don't see being on a mediocre team as being bad so long as he's happy. It's just the idea that he'd be deliberately placed to shine around lesser athletes that pricks me a bit. Plus... Kids get bored. Especially if they can't get any better or have a goal to strive for.
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If he wasn't, I definately would try to find him a better fit. Maybe something slightly better than he is vs. completely out of his league... but that's just me. FWIW, he could be on a 3-7 team and he'd be fine as long as he's playing... he just wants and loves to play. But I hear about how serious things are going to get and soon and it makes me wonder.
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Girls just dont act like raving lunatics. Doesn't mean they don't want to win. And I'm certainly not talking about the girls playing volleyball so they can get out of 6th period.
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FWIW, my son hates to lose but doesn't have that 'win at all cost' competative nature. I have told him that winning isn't as important at this age as is having fun and LEARNING. Have I killed his cut throat instinct?
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Isn't that about the age at which kids have to try out for teams in middle school?? I would say a lot of it could be because of how the parents are handling the situation. They are forcing their kids to live sports, which is something either the parents couldn't do or did and just can't let go.
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Not to hijack the thread, but this is an interesting question. I think at the higher levels of competition, it's probably true that females and males are both highly competitive and each savors and pursues victory in a similar manner. (However, at the very highest levels, the financial rewards for men are much greater, and of course they get chicks, which is not to be underestimated.) At the more moderate levels and lower levels, I think women have a bit more choice or more conflict, depending on your line of thinking. A male who doesn't do well at sports is failing at a basic trait of masculinity, which is a bad thing in the viewpoint of many of his peers and of society, however flawed those expectations may be. A female who doesn't do well at sports is behaving in a more classic feminine manner, which is approved by many of her peers and society, however flawed those expectations may be. Therefore, for a male athlete at the lower levels of a sport, his competition in sports is an all-or-nothing, do-or-die deal. He's either good at it and upholds the ideals of masculinity, as well as getting an ego boost, or he's a non-masculine failure (in the eyes of some/many). For a female, she can choose (or is forced to choose) between two models: non-feminine sports winner with the ego boost of success, or feminine non-athlete, which is not a bad image in some/many views. Thus, the casual female athlete has less incentive for success and more internal conflict associated with success. If you've read this far, submit your name to me and you will receive one hour of college credit in the Sports Psychology program at Rain Man University.
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