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03-27-2006, 12:36 PM | #31 | |
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03-27-2006, 12:37 PM | #34 | |
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03-27-2006, 12:39 PM | #35 | |
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As for your kid, his situation sounds fine. As for being worried about the competitive aspect of it, don't...unless it's become a problem for him becoming TOO competitive, TOO obsessed with winning--which would take a lot, IMO. Otherwise, if he's having fun....leave it alone.
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03-27-2006, 12:40 PM | #36 | |
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03-27-2006, 12:40 PM | #37 | |
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Keep in mind that you people never pay for dates, though, so it more or less evens out.
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03-27-2006, 12:42 PM | #39 | |
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High school and younger; there's a marked difference in the level of competitiveness between girls and boys, in my experience. SOME girls....the ones who also will probably compete in college, no; on average though, yes....IMHO.
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But with the knowledge that there is only one 'champion' at most sports, shouldn't there also be an appreciation and love of the game that transcends competition? Is it wrong to encourage your child just to play because they love doing it? Must one be indoctrinating their child to win or don't bother?
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I guess my concern is, can you turn off the cut throat and forget how to turn it back on? This wasn't really even an issue until I saw these parents leaving their kid on a team that he clearly should not have made in the first place. I've heard they complain about his playing time. I've tried to put myself in their shoes and I don't think I could leave him on a team where he clearly over his head. But then I've not been there so how would I know? We have tried to do what was best for him right NOW. I guess my fear might be that not challenging him enough at this age might catch up with us later. Maybe these parents are doing their kid a favor in some weird way.
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