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On the other hand, it annoys me when someone concedes just because they're losing.* If I'm up 46-0, I don't want the other person to quit, either. If we start a game, then by God we're going to finish it. It annoys me even more when someone concedes even if there's a chance that they could still come back and win. Have these people never heard of Frank Reich? * Interestingly, I've sometimes been called ruthless in games, because if I'm pounding someone, I still want to keep pounding. It's not ego in my case, but rather just a desire to see the product through to the end. I do exactly the same thing when I'm getting pounded.
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Your kid will be fine; as long as he's got coaches who are competitive-minded and not satisfied with medocrity--even if, as a coach you have mediocrity, he pushes them to over-achieve.....those coaches will keep the fire burning.
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03-27-2006, 12:56 PM | #49 | |
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I just do not want to get him on this merry go round any sooner than we must. Ten years old just seems insane. And yet, it's the wave of the future.
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03-27-2006, 01:02 PM | #51 | |
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If your kid loses his edge, so-to-speak, because he's been a performer on a mediocre team.....it will take one coach, one good team, one season of competition at the HS to get it back. That's been my experience... It will probably involve a conservative Republican capitalist coach who voted for Bush too--if you get a liberal Democratic progressive coach---run fast.....
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Thanks one and all for a great discussion. I have to run but would love more feedback if interested.
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03-27-2006, 01:20 PM | #55 | |
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I agree. I don't care if he's the best player. I want him to have fun and that means playing and it happens that the better players get to play more. The premier team we are on isn't full of sicko sports parents but I've heard those types of parents and teams are out there if you choose to try out and make them. Which leads me to the second point, we'll put in the time and money necessary at the appropriate age. I don't think 10 is it. I'm afraid though that if we don't partake of the insanity we'll be SOL when it really does start to matter. And I would hate to think our unwillingness to jump on the merry go round kept him from something he wants later on. Something he doesn't know he wants yet...and we aren't encouraging with any real vigor.
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Don't keep a kid on a mediocre team where he's the star player. Put him among better players where he'll be challenged to measure up to them, instead of being the go-to person all the time.
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IMO, 10 is definately too young to be pulling a kid out of recreation because of low skill level. Fun and fundamentals are the most important aspect at this age of children. If these two things are not emphasized right now, there will be a day when your kid will look back at his playing days and not remembering how much fun it was. What will he remember? Failure. Kids are pushed so hard to win that they can't enjoy the little things about sports and they know at the end of the game if they've lost - they've failed.
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Interesting thread.
I have a son that is a superstar in all sports. He was the MVP of his basketball and soccer teams (He's age 7 and just shot a 50 from the women's tees). We quit soccer this year because his team never lost a game in 3 years. We needed more of a challenge and so we signed up for flag football. I was volunteered into coaching and quickly learned that the old school hard-ass coaching that we grew up with in basball wasn't gonna cut it. The team consists of 10 players - 5 on 5 X 2. So I had a Team 1 and Team 2. I vacillated between having 2 equal teams and 1 good team vs 1 bad team. I made sure that each kid got his playing time. I even had my assistant count the number of plays to ensure we did it fairly. That gave us a nice 0-6 record. For the last 2 games I put the best kids in 75% of the time and we won both. It felt great to get the monkey off our backs. Parents wouldn't admit it to me directly but I felt the pressure to win even with 6 - 8 yr olds. We always had a great time on Saturdays but the losses stayed with me all week. I basically came away with 2 huge questions; 1) Is it fair to the superstars to share time with the day dreamers? 2) Is if fair to the day dreamers to get less playing time? In the end, everyone loves winning. I can remember being a scrawny kid that sat on the bench even though I worked harder than anyone. Our team went 19-1 one year and I barely ever played. For me, I was ok with that since I was a true team player. |
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