Life Whitlock with a good article on the Riley Cooper situation - Page 5

Fat Elvis · 08-02-2013, 07:40 AM

http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/w...d-learn-080113

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We, the media, will blow this Riley Cooper teachable moment. It’s what we do when it comes to race. We look for good guys and bad guys, villains and heroes. We choose the politically correct path rather than the road to understanding.

Riley Cooper
RILEY'S RUNAWAY MOUTH

Riley Cooper, a receiver for the Philadelphia Eagles, did and said something very, very stupid and disgusting. Drunk and partying in a sea of whiteness, Cooper apparently lashed out at a black security guard and threatened to "fight every n****r here".

A cellphone camera captured Cooper’s ignorance. It took a month, but the blogosphere unearthed the video and broadcast it to the world. The Eagles reacted responsibly, fining Cooper and forcing him to confront his mistake publicly with the media and privately with his teammates.

Watch what he said. Warning: Language is universally considered to be offensive . . .

I don’t expect the media to respond as responsibly. Too many of us will think the solution is for NFL commissioner Roger Goodell to suspend Riley Cooper. Too many of us will think Riley Cooper in no way reflects on all of us.

Well, I’ve been young, drunk, filled with athletic testosterone and partying in a sea of blackness. I’m glad there were no cellphone cameras then. I’ve been middle-aged, drunk, filled with non-athletic cholesterol and partying in a sea of blackness. I’m glad no one recorded the foolish thoughts I’ve uttered when I assumed no one around me would be offended.

Maybe most of the people working in the media are perfect, immune to impure, biased thoughts or actions. I’m not. And no one I know is. What happens with age and maturity is we get better at combatting our biases and keeping them from spilling out of our mouths. When we intellectually evolve, we get better at seeing the stupidity of our biases and not letting them dictate our actions.

I’m extremely distrustful of anyone who claims they’re free of biases. They’re dishonest or delusional.

For the most part, Riley Cooper handled his apology flawlessly. He forthrightly expressed the proper remorse and humbly answered every question.

“This is the lowest of lows,” Cooper said. “This is not the type of person I want to be portrayed as. This isn’t the type of person I am. I’m extremely sorry.”

There’s no room for Cooper to be totally honest. The media — social and legitimate — won’t allow Cooper to be transparent. What was captured on tape is a reflection of what type of person Cooper is.

He’s flawed. He’s a product of America’s conflicted melting pot. That is not a knock on America. We have racial issues because we’re the most diverse nation on the planet. We have trouble working through those issues because dishonesty and simple-mindedness are rewarded.

Like all of us, Riley Cooper is biased. He needs to admit that to himself so he can adequately combat his biases and be a force for positive change.

I used to be proudly homophobic. I used the F-word regularly. In 1998, while sitting in the New England Patriots press box, I got in a back-and-forth exchange with Pats fans and cracked a “joke” that ended with me asking, “Drew Bledsoe gay?”

The ensuing controversy started the process of me recognizing and realizing the utter ignorance of my homophobia. I used to be offended when people analogized the struggle for gay equality with black people’s struggle for equality. I now get it and understand their struggle benefits our struggle and the overall fight for fairness.

I hope Cooper is allowed to evolve. I hope we don’t demonize him to the point that he becomes John Rocker II and more entrenched in bigotry. I hope Cooper confronts who he is. He didn’t threaten to fight every n****r because there’s no bigotry in his heart and mind. He did it because he has failed to deal with who he really is.

He’s in the same denial most of us are in. I’m talking about all of us — black, white, brown and yellow.

I want to make one other point before I finish. Cooper’s transgression isn’t much of a locker-room issue for the Eagles. There are bigots of every color on sports teams. The beauty of sports is that teams force participants to put aside their biases and work together. Working together is different from liking or respecting each other.

Cooper isn’t a coach or executive with the power to hire and fire people based on his racial biases. Cooper is a player. He’s a 25-year-old kid with immature thoughts. His teammates will move on as long as he plays at a high level.

Racial slurs fly on football fields somewhat regularly. It’s a violent game that brings out the worst in people. My junior season at Ball State, I played against a white Northern Illinois defensive tackle who N-bombed me most of the afternoon. I kept shouting at his mostly black defensive teammates about why they would tolerate such a flaming idiot. The next year, the same guy was the most courteous opponent I played against all season.

Let’s help Cooper evolve and mature. We might be surprised by the results.

**DaneMcCloud** · 08-02-2013, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Devil's advocate on this, but if he's too ****ing dumb to not keep his mouth shut as a high profile person, then he's too ****ing dumb to be playing professional football.

Halfcan · 08-02-2013, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Carlota69

I love how Darren Sharper said he couldn't be on the team with the guy. Really? So, you mean to tell me he was on teams that never used derogatory language towards anyone?? Riiiighhhttt....

I love how high and mighty these people (in media and NFL) who are offended are. If you are offended by that kind of language from boys in the locker room, then you are in the wrong profession.

I also love how the Eagles are going to send him to 'pray the racist away" camp. Sensitivity training???

. So are they doing that for every player who says '****er" or 'Cracker" or "pillowbitergot". Every player in t

he league would be 'Sensitivity training".

Those players need to realize they **** up and say stupid racist, bigoted shit too, just like he did, and to give him some slack.

Darren Sharper was on the Internet minding his own business- looking up Christian sites and then BAM- he comes onto this video with the N word?

Or did he hear about it and just Knowing that the N word was used - was so Offended he just can't take it? He has Never used that word or Ever heard it before? All his friends, team mates and nobody he knows has never said it?

I feel better knowing the Darren Sharpton's in this world are here to protect us-lol

I can't wait until Obama steps in and files Federal Charges for violating the security guards Civil Rights. Maybe 20 years in Leavenworth having his mouth washed out with soap will do Coop some good.

ModSocks · 08-02-2013, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by blaise

That's another interesting thing - you have guys that have slapped women around, guys with multiple felonies, there's been guys that have killed people in DUIs and a host of other stuff, and they stay on rosters. But apparently being racist is worse. You hear people say he should basically lose his job.

Riley Cooper isn't even a racist. I find it hard to believe that a guy who plays in a sport dominated by black men is a racist.

He got drunk and said something stupid out of anger. That's it. Nothing more.

ModSocks · 08-02-2013, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Devil's advocate on this, but if he's too ****ing dumb to not keep his mouth shut as a high profile person, then he's too ****ing dumb to be playing professional football.

Not sure if serious.

Marcellus · 08-02-2013, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

Riley Cooper isn't even a racist. I find it hard to believe that a guy who plays in a sport dominated by black men is a racist.

He got drunk and said something stupid out of anger. That's it. Nothing more.

That's entirely too simple and is not a news story though.

Halfcan · 08-02-2013, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by blaise

That's another interesting thing - you have guys that have slapped women around, guys with multiple felonies, there's been guys that have killed people in DUIs and a host of other stuff, and they stay on rosters. But apparently being racist is worse. You hear people say he should basically lose his job.

Excellent point considering there have been more offseason arrest in the NFL this year then ever before.

Ace Gunner · 08-02-2013, 02:22 PM

alcohol = superman drug

Tombstone RJ · 08-02-2013, 02:23 PM

I liked Whitlock's article up and to the point where he equates sexual preferance with race. You can't choose your race. You can absolutely choose who and how you have sex.

ThatRaceCardGuy · 08-02-2013, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Maverick91579

Defintely not what I expected. I considered that between Jemele Hill, and Whitlock, they would of been painting this guy as the Anti Christ.

Impressive article, is impressive JWhit. Myself, a Caucasian who grew up in the hood in North Carolina, who spent many days running home from the bus stop because I was white, especially during the Rodney King riots, I have very little understanding of this. One day when playing pick up football in my neighborhood, after being called a cracker, honky, whitey all day long, laid out a guy on a pass play, and said something to the affect of, "keep your black ass down." 7 boys none white, beat my ass down. After all day of being called every white derogatory name in the book, I was stunned by this, and then I realized that race, and using anything racial just isn't called for under any circumstance.

I fought in two deployments, with Mexicans, Whites, Blacks, Hmongs, Asians, and honestly, race doesn't bother me.

What does bother me though, is late at night, when I am watching tv, and I see an add for blackpeople.com

Can you imagine a web site if it was called White people.com? Could you imagine the BACKLASH that would cause? The god father of my son, and my best friend is black, the first girl I ever had sex with, black, I have dated Mexican, white, black, Asian, and I have made derogatory remarks towards a person and included a racial tone to it. I have used derogatory remarks, all the time on COD, it slips out like a second language. "you are such a f##," on more than one occasion.

Im not homophobic, as most of the time, with my group that I run with, we have a gay guy on our team. Doesn't bother me. just something to say.

One time when Vince Carter was playing against the Timberwolves, and Wally Szerbiack (sp) was guarding him. Vince looked at the Timberwolves bench, and said, "If you leave this white boy on me, ill score 40." Its all unneeded bullshit. And I hate it. I hate it that we hold on to these racial tensions relentlessly, and make national stories out of this.

On twitter yesterday, I said in Jest, "when are the pounceys gonna be seen with their Free Riley Cooper hats."

There are people, who actually would defend Aaron Hernandez, but we crucify a racial slur as if it was murder. We as a society, need to get our priorities in order.

8 agree with everything you said except the black website stuff..but good post and spot on.

**DaneMcCloud** · 08-02-2013, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ

I liked Whitlock's article up and to the point where he equates sexual preferance with race. You can't choose your race. You can absolutely choose who and how you have sex.

How many lesbians have you banged?

TEX · 08-02-2013, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

I don't condone the use of that word, ever, but this shit has completely gotten out of hand.

Michael Vick killed dogs. Donte Stallworth killed a human being. Both played in the NFL afterward and neither were a distraction in the locker room.

Killers. Felons. Not a distraction.

But a drunk guy says the "N" word and he's on the verge of losing his job, forever, because he's now labeled a "distraction"? Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.

Riley's biggest mistake was saying "n****r" instead of "n***a". If he had said "n***a", it would have all been "okay", which makes this situation absolutely absurd.

Great take Dane - this racial sensitivity stuff is way out of hand these days especially if it's preceived white on black racism.

ModSocks · 08-02-2013, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Thatguy

8 agree with everything you said except the black website stuff..but good post and spot on.

What did he say that was wrong with the black website stuff? It's true.

Same goes for T.V. Totally acceptable for there to be a "BET", but imagine if some network tried to make a "WET"....all ****ing hell would break loose.

"White Entertainment Television? They only focus on white artists and white current events? RACIST"

ModSocks · 08-02-2013, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

How many lesbians have you banged?

Do bisexuals count?

**DaneMcCloud** · 08-02-2013, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

Do bisexuals count?

Nope.

Marcellus · 08-02-2013, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

What did he say that was wrong with the black website stuff? It's true.

Same goes for T.V. Totally acceptable for there to be a "BET", but imagine if some network tried to make a "WET"....all ****ing hell would break loose.

"White Entertainment Television? They only focus on white artists and white current events? RACIST"

They already have White Entertainment television, its called CMT.

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