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Old 01-04-2011, 07:55 AM  
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GF of 3 years left me yesterday....
She's going for her PhD, it takes up a lot of her time & I felt a tad bit neglected. I know it's tough for her as it is but I told her how I felt. She told me in response that she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore.....

I'm still young & I've left a long relationship (4 years) before but this was different. She was more than my gf but my best friend too.....I was planning on proposing to her later this year but that's clearly out the window.

I'm getting 50/50 opinions from people on if I should just let her be & move on or fight for the girl I love / my best friend. She was all torn up hysterically crying last night when the conversation was going on.....Don't know, felt like I needed to air it out to a different crowd than my friends. What y'all think?
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:32 PM   #151
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:32 PM   #152
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Sorry to hear that dude. Now we both don't have girlfriends and both have shitty hockey teams.
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:44 PM   #153
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Yes, I do believe that. There is no reason for anything to be hidden. If there are things being hidden, then there isn't true intimacy and you're wasting your time.
Absolutely right. If you don’t have trust, what do you have? It’s certainly not love.
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:46 PM   #154
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You share the power. She doesn't run the relationship. I daresay your wife never made you run after her or do other doggie tricks to prove yourself, no?
If I want to run a business, and I want it to succeed, I'm going to surround myself with people who are smarter than me. Those people are going to want to be wanted, they are going to want their talents appreciated; I am going to do whatever I can to keep them in my employment if I value their talents. Does that mean they run the business relationship? Do I have to give them raises, bonuses or whatever to prove my appreciation of their worth to the company? Anyone who wouldn't do these things for their best employees are flat out idiots.

Why wouldn't you do similar things for the one person who you would be willing to spend the rest of your life with? That is a far greater investment of your time, money and life than any business venture.
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:51 PM   #155
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Why wouldn't you do similar things for the one person who you would be willing to spend the rest of your life with? That is a far greater investment of your time, money and life than any business venture.
Would you put up with an employee who acts as if they don't care about the job, or otherwise jerks you around, no matter how valuable they are?
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:51 PM   #156
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sounds like she has moved on and she was crying hysterically because she cares about you a ton and hated the fact she knew she was breaking your heart...

I think it's best to just let her be...

when bad shit happens to me I just think "in 5 years I won't even be thinking about this" and then take a deep breath and treat yourself to a new video game or whatever your hobby is and try to keep your mind off of it...

it's tough dude but time heals all wounds
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:54 PM   #157
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Sorry to hear that dude. Now we both don't have girlfriends and both have shitty hockey teams.
well it is 2011, you 2 could always hookup
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:54 PM   #158
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:58 PM   #159
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Old 01-04-2011, 12:58 PM   #160
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Would you put up with an employee who acts as if they don't care about the job, or otherwise jerks you around, no matter how valuable they are?
No. But please explain to me how someone who is working on a Ph.D. and spent the past four years of their life with me jerking me around.
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Old 01-04-2011, 01:05 PM   #161
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No. But please explain to me how someone who is working on a Ph.D. and spent the past four years of their life with me jerking me around.
"she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore"

Gee, boss/partner/whatever, I really like working here but I just don't feel the same way about it anymore....
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Old 01-04-2011, 01:07 PM   #162
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You've had a four year relationship and a three year relationship? How young are you? Goodness.

Anyway, if she needs space to work on her education, then give it to her. I don't see why it has to be a "fight for her or forget her" type of thing. Check with her from time to time to see how she's doing. Put forth the effort to show her that you still care about her, but give her the space she needs. When she's done, see where things are at. Who knows? Maybe giving her space will give you time to step back and re-evaluate where you're at compared to where you want to be.
this is good advice, but I'd still make sure to get out and find some rebound sex asap.
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Old 01-04-2011, 01:32 PM   #163
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All women have a hidden agenda of some sort. Sorry to be the one to tell ya pal. The agenda can range from a wish to get jewelry for her B'day to wanting children. They love to hint around about stuff and they think that if your really love them then you should be able to just know what it is they are thinking.

As to "intimacy", I suppose you hide nothing from your "significant other"? If you say you don't, you aren't being real, dude.
I hide nothing from my significant other. There is no reason to. Believe it or don't, but it's the only way you have true intimacy with anyone.

Give me a reason why anything should be hidden.
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The perfect example is the question women always ask, "Do these jeans make me look fat?" Dude, if you don't lie about that question you will be in deep chit.
Those jeans don't make her look fat.
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Old 01-04-2011, 02:01 PM   #165
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I hide nothing from my significant other. There is no reason to. Believe it or don't, but it's the only way you have true intimacy with anyone.

Give me a reason why anything should be hidden.

...absolutely this.

...honesty IS always the best policy.
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