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**Buck** · 03-03-2013, 12:50 PM

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

**Lumpy** · 04-10-2013, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by something cooler

Well, buck made a good point earlier, atleast I went into it with honesty. Drunk Joey is horrifically blatantly honest. Tipsy Joey wonders if you and Gonzo have every tried oral sex with ice cubes.

Anyways, with the girl, I ended up getting way too emotional.

WTF?

As for the other stuff... you were "too emotional"? I'm not sure what that means. Care to elaborate?

Discuss Thrower · 04-10-2013, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Lumpy

WTF?

As for the other stuff... you were "too emotional"? I'm not sure what that means. Care to elaborate?

He cared too much?

**Lumpy** · 04-10-2013, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

He cared too much?

Obviously. But why would that screw up things with her? Unless, maybe she can't be with a man that shows his sensitive side?

**SAUTO** · 04-10-2013, 09:25 PM

Sounds like he was drunk, started telling her how he felt, then went into how every other girl has ****ed him over, all the while crying...

She ran away I'm betting.

Dude take lump's advice. Don't talk serious shit drunk.
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Discuss Thrower · 04-10-2013, 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lumpy

Obviously. But why would that screw up things with her? Unless, maybe she can't be with a man that shows his sensitive side?

Because I'm going to guess that being easily available isn't a turn on to a lot of people?

**Lumpy** · 04-10-2013, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO

Sounds like he was drunk, started telling her how he felt, then went into how every other girl has ****ed him over, all the while crying...

She ran away I'm betting.

Dude take lump's advice. Don't talk serious shit drunk.
Posted via Mobile Device

That was my guess. Either that or he was crying with an ice tray in his hand and it freaked her the hell out.

KurtCobain · 04-10-2013, 11:20 PM

No, I never bring up my old relationships.

Lumpy, honestly looking back at it I don't see why I ended up acting like I did. I was pretty far drunk when she texted me and I told her I had something to tell you and then finally I asked her my question.

The thing is, when I first posted about this on chiefs planet I was pretty sure that she wanted a relationship and I didn't want one. I had the same attitude when I started drinking.

Around the 1151 text is when sloppy confused smiling drunk Joey became whiny little depressed Pity me Bitch Joey. My mind suddenly switched from not wanting a relationship to wanting one and I was offended she didn't. I started being a Dick to everyone around me and I got in my feelings on Facebook saying how said I was and that she didn't like me. Pretty sure she saw those before I deleted them in the morning.

So I dunno what to do.

that one embarrassing text conversation followed by a short embarrassing phone conversation where I called then wouldn't talk and just sounded moody current change the fact we still like hanging out, right?

For some reason I feel like it does. today the only thing she said about it was yes she thought she got too deep... confuses me more because I thought I was the one that got to 'deep'.

Today was the second day in a row where we didn't see other, and before this we hadn't missed a single day since she messaged me on fb four weeks ago (we hadn't talked since October because she was trying to make things work with her kids dad.) Then she called me late and there was lots of awkward silence then we said weed see each other tomorrow.

Then this text

....
So there's the run down so can i get opinions as to wtf is going on? I'm lost. Is this going to be awkward now? Back to normal? Do you think she is confused with how I responded by being sad/bitchy on Facebook? Is that why she thought she got too 'deep'? I wonder where this is going to go from here... Relationship still possible in the future? I don't know what she qualifies as a relationship... I don't even know if I want to be in one..

I think I'm Way over thinking this, I KNOW, because now I feel stupid about the way I acted and the feelings I had, but could still use some advice.

ThaVirus · 04-10-2013, 11:42 PM

Dude, she just texted you saying she missed you 3 hours ago.

She still wants the D. You're in the clear.

KurtCobain · 04-10-2013, 11:45 PM

don't know if she really meant it though

BryanBusby · 04-10-2013, 11:56 PM

You're really over thinking this.

**DaKCMan AP** · 04-11-2013, 05:12 AM

Two things:

1. Common denominator between Buck & Joey miscommunication = text messages. When dealing with feelings, emotion, or serious subjects - talk in person or on the phone. Don't text.

2. Joey is way over-thinking. She still likes you. Keep going.

**SAUTO** · 04-11-2013, 06:31 AM

JFC guys you are making things WAY too difficult. just roll with it and have fun.

KurtCobain · 04-11-2013, 07:08 AM

I'm backing out of this thread, now.

**Lumpy** · 04-11-2013, 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Two things:

1. Common denominator between Buck & Joey miscommunication = text messages. When dealing with feelings, emotion, or serious subjects - talk in person or on the phone. Don't text.

2. Joey is way over-thinking. She still likes you. Keep going.

THIS.

Texting is no good, Joey. Lots of shit can get misconstrued via text, (or email, for that matter). The only exception is if this is your only form of communication with this girl, (which isn't the case), or if you're going to have a casual discussion.

Try not to overanalyze the situation either. She initiated a conversation and told you that she misses you. It sounds like you're golden.

Pasta Little Brioni · 04-11-2013, 10:20 AM

Jeez guys, those are things you need to talk about in person lol. Oh how I hate the text, facebook culture.

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04-10-2013, 09:25 PM	#709
SAUTO Shit Join Date: Jun 2008 Casino cash: $10039067	Sounds like he was drunk, started telling her how he felt, then went into how every other girl has ***ed him over, all the while crying... She ran away I'm betting. Dude take lump's advice. Don't talk serious shit drunk. Posted via Mobile Device*
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04-10-2013, 11:20 PM	#712
KurtCobain legend Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Independence, MO Casino cash: $-1557903	No, I never bring up my old relationships. Lumpy, honestly looking back at it I don't see why I ended up acting like I did. I was pretty far drunk when she texted me and I told her I had something to tell you and then finally I asked her my question. The thing is, when I first posted about this on chiefs planet I was pretty sure that she wanted a relationship and I didn't want one. I had the same attitude when I started drinking. Around the 1151 text is when sloppy confused smiling drunk Joey became whiny little depressed Pity me Bitch Joey. My mind suddenly switched from not wanting a relationship to wanting one and I was offended she didn't. I started being a Dick to everyone around me and I got in my feelings on Facebook saying how said I was and that she didn't like me. Pretty sure she saw those before I deleted them in the morning. So I dunno what to do. that one embarrassing text conversation followed by a short embarrassing phone conversation where I called then wouldn't talk and just sounded moody current change the fact we still like hanging out, right? For some reason I feel like it does. today the only thing she said about it was yes she thought she got too deep... confuses me more because I thought I was the one that got to 'deep'. Today was the second day in a row where we didn't see other, and before this we hadn't missed a single day since she messaged me on fb four weeks ago (we hadn't talked since October because she was trying to make things work with her kids dad.) Then she called me late and there was lots of awkward silence then we said weed see each other tomorrow. Then this text .... So there's the run down so can i get opinions as to wtf is going on? I'm lost. Is this going to be awkward now? Back to normal? Do you think she is confused with how I responded by being sad/bitchy on Facebook? Is that why she thought she got too 'deep'? I wonder where this is going to go from here... Relationship still possible in the future? I don't know what she qualifies as a relationship... I don't even know if I want to be in one.. I think I'm Way over thinking this, I KNOW, because now I feel stupid about the way I acted and the feelings I had, but could still use some advice.
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04-10-2013, 11:42 PM	#713
ThaVirus Settle this once and forever Join Date: Sep 2007 Casino cash: $2092369	Dude, she just texted you saying she missed you 3 hours ago. She still wants the D. You're in the clear.
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04-10-2013, 11:45 PM	#714
KurtCobain legend Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Independence, MO Casino cash: $-1557903	don't know if she really meant it though
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04-10-2013, 11:56 PM	#715
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04-11-2013, 05:12 AM	#716
DaKCMan AP Beloved & Awesome CP Celebrity Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Florida Casino cash: $6754952	Two things: 1. Common denominator between Buck & Joey miscommunication = text messages. When dealing with feelings, emotion, or serious subjects - talk in person or on the phone. Don't text. 2. Joey is way over-thinking. She still likes you. Keep going. __________________
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04-11-2013, 06:31 AM	#717
SAUTO Shit Join Date: Jun 2008 Casino cash: $10039067	JFC guys you are making things WAY too difficult. just roll with it and have fun.
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04-11-2013, 07:08 AM	#718
KurtCobain legend Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Independence, MO Casino cash: $-1557903	I'm backing out of this thread, now.
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04-11-2013, 10:20 AM	#720
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