Prayer Request I need the strength to be the best dad possible. - Page 3

**BossChief** · 08-12-2010, 04:20 PM

I just found out that my sons mother just passed away (in California) and that I need to go out there and get things in order to pick him up. Its a blessing because I want nothing more than to have my son, but it will be very tough because he has always lived with her. Im about to find out what being a single dad is all about real fast.

I know very little details beyond that, but if you could, please send a prayer for me to keep me strong through all this.

I will update you all as I get more information...

Gracie Dean · 08-12-2010, 09:01 PM

so sorry

**Lzen** · 08-12-2010, 09:21 PM

You got it, man. Prayers and good luck.

**doomy3** · 08-12-2010, 09:47 PM

I have no advice at all on any level of this, but best of luck in all of it. You'll be fine, and your son will be too. Sorry to hear about how all this happened, but hopefully there will be a silver lining.

ForeverChiefs58 · 08-12-2010, 10:15 PM

Wow. So sorry to hear that Boss. Prayers are with you. You are just what he needs now. Good luck with everything and please keep us updated. God bless.

**DaneMcCloud** · 08-12-2010, 10:39 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about this, BC. Best of luck moving forward, Dude.

I've got a close friend that specializes in family law in San Fran. I'm not sure if she takes on cases in San Jose but PM me if you'd like any assistance.

My condolences to you, the boy and his mother.

MOhillbilly · 08-13-2010, 08:00 AM

You got a shit storm comin Boss. Take it head on.

seclark · 08-13-2010, 08:42 AM

thoughts and prayers, boss. do what you need to do.
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BigOlChiefsfan · 08-13-2010, 09:09 AM

Best wishes. Go slow and do your best.

**Buehler445** · 08-13-2010, 09:14 AM

Wow. That's just what a kid that just found his mom dead... A courtroom to figure out where he's going to live.

Best of luck dude.
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**BigMeatballDave** · 08-13-2010, 09:34 AM

I'm sorry your son lost his mother. Good luck with the custody.

booger · 08-13-2010, 12:06 PM

sorry to all involved for the loss of mom.

little guy must be going through alot right now to say the least.

can't personally give you advice but looks like phobia gave you a great start. this place is good for that. God Bless!

ModSocks · 08-13-2010, 01:16 PM

Good luck man. Be patient. Teach him about Chiefs football!

**dirk digler** · 08-13-2010, 02:35 PM

Sorry to hear about this BC. Follow Phobia's advice and retain counsel ASAP.

**Smed1065** · 08-13-2010, 02:52 PM

Condolences.
Best wishes and thoughts.

**CrazyPhuD** · 08-13-2010, 03:52 PM

Wow sorry to hear about your loss. I hope your son is able to deal with it as best as it can be dealt with. Good luck with the custody issues hopefully it won't be a fight.

08-12-2010, 04:20 PM
BossChief SuperBowl or bust Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: BF Iowa Casino cash: $1854088	I need the strength to be the best dad possible. I just found out that my sons mother just passed away (in California) and that I need to go out there and get things in order to pick him up. Its a blessing because I want nothing more than to have my son, but it will be very tough because he has always lived with her. Im about to find out what being a single dad is all about real fast. I know very little details beyond that, but if you could, please send a prayer for me to keep me strong through all this. I will update you all as I get more information...
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08-12-2010, 09:01 PM	#31
Gracie Dean MVP Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $10004900	so sorry
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08-12-2010, 09:21 PM	#32
Lzen Supporter Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Jan Quadrant Vincent 16 Casino cash: $2210692	You got it, man. Prayers and good luck. __________________ If at first you don't succeed ...skydiving is not for you.
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08-12-2010, 09:47 PM	#33
doomy3 Supporter Join Date: Aug 2005 Casino cash: $5353539	I have no advice at all on any level of this, but best of luck in all of it. You'll be fine, and your son will be too. Sorry to hear about how all this happened, but hopefully there will be a silver lining.
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08-12-2010, 10:15 PM	#34
ForeverChiefs58 MVP Join Date: Mar 2009 Casino cash: $2905326	Wow. So sorry to hear that Boss. Prayers are with you. You are just what he needs now. Good luck with everything and please keep us updated. God bless.
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08-12-2010, 10:39 PM	#35
DaneMcCloud Supporter Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Hollywood, CA Casino cash: $10053648	I'm really sorry to hear about this, BC. Best of luck moving forward, Dude. I've got a close friend that specializes in family law in San Fran. I'm not sure if she takes on cases in San Jose but PM me if you'd like any assistance. My condolences to you, the boy and his mother.
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08-13-2010, 08:00 AM	#36
MOhillbilly Mama Tried Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Missouri Casino cash: $9949903	You got a shit storm comin Boss. Take it head on. __________________ True Son of Liberty
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08-13-2010, 08:42 AM	#37
seclark MVP Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: nemo Casino cash: $1669900	thoughts and prayers, boss. do what you need to do. sec __________________ "Mr. seclark. Wrong for gravy, wrong for jelly, wrong for biscuits." -rj "If every Planeteer who was disliked by another Planeteer stopped being a Planeteer we wouldn't have any Planeteers." -rj
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08-13-2010, 09:09 AM	#38
BigOlChiefsfan Certified Bourbon taster Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Shawnee KS Casino cash: $7230157	Best wishes. Go slow and do your best. __________________ A man can never own too much red wine, too many books, or too much ammunition. -- R. Kipling
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08-13-2010, 09:14 AM	#39
Buehler445 Supporter Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Scott City KS Casino cash: $2294734	Wow. That's just what a kid that just found his mom dead... A courtroom to figure out where he's going to live. Best of luck dude. Posted via Mobile Device
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08-13-2010, 09:34 AM	#40
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08-13-2010, 12:06 PM	#41
booger Don't Tug on Superman's Cape Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: clear out in the sticks Casino cash: $1488550	sorry to all involved for the loss of mom. little guy must be going through alot right now to say the least. can't personally give you advice but looks like phobia gave you a great start. this place is good for that. God Bless! __________________ 2 Chronicles 7:14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
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08-13-2010, 01:16 PM	#42
ModSocks Needs more middle fingers Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: San Diego Casino cash: $4274563	Good luck man. Be patient. Teach him about Chiefs football! __________________ Life is like a dick. Sometimes it gets hard for no reason, but it can't stay hard forever.
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08-13-2010, 02:35 PM	#43
dirk digler Please squeeze Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Clinton, MO Casino cash: $3234644	Sorry to hear about this BC. Follow Phobia's advice and retain counsel ASAP.
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08-13-2010, 02:52 PM	#44
Smed1065 Supporter Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Returning From Hell Casino cash: $7953673	Condolences. Best wishes and thoughts.
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08-13-2010, 03:52 PM	#45
CrazyPhuD Meow Join Date: Jun 2005 Casino cash: $10005050	Wow sorry to hear about your loss. I hope your son is able to deal with it as best as it can be dealt with. Good luck with the custody issues hopefully it won't be a fight. __________________ "Political correctness is a doctrine, fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media, which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a t*rd by the clean end"
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