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05-13-2010, 03:27 AM | #17 |
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Sorry for your loss Fax. Don't kick yourself too much over it. There was nothing that you could have done.
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05-13-2010, 07:16 AM | #18 |
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damn, man. sorry to hear about that.
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05-13-2010, 07:24 AM | #19 |
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Sorry to hear this FAX. Hang in there.
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05-13-2010, 07:24 AM | #20 |
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Sorry to hear, Mr FAX.
Don't beat yourself up too much. I've tried to step in and help people and have found that typically people are going to do what they are going to do despite what you do. The only time I've had success in helping folks is when they genuinely want to change. Its pretty natural to feel guilty, but don't let it get you down. Keep your head up. Posted via Mobile Device |
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05-13-2010, 07:31 AM | #21 |
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Good thoughts and best wishes your way, FAX.
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05-13-2010, 07:33 AM | #22 |
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Sorry Fax.
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05-13-2010, 07:36 AM | #23 |
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Sorry for your loss.
Life is indeed too frigging short.
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05-13-2010, 07:36 AM | #24 |
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That's awful, MR. FAX.
I'm sorry for your loss. Hang in there. |
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05-13-2010, 07:41 AM | #25 | |
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05-13-2010, 07:50 AM | #26 |
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I've never dealt with that specifically Mr. Fax, but I have tried to "be there" for people who are taking wrong turns in their lives and obviously wrecking them. At some point, we all want to know that we did all that we could. You don't feel that you did that, hence your anguish. The kicker is, there is a very good chance that nothing you could have done would have been enough, but I understand the anguish you feel. If you are a praying man, pray on that. You're a good man and a caring person, and you must know that there is only so much you can really take responsibility for in the case of your friend's suicide.
I won't say not to beat yourself up, because that's the natural thing for people who give a shit to do. Just don't dwell on it for too long. Mourn him, but not for too long, and then move on a wiser man.
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05-13-2010, 08:31 AM | #27 |
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My thoughts are with you and his family. Noone can know the pain that he was going thru to end his life. Hopefully, he is in a better place now.
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05-13-2010, 08:35 AM | #28 |
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That sucks man. Don't blame yourself at all. If he was to the point of suicide his problems ran so deeply that probably nothing could have helped him. Just feel better in knowing that he is out of his pain now.
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05-13-2010, 08:45 AM | #29 |
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When I was in college, one of my best friends hung himself in his parent's attic. It made me very angry, until I learned he had been diagnosed as schizophrenic about two weeks prior. Your friend may have been suffering from clinical depression or other mental incapacitation. You just can't know for sure. And you can't blame yourself. The worst thing about suicide is what it does to those left behind. It's a very selfish act. Unfortunately, those who commit the act don't realize how the effects go beyond themselves. I'm very sorry for your loss, and I know how you feel.
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05-13-2010, 08:50 AM | #30 |
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Keep your head up Fax.
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