How long would you wait? - Page 7

DJay23 · 07-01-2006, 05:29 PM

Alright imagine (if you are married) or consider (if you are not) that you are a single man (or woman, but this is written from a man's point of view) in your mid to late 20's. You've dated many people and have not found the one girl who makes your mint life saver spark. Then one day, you meet someone with potential. After some getting to know one another you feel very strongly that this could develop into "the one." She is your counterpart in almost every way you can recognize in a month and a half. But a snag. This person is just off a horrible break up and feels it necessary to give herself some more time to work through her pain from that, yet very much wants to be involved with you. She feels it's not fair to you to get involved while she's in such a bad place (those of you who have been cheated on after a long relationship know that feeling). Let's assume that you trust this person is genuine and isn't just playing you.

As near as you can tell, this is your dreamgirl. How long would YOU wait for her.

Yes, this is something I am asking myself at this very moment.

I thought about a poll, but I'd rather see your personally constructed responses. I don't think anyone will sway me one way or another, I'm just curious what others would say if in the same situation.

At this point in time, I'll stay patiently in the background until she is ready. No time limit for me. I feel that she is worth it...

ct · 07-03-2006, 08:58 AM

If you really think she's your one, why are you worried about rushing things? Just enjoy being with her.

**Iowanian** · 07-03-2006, 09:42 AM

I don't have anything positive to add....but reading this thread, I envision the author having morgan freeman throw a sword at a witch, while he's stabbing the evil Lord to save the lady....Brian Adams ballad ensues.

If that doesn't work for you.....He's in the mirror, envisioning himself as Danial Day Lewis in Indian Scout garb, about to jump off of a water fall....

"babah, Ah will fiiiiiind you"

07-01-2006, 05:29 PM
DJay23 Rock Chalk Jayhawk Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Williamsport, PA Casino cash: $2953317	How long would you wait? Alright imagine (if you are married) or consider (if you are not) that you are a single man (or woman, but this is written from a man's point of view) in your mid to late 20's. You've dated many people and have not found the one girl who makes your mint life saver spark. Then one day, you meet someone with potential. After some getting to know one another you feel very strongly that this could develop into "the one." She is your counterpart in almost every way you can recognize in a month and a half. But a snag. This person is just off a horrible break up and feels it necessary to give herself some more time to work through her pain from that, yet very much wants to be involved with you. She feels it's not fair to you to get involved while she's in such a bad place (those of you who have been cheated on after a long relationship know that feeling). Let's assume that you trust this person is genuine and isn't just playing you. As near as you can tell, this is your dreamgirl. How long would YOU wait for her. Yes, this is something I am asking myself at this very moment. I thought about a poll, but I'd rather see your personally constructed responses. I don't think anyone will sway me one way or another, I'm just curious what others would say if in the same situation. At this point in time, I'll stay patiently in the background until she is ready. No time limit for me. I feel that she is worth it...
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07-03-2006, 09:42 AM	#92
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