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12-24-2012, 11:26 AM | #211 |
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12-24-2012, 11:27 AM | #212 | |
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12-24-2012, 11:29 AM | #213 |
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12-24-2012, 11:31 AM | #214 |
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If my wife went though my text messages, she won't learn anything that I haven't already told her. She knows exactly how I feel about her family because I don't lie about it. The only time I tell her she can't go through my e-mails is when I've ordered a gift for her and want it to be a surprise. Marriage should be a partnership between two people who trust each other, not some endless sneaking cold war. My first marriage was like that. Not this one.
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12-24-2012, 11:34 AM | #215 |
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I think the bigger problem isn't reading the messages, but the fact that you thought you should.
When facebook came into play and we'd heard some of the stories about what happens, brideowanian and I had a discussion about it. The answer is that we have an open book policy. I've never asked, but if I do, I have the right to read anything she has in an email, message box or text, and that goes both ways. To my knowledge, we've neither one felt the need to follow up. A healthy relationship wouldn't contain messages that would be dangerous to the relationship. Bitching about your mother's shitty cooking isn't nice to read, but it's not the same as exchanging sexually suggestive notes with a coworker or something. Do the world a favor and don't get married until you're both mature enough for that commitment. |
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12-24-2012, 11:37 AM | #217 |
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My mother-in-law IS a shitty cook. And my wife already knows it because she's eaten much more of her cooking than I ever will.
Can't wait for tomorrow's runny/lumpy mashed potatoes. |
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12-24-2012, 11:50 AM | #220 |
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You sound very insecure reading her texts.
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12-24-2012, 11:51 AM | #221 |
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Some people have hinted around this so far but is any if the shit she is talking on your family true? If so then where's the problem?
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He broke trust by reading the text message She broke trust by talking shit about his family with someone beside him
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12-24-2012, 11:55 AM | #223 |
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Good for you. I'd like comments I made to another person to be private.
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12-24-2012, 11:59 AM | #225 | |
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